After men get married, there are always some people who want to pursue an inexplicable sense of vanity and want to have face. So these men will let their wives act as a tool for acting at their side.
For example, after the family has relatives, these men will superficially make their wives obey their own orders, so that they will look like the rulers of the family in front of outsiders.
Especially in front of these outsiders, these men will not give their wives a little respect. It seems that only in this way can you reflect how good you are in front of others. In marriage, these men will not give their wives any good looks, and even feel that after getting married, their wives will be an accessory to themselves.
The two roles of mother and wife should sometimes be equal in men's minds. Because these two women are characters who will paint a lot of ink in their lives. But even some men are more inclined to their mothers.
When Li Meng first got married, she had a spare money in her hand, so she and her husband paid a down payment in the city and bought a new house. But the future mortgage still has to be repaid every month, so it can be said that the daily pressure of two people is still relatively large, Li Meng wants to work in peace and security, and strive to live a better life. But I didn't expect that my husband was a very good-looking person, and sometimes he usually didn't think about the family situation.
01. First encounter with a husband
When Li Meng first started working, he thought that he would definitely make a career in this city, and when the time came, he would let his relatives in his hometown look at him with admiration, which was the only goal he could still stick to in this city.
And at that time, Li Meng did not think about finding a man to fall in love at all. After all, falling in love also requires expenses, but also requires a certain cost, and he is now just a young man who has just entered and exited society, so Li Meng has not thought about falling in love.
But when love comes, it is always caught off guard, and when Li Meng first met Feng Jin, she was just a glance that passed by. The place where the two people rent is in the same community, so in the supermarket of the community, the two people often meet, and when they first meet, Li Meng just thinks that the boy looks good and is still at the edge of his eyes.
Although she had such an idea, Li Meng did not think of taking the initiative to have a deeper communication with this boy. But after a while, once the two people met again in the supermarket, the boy directly pulled out his mobile phone, hoping to be able to add a WeChat friend to Li Meng.
Li Meng also added each other's friends out of courtesy. Follow-up is like people often hear the development, the two people quickly chatted on WeChat very hot, in a casual, Li Meng was confessed by Feng Jin.
Although Li Meng said not to talk about love, if it is true that love should come, Li Meng will certainly not miss this opportunity. I began to fall in love with Feng Jin and the two of them, and often went out to play together during the holidays, or made a date plan.
02. After getting married, I found that my husband loved face
During the period of love, Li Meng did not find any not so good shortcomings in her boyfriend, and only felt that the personalities of the two people were still in tune, so Li Meng wanted to stabilize her life with this boyfriend. Li Meng talked to Feng Jin about marriage, and Feng Jin also happened to have this thought, so soon the two of them got married.
After getting married, Li Meng and Feng Jin made up money and bought a relatively more remote house in the city. But the advantage of being biased is that you can buy a larger area for the same price.
After the two people spent this money, the remaining money on hand could only be enough for two people, just enough to repay the mortgage with more money, and really couldn't get it out. But his husband actually boasted to his friends outside, saying that he was particularly capable. He also lent out the last bit of savings saved by the two people.
When Li Meng knew about this matter, she was particularly angry in her heart, and felt that she should also have the right to know about this matter. How could Feng Jin casually lend out the money of the two people like this, and the life of the two people was not particularly rich now, they had just bought a house, how could they lend the money to others.
But Feng Jin said that he couldn't let himself have no face outside. Now the friends around them know that buying a house is enough to prove that they are very capable, and they can't casually say in front of their friends that they are particularly poor now.
The two people have been arguing about this matter, but the quarrel has finally become settled.
03. Relatives from the husband's hometown came over
When Feng Jin and Li Meng first got married, they simply held a wedding, and Li Meng followed Feng Jin and the two of them to their hometown for a walk, but Li Meng did not have much communication and contact with Feng Jin's relatives.
Therefore, after Li Meng knew that those relatives in Feng Jin's hometown were going to live for a while, Li Meng also had some panic in his heart, after all, he didn't know how to communicate with those people, so he discussed this matter with Feng Jintian at home every day.
Feng Jin only said his own request.
"When those people from my hometown come, you will definitely give me a good service." And you know I'm a man, and I'm developing in a big city, and they all think I'm particularly capable. So these days you have to make my mother happy, and you have to let my relatives know that our family is rich. ”
Li Meng knew that Feng Jin had a good face, and this problem was committed again, but it was true that after those people in his hometown came, they could not casually fool others.
04. Can't stand the husband's decision to divorce
By the next Monday, Li Meng saw her husband's relatives coming with big bags of things. Fortunately, the house bought by two people is relatively large, just enough to be able to live at home, do not need to live outside the hotel, just to save a lot of money.
These people came to the city only to hear Feng Jin say that he had the ability in the big city, so he asked people to come and travel together. Moreover, it is said that after all the people came, the expenses were covered by themselves, so everyone came happily.
The mother-in-law also followed the team, and the mother-in-law also told Li Meng that this matter must be handled very properly. These people can't be allowed to see their own jokes.
Finally, these seven days had passed, and Li Meng had finally made up his mind and talked to Feng Jin about his thoughts.
"Husband, your relatives from your hometown have been here for seven days, I spent eighty thousand, your mother smiled, we should leave." You also know that this 80,000 yuan is not a small amount, although you say that our family is very rich, but the most real situation of our family you also understand. ”
After Li Meng said this, he divorced Feng Jin, after all, a good face like Feng Jin would definitely be dragged down.
Sometimes divorce is also a means for women to protect themselves, after all, in marriage, women have to pay more for the family, but sometimes it is easy to be ignored by their husbands, or ignore the efforts they make. Instead, he still said some very hurtful things to his wife in his usual words.
When two people got married, they must have the idea of wanting to live a good life, but who can guarantee that the future life can be smooth and stable, and no one can believe that the person next to them must be able to feel the same about their feelings as before
So once you find that your feelings have some rifts, you can make some ways to solve this matter, but if the relationship has indeed come to an end, then don't continue to entangle, it is not very good for both people.
Marriage is sometimes a thing for women to ensure their own lives, but sometimes marriage can also bring women a lot of pain and suffering.