As the saying goes: mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be like mother and daughter.
I think this should indeed be the case, because although the two are not related by blood, since the daughter-in-law has married into the family, it means that she is already a family, and she should be as close as a mother and daughter.
But with such a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between them is almost like "enemies".
It was this daughter-in-law, when she returned to her mother's house for the New Year, she brought 2 catties of pork to her parents.
Originally, this was a trivial thing, two pounds of pork was only thirty yuan, not a valuable gift.
But after the mother-in-law knew it, she was so angry that 2 kilograms of pork was too much, and scolded the daughter-in-law for being too wasteful.
Here the daughter-in-law is very aggrieved in her heart, she thinks in her heart: I only go home once a year, is it too much to bring 2 pounds of pork?
She felt that this was her mother-in-law deliberately looking for trouble, so she also held a breath in her heart, and she really couldn't stand it, so she quarreled with her mother-in-law.
When the husband returned home, he learned of this matter, and instead of comforting his daughter-in-law, he beat her up and said that she was not filial piety.
It is said that the two young couple have been married for two years, and when they first got married, they were particularly sweet, and it didn't take long to conceive a child. After the mother-in-law learned that her daughter-in-law was pregnant, she rushed from her hometown to take care of her daughter-in-law.
Ever since my mother-in-law came to this home, contradictions have begun to arise. This mother-in-law always finds some trivial things, and sues her daughter-in-law.
This son is also impatient, and as soon as the old mother complained, he felt that the old mother had been wronged, and indiscriminately beat and scolded his wife.
This "two-pound pork incident" is a relatively serious one.
Because she really couldn't stand the behavior of her mother-in-law and husband, the woman was ready to divorce.
As soon as the mother-in-law heard that she wanted to divorce, she panicked instantly, and her high head lowered, confessing her mistake to her daughter-in-law, saying that she would return to her hometown.
In fact, this mother-in-law's inner thoughts do not want to apologize to her daughter-in-law.
It is only because the daughter-in-law's first child is a girl, she wants to quickly let the daughter-in-law conceive the second child, let her quickly hold the big fat boy.
Otherwise, if the daughter-in-law divorces, his son does not know what year and month he will be able to find his daughter-in-law, so won't his plan to hold his grandson be in vain?
At first, everyone really thought that this mother-in-law was sincerely apologizing to her daughter-in-law, but the last sentence she said, "I will go back to my hometown first, and I will come back when you have a son", didn't this sentence put her careful thinking and discreetness out?
After many netizens learned about this matter, they expressed their views.
A netizen said: My husband and I have not lived with my mother-in-law since we got married, and we were separated by more than 800 kilometers, so she relied on the phone, and almost divorced my husband and me. Later, my husband finally saw his mother's personality clearly, and now he has not returned home for four years, and he has basically no contact, which has saved this marriage.
Another netizen said: One year during the New Year, my sister-in-law took a box of eight treasure porridge back to her mother's house and was scolded by my mother-in-law for more than ten years.
All her life, she could only let others take things into her house, never allowed her things to go out, others did not even want to drink a drop of boiled water in her house, the road at the door was not allowed to go casually, and three-year-old children could not. I think that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still need to have a good relationship.
As the saying goes: when you enter a house, you are a family.
Since it is a family, it should be harmonious.
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