I don't know when the old people must buy houses for young people, otherwise young people will blame the old people, and they will not allow the old people to come to live in the building. In fact, many elderly people simply do not have the strength to buy a house, even if young people accuse it will not help.
Some elderly people habitually use money for their own pension, without considering the lives of young people, such elderly people are inevitably unpopular, which is likely to cause a lot of family conflicts. In fact, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also affect the feelings of husband and wife, so every woman should face up to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and eliminate the contradiction as much as possible.
When Wang Ran and Xiaoming got married, her mother-in-law had promised to buy a marriage house, but she said that she had 200,000 yuan saved for five years on a regular basis, and there were still two years without maturity, and if she took it out, she would lose a lot of interest. Therefore, he decided to buy a house in the future.
However, two years later, Wang Ran took a fancy to a house, but her mother-in-law did not agree to buy a house. Frankly, this money should be left to yourself for the elderly. Wang Ran naturally stopped doing it and got into a big fight with her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law was still unwilling to give a penny.
After all, the money belongs to the mother-in-law. Although wang ran was promised to buy a house, but her mother-in-law suddenly changed her mind, wang ran also had no way to take her. The two people are at odds with each other and often compete.
The food cooked by her mother-in-law, Wang Ran always accused it of being unpalatable, often dumped it in the trash can, and then ordered takeout by herself. Wang Ran did housework, and her mother-in-law hated Wang Ran for not cleaning up, and the two people quarreled at both ends for three days. And Wang Ran's husband is a peacemaker in the middle. The two women did not give in to each other, and he was sandwiched in the middle and was splinted.
The mother-in-law did not buy a house for herself, and Wang Ran and her husband saved some money. After buying a suite outside, after a simple renovation, I moved in, and finally I didn't have to look at my mother-in-law's face anymore, and Wang Ran felt that his happy day was coming.
Although she and her mother-in-law do not live together, the mother-in-law always remotely controls her son, wants to ask questions about anything, and makes all kinds of accusations against Wang Ran. Therefore, when it comes to the mother-in-law, Wang Ran's anger does not come together, and the relationship between the two people is very stiff. The mother-in-law said that this was my son's house, so she wanted to come and live for two days, but Wang Ran did not agree and decisively refused. The mother-in-law complained to her son.
"What happened to my mother coming to stay for two days?" Wang Ran's husband questioned her. "Buy a dime, now pick up ready-made, do you want a face?" Wang Ran said breathlessly.
In order to appease his wife, Wang Ran's husband naturally did not dare to let his mother come, but the mother-in-law scolded her son on the phone: "Married daughter-in-law and forgot her mother, ungrateful things." Wang Ran's husband was embarrassed, and after all, he still did not dare to offend his wife.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, and it is the man who is embarrassed. Both women are important to him, but if you lean on one side, you offend the other. Only when two women work together can a man have a truly happy life.