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#This is the taste of the year #In the past, I would go back to my husband's hometown every year, because my father-in-law was a loving, amiable old man, and whenever the descendants went back, they never asked what their work was, what their income was, and they earned money

author:The habit of freedom has you

#This is the taste of the year #Before, I would go back to my husband's hometown every year, because my father-in-law was a loving, amiable old man, whenever the posterity went back, he never asked about his work, ah, what income, making money is definitely happy, not making money will also say that you are still young, there are us at home, come back. Only care about whether you are tired or not, we love to eat anything as long as he opens his mouth, he must be satisfied. My father-in-law is not only good for us, but also good for the people in my friend's village. So everyone likes him. Mother-in-law is not good at doing anything and mouth is broken, every day the east parents and the west family is short, saying that other people's family affairs are more attentive than anyone, the transmission is particularly fast, the typical long-tongued woman is annoying everywhere, the housework is basically done by the father-in-law, including my confinement is the father-in-law cooking, she does not care about anyone but only cares about herself. But her father-in-law loved her and let her do everything, even if he made mistakes, he was very tolerant of her. Everyone will also see that for the sake of the father-in-law, even if the mother-in-law has something wrong, it will be a big thing and a small thing. My husband is a single seedling every New Year," and my father-in-law is most looking forward to the family reunion, and at that time I was also looking forward to going home for the New Year, and some people in the family were worried about how happy it was to go home and ask for warmth, so we all looked forward to the New Year.

Since my father-in-law's death, my mother-in-law has found a wife, and my husband and I have called him uncle. Before the epidemic, we also went home every year, but there was no one at home who cared about us, and our mother-in-law was catching us and coming back to the house, and we should enjoy eating ready-made food. They are at home and do not like to clean up that kind, my husband and I every year when we arrive home is a variety of washing and brushing, than re-settling home are tired, uncle is not to mention, we will go back to his hometown during the day and come back at night, (his hometown is on the mountain, I heard that it will take a long time) Or we go to relatives and friends before he comes back. We don't have much to say, as long as the two of them get along well at home, we are relieved to be outside. So after the end of the year, my husband and I are looking forward to returning to the place of work (since the death of my father-in-law, the baby we have brought with us) Slowly going home every year is not what we are looking forward to, I feel that no one cares about us, no one will care if I can't go back, but my mother-in-law will urge me to come back every time I call. Due to the epidemic we have not been home for two years, this year almost new year when the mother-in-law at home fell into a crushing fracture, need surgery, cousin called me and said: "Or you come back to take care of the big mother, which uncle is too picky, (sent to the hospital for surgery is my cousin to drive, check, hospitalization procedures are she ran, where we drove to the hospital about an hour or so, they took her to the doctor the day before and said to be hospitalized, the examination can not eat so you have to eat the next day to check, At that time, I was not admitted to the hospital) I heard that I had to be hospitalized to carry a lot of cabbage, rice, and eggs to the relative's house to cook and send to the hospital, and my cousin said that my uncle said that it was not realistic to cook it far away and send it to the hospital. Ready to go to the hospital he said he was going to eat wine, my cousin said that this festival will not go well, he said no, the gift does not go how to do, how to persuade not to listen, and so he eats the seat and hitchhiking and afraid of spending money (in fact, it is 5 yuan) in the winter to drive an hour by car He rides a bicycle. "After listening, I went back to my hometown early. When I got home, I really felt that the house was really not like home.

They quarrel endlessly, quarrel over money, quarrel over words, quarrel over food. A little thing can become the reason for their quarrel, the mother-in-law did not operate before the doctor said that the cost is about twenty thousand, the uncle paid five thousand dead and alive no longer said that it is a little bit of hand break where to use more money, and the doctor also quarreled. (In fact, the two of them have money to save, reluctant to take, they are not bad money) The attending doctor called me and said that I would pay the money before the operation, and I went home and paid the rest of the fee before the operation. There is only one escort left in the hospital, he wants to stay in the hospital but he has to run everywhere, today this relative walks tomorrow that relative. My mother-in-law wanted me to stay in the hospital, saying that he had no patience to take care of patients, and he was always absent, and no one was around when he needed someone. In the same vicious stare at her, as if to eat her. Looking at my mother-in-law like this now, I also feel that my mother-in-law is pitiful, how much her father-in-law has suffered such grievances in the past. I discussed with my uncle, and I said either I'll keep you home (there are chickens and ducks at home or something), or you'll keep me home, and I'll rush back to the hospital if there's something wrong, but you can't leave, and the patient can't be separated from people. He couldn't hear it, whether he was in the hospital or not, shouting that he wouldn't go home, whether to go or go, pointing to his mother-in-law and saying that this was her retribution, usually bad things were done more, he did more good things, and so on, and when he couldn't control it, he made a fuss. At this time, the mother-in-law did not make a sound, no matter how much he scolded. As soon as I saw him spilling, I directly told him to roll, the hospital did not need him to come, home did not need him to go back, love to go wherever. He saw that I was angry and just left. After he left, I asked my mother-in-law, did you not make a sound when he scolded you? She said you back to him he jumped more fiercely. That day was when my mother-in-law had just finished surgery, and I stayed on guard all night. It is also the night that needs people the most.

The next day, I was washing my mother-in-law's face, he went back to the hospital, I just ignored him, but my mother-in-law asked him where he was. After a while he said to me, you take the doll back, (just for the winter vacation, I have two babies with me, I put two babies in the hospital) I am here to guard, I only need half an hour to go to a relative's house for dinner, very soon. The mother-in-law also said to let me go back, the baby can not always put other people's homes, she discharged me to go through the formalities again (the doctor said to live for a week), the uncle even said that the discharge is not used, but unfortunately the fare [cover your face]. I was speechless.

You say that such a family new year who wants to go back? Don't say the taste of the year, the taste of home is gone.

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