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01. Preface
Love is the most wonderful adventure in the world.
Love, let the strangers in the world meet, and then love each other, let each other's world blend, and produce new stories and life scenes.
"Once Upon a Time Slow" wrote: "Once upon a time the sun became slow, the carriages and horses and mail were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime." ”
In the rolling red dust, being able to walk into marriage with one person and accompanying you for the rest of your life is a kind of high-level romance, but also a kind of affection.
On the road of life, everyone will have a different identity. As a man, he is a husband, a father, a son, a grandfather...
A man's maturity begins with the first change of identity in his life.
"Husband" is the identity that a man has for the first time to have a role change.
When a man has the identity of a "husband", he will become very gentle, there is love in the eyes, and there is temperature in the palm of the hand, so that the beloved woman can feel the sincerity of the feelings.
What is a "husband"?
02, husband, is a flat burden in the family
Men, like a flat burden in the family, provoke the responsibility and responsibility of the family.
Zhang Ailing said: "Middle-aged men often feel lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there are no people he relies on." ”
As a husband, he has to shoulder the responsibility of supporting the family. There are children, the elderly, and the wife at home, and every month they have to consider the expenses of the family, the education of the children, the medical care of the elderly, and whether the wife has a comfortable life.
As a husband, he always puts himself first.
Eat the worst and do the most work. Tired, I did not dare to stop easily to rest, and I was always afraid that there was a need for money in the family.
Husband, is the hope of a family.
He is always wearing a star and wearing a moon, and bears the dual pressure of body and mind. Work hard silently, pay silently, only so that the people at home can live better.
Husband, always want to give the best of everything to the family.
Men always think of themselves as cattle pulling carts, as eaves for their families to shelter from the wind and rain. For the family, support a blue sky.
03, husband, is a lock on the door
A man is a lock on the door of the house, protecting the peace of the family.
When a man enters marriage, he is no longer like a child, but grows up rapidly. As a husband, he became mature, became strong, and would use his hands to build a strong castle.
Men's affection is often hidden in the bones. After entering the marriage, as a husband, in order to give women happiness, a man will use his life to fulfill the promise of life and death.
Husband, a lock on the door, he is always silently guarding the family.
He may not be tall and limited in ability, but when he encounters problems, he never backs down. He insisted on working hard so that everyone in the family could see hope.
He always puts the safety and health of his family first, like a big mountain, the patron saint of the whole family.
Husband, for the sake of the family, will always a lot of heart. Strive to do everything well, try to make more money, and create a better living environment for the family.
As long as he is there, the home is strong, and the wife and children are not afraid of wind and rain, not afraid of any difficulties.
04, husband, is a spoonful of salt in a salt jar
Husband, he is a spoonful of salt in the family, he is the strength of the family.
The husband always contracts the heavy work and tiring work at home, and when he sees his wife struggling, he will immediately help, he is afraid that his wife will suffer.
As a husband, you will put responsibility first. In the state of marriage, he will have more elaborate plans for the future of two people.
Husbands are not only role models for their children, but also the dependence of wives and parents.
In marriage, the husband does not like to talk, always likes to do a lot of things silently. Strive to create better living conditions for the sake of family members.
People reach middle age, as men, do not dare to stop. Because, children need to spend money to grow up, parents need to spend money to support their families.
When people reach middle age, men will strive hard and become the pillar of a family.
Husband, let the wife have a feeling, even if the sky falls, he will try to support it.
Husband, is the one, on the road of equal life, no matter what problems he encounters, he will stand up for his family and for the sake of his lover.
05
On the road of life, it is not easy to live, cherish the people around you.
Woman, please cherish the man who is strong for love; please cherish the man who gives everything for the family.
Men are lonely and silent. When he burns his youth, only for the family to be able to pay for happiness and health, also ask women to be considerate of him, love him, and don't let him always face all this alone.
Husband, is strong, but he also has a vulnerable side. But as long as a woman can give him love, he can gain endless strength and fight for love.
On the road of life, if you are fortunate to be a husband and wife, please cherish the years and years that are with each other, educate your children together, and be filial to the elderly.
The husband is the pillar of the family, the patron saint of the family, and the most important lover in a woman's heart.
Women, love husbands, love family, try to cooperate with him, and write the most beautiful human stories together. Support each other, on the road of life, they will not be afraid of wind and rain.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.