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Love has three years of pain, marriage has a seven-year itch, life can have several decades, we accompany each other for a lifetime, a lifetime is still too short. The real partner is the one who always accompanies you, encourages you, and supports you, the two originally came all the way from strangers, and the relationship between them from estrangement to familiarity to love, this process is bound to be accompanied by ups and downs, but also necessarily needs to experience suffering and setbacks.
Only those couples who can overcome the pain and itch in love marriage can go to the end, transform love into affection, and manage the happiness of the rest of their lives.
There is no eternal lover in this world, anyone's feelings are limited, love also has a shelf life, will die, will become flat because of each other's familiarity. If love is a heartbeat, then marriage is peace of mind, after all, love can be maintained close to passion, and marriage is indeed naked.
And once one thinks about life, one has to think more, such as the future, such as future generations, such as inheritance. Once you look at the long term, love becomes a regret that can be abandoned.
Xiao Yan and her boyfriend met in the university friends association many years ago, the two went to study in a different place, met the same country, there was always an endless topic between each other, chatting and chatting, and they actually sparked love between each other, and they became an official couple.
From 10 years of acquaintance between the two so far, there have been ten years, now both have been over thirty years old, but have not been married, in fact, not have considered the matter of marriage, but the boyfriend feels that the family is relatively poor, want to buy a house and a car, and then consider the problem of marriage, Xiaoyan also expressed understanding.
In 16 years, the two jointly ran a cake shop, Xiao yan, who was in the rising stage of her career, had endless orders every day, while her boyfriend, who could not cook, could only help with chores, but Xiao Yan never complained about it, and finally saved enough savings to buy a house. But because the purchase of a house at that time required a lottery, only the boyfriend's brother had a number, so he bought a house in the name of his brother, but the actual payment was Xiao Yan's shop.
In 18 years, the two bought a car, life seems to have developed in a good direction, the two also began to discuss marriage, and at the end of 19 decided to get married in 20 years. But Xiaoyan needs to conceive a child first.
Considering their ten-year love affair, Xiao Yan agreed, but in fact, she knew in her heart that as early as 16 years ago, because of saving money by buying a house, in the case of only one pastry chef in the store, she made at least 50 cakes a day, hurting her body.
Later, after eating Chinese medicine for more than half a year, he still did not get better, so he chose to tell his boyfriend the truth, but after the boyfriend heard the news, he directly evaporated in the human world, blocking all of Xiaoyan's contact information. The property is hung with the name of the boyfriend's brother, the car is used by the boyfriend's household, Xiaoyan paid ten years of youth, and in the end she was betrayed so much.
When she was young, she exchanged her life for money, often stayed up late, lacked sleep, and was originally weak, Xiao Yan eventually fell ill, and her boyfriend, after squeezing out the last trace of Xiao Yan's use value, never appeared again, hurting Xiao Yan's heart.
In fact, in the ten years that the two lived together, it was not that they had not considered marriage, but the boyfriend repeatedly shirked under various excuses, either the family had no money, and they were not ready for the marriage room and scooter, or they asked the girlfriend to get pregnant before getting married.
It is understandable not to prepare the marriage room, after all, marriage is to form a family, you need a place to shelter from the wind and rain, but to get married, you must first get pregnant, which is somewhat unreasonable
In fact, the two have been together for ten years, each other can be said to know the roots, the original passion that belongs to love has long ceased to exist, the relationship between the two has become a trap of interest involvement and language deception construction, Xiao Yan wishful thinking, foolishly believe in love, the boyfriend is hidden deeply, and disappears after the caravan is swept away.
Such a scene that is seen as a movie section happened in real life, which really surprised people and did not dare to believe in love anymore. Girls pay for their youth, give their bodies, and give everything for love, but they are betrayed by premeditated, which also makes people feel sorry.
There is no eternal love, there will be no eternal couple, only the bondage of the family is the strongest, if you want to talk to the object about a love that never breaks up, nor step into the marriage, then die this heart early.
Because such a relationship is not guaranteed, there is no constraint on each other, and it can be more unscrupulous, and when the love factor disappears, only mutual use and satisfaction are left between each other.
This is a real emotional story that happened in Wuhan, as a victim, Xiao Yan has not been able to wait for a reply from her boyfriend, and her boyfriend has always refused to show his face, and even cannot contact the other party. Ten years of youth, in the end, they can only go to court, tear each other's faces, and materialize their feelings into interest exchanges, the reason is only because they cannot have children, it is inevitable that people will sigh.
In fact, Xiao Yan's conditions are good, her appearance is also possible, and her economic ability is independent, but she hanged herself on a scumbag tree, and was stupidly squeezed out of the use value and abandoned.
Girls should know more about loving themselves, protecting themselves, and not easily giving everything for love, because you will find that you can't afford to lose.
If your efforts are delayed in getting the other party's response, then you must know how to stop the loss in time, love is two-way, it is the mutual choice of two people, but also the payment of two people to each other, if you always spend your feelings in one direction, in the end it will only fall deeper and deeper, even you don't love yourself, how to live?
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