At one o'clock in the middle of the night yesterday, I threw my father-in-law out, and my husband called me and asked, "What's wrong with you?" How did you get my dad out? I replied to him: "Did you tell me that you had something to deal with yourself and not to bother you?" This is the result of my handling, you have no opinion is best, there are opinions to keep. ”
My father-in-law has lived in my house for five years, and I have served him well and drunk, thinking that I have done all the things that a daughter-in-law should do, but I don't know what is going on with him? Always looking for my stubble, I endured and endured, I wanted to calm things down, but he became more intense, I was really fed up.
My father-in-law came to my house to raise my grandfather, he was not like this before, when my mother-in-law was alive, he had no sense of existence at home at all, and he did not say a word a day to work, and in my impression he was not idle.
The real estate deeds and passbooks handed over to us before the mother-in-law left were all asked back by the father-in-law, and the two of us were not short of money, the things were originally from the mother-in-law, so he wanted us to give them directly.
My father-in-law's body is tough and there is nothing wrong with it, but since my mother-in-law died, he always asked us to take us to the hospital for examination for three days, and the whole body examination was not a problem, he stopped for a month and immediately said that he was uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and still called us back to take him back to do the examination.
Later, someone reminded me, is it that your father-in-law himself feels too lonely? You're too busy to see him, so he's looking for something to ask you to come over.
We felt that it was not impossible, so we tried to go back to live one day a week, but he did the same, and finally he proposed to live with us.
We quickly took him to his own home, my husband runs the business often on business, the work of taking care of him falls on me alone, sometimes I feel powerless, for example, he always says that the dishes I make are too light, I told him: "You and I have a little high blood pressure, not suitable for eating things that are too salty."
He said that I was reluctant to give him salt, and spread my bad news about him everywhere, saying that I was just trying to save some food and not put salt in my cooking.
As soon as my husband came back from a business trip, my father-in-law was immediately normal, and I asked him: "Dad, is it light today?" And he's like, "It's better to eat light when you're older."
Listen, these are two people? I said to my husband, "Your dad knows to bully me, and when you're not home, he's not like that."
My husband said he knew his dad best and didn't seem to believe what I said about his dad.
In fact, I was quite angry, as if I said behind his back that his father was not good.
Husband on business trip before the foot just left, the father-in-law fell ill, said that he is not comfortable that is uncomfortable, not let me take him to the hospital, last month I just took him to check, in addition to the blood pressure is a little high, there is nothing wrong.
I called my husband to say that I was unwell these two days, and asked him to persuade his father not to do it, and as a result, my husband said very unhappily: "I am on a business trip, busy to death, can I solve the little trouble in the family by myself, don't bother me?"
I was so angry that I almost vomited blood, hung up the phone and went back to the bedroom to lie down, the father-in-law began to moan in the living room all kinds of disease-free moans, that feeling that it would not work without going to the hospital, I thought left and right or got up to send him to the hospital, I was afraid that he would do if there was really something to do?
The result was that there was nothing, and after the doctor told him that there was nothing, he immediately became mental.
The most excessive one was when the son brought back a girlfriend, and at the dinner table he told the girls that I was not all kinds of things, that I abused him, that I did not give him food, and that there were many ugly words. Embarrassing the whole family! Finally, his husband pulled his father aside and stopped him in time. The suspicious look in the girl's eyes as she left made me think I was an evil mother-in-law.
The reason why I threw my father-in-law out at midnight this time was because he took advantage of my husband's absence from home to make a demon with me, and he got up in the middle of the night to say that he was uncomfortable and had to go to the hospital for examination. What can the hospital check?
I told him that the next morning at eight o'clock I asked for leave to take him, but he did not forgive, said that I just did not want him to be good, I called my husband in the middle of the night, he impatiently asked me what to do? He said he was sleepy and had something to say tomorrow, and then hung up.
When my father-in-law saw that I had eaten the closed door soup, I actually laughed contemptuously, and I really couldn't stand it, and directly yelled at him: "Your son raises you is his obligation, I don't have an obligation to raise you, it's to look at his face, now he doesn't care, I don't care, I want to go to the hospital to take a taxi myself, I have to go to work tomorrow."
My father-in-law heard me say this, raised his hand high, and wanted to hit me, and I looked at him and said, "You hit me to try?"
He heard me say this and directly pushed me, I fell to the ground, I got up and pushed him out of the door, the father-in-law scolded and grinned at the door, most of the night alarmed the neighbors, I can't take care of so much, directly big bags and small bags to throw him out, I said to him: "I will divorce your son tomorrow, you go quickly?"
After a while, my husband called me and asked me how I had thrown his dad out? I said to him, "That's the result of my treatment, you want to take care of it now?" It's late. ”
I know that my husband will rush back overnight, but I have already thought about it, if my father-in-law does this again, I will not care in the future, he will not have to worry about anything, I still have to go to work and wait for his father, really physically and mentally exhausted, and then his father is not sick, I am afraid that I am going to be sick.
My plan now is to separate, he agreed best, did not agree to divorce. People say if it were you, how would you decide?
@Weiwei Weiwei said: This article is based on the experience of netizens.
There are two possibilities that people are willing to do it when they are old, one is really sick, like Su Daqiang in "All Is Good", he has Alzheimer's disease, and the other is deliberate, obviously your father-in-law is deliberate. Because he will behave normally in front of his son, only when you are alone at home, it is obviously aimed at you.
It is not recommended to continue to live together, you can rent a house for him nearby, after all, your husband and wife have no other major contradictions, the son has a girlfriend, this time divorce is not good for anyone, everyone says?