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The mother-in-law came to the hospital again, and after a series of examinations, the doctor called me aside and said to me: Take your mother-in-law back, let her keep a good mood, buy her some nutritional products, you must have an idea, you must

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After a series of examinations, the doctor called me aside and said to me: Take your mother-in-law back, let her keep a good mood, buy her some nutritional products, and make sure that she rests on time.

I also want to ask the doctor carefully, what is my mother-in-law's illness, and why did she say that she was uncomfortable for three days? The doctor was called away by a nurse.

The doctor asked my mother-in-law to be discharged, and I had to do so, but my mother-in-law did not want to be discharged, she said that she was uncomfortable, must be seriously ill, and wanted to continue to live in the hospital, so that she could rest assured.

I said: You are not seriously ill, the doctor has told me, as long as you go home, keep a good mood, pay attention to rest, there will be no big problem.

My mother-in-law and I went home.

My mother-in-law is 64 years old this year, since I married into their family, my mother-in-law's health is not very good, especially in the past two years, she is more seriously ill without minor illnesses, often saying that she is dizzy and does not want to eat.

My husband and I could not rest assured, so we took my mother-in-law from the countryside to the city and gave her a comprehensive examination, but the result of the examination was that my mother-in-law's indicators were normal in all aspects, except that her blood pressure was slightly high.

After my mother-in-law lived in my house for a while, she was relieved that my father-in-law, who was alone at home, returned to the countryside.

But a few days later, my mother-in-law called again, saying that she felt unwell again, could not sleep at night, and was still flustered, so my husband and I took her to the city again, went to the hospital for a check-up, and the result was the same as last time.

In order to find out thoroughly, what is going on with my mother-in-law? My husband and I took her to the big hospital in Beijing and did a more detailed and comprehensive examination, and the test results were also that my mother-in-law's blood pressure was slightly abnormal, and there was no big problem with the others.

After returning from Beijing, I let my mother-in-law stay at my house so that I could observe at any time and deal with the situation at any time.

What happened to my mother-in-law? I couldn't figure it out.

This time was the same, my mother-in-law said that she was dizzy, did not want to eat food, and could not sleep soundly. Indeed, my mother-in-law ate only a small bowl of rice at a time, sometimes not at night, and she was often heard sighing in the dark of night.

I also felt that my mother-in-law was abnormal, but I couldn't check what kind of disease she had, and I was also very anxious about it.

I consulted with one of my classmates, she is a student of psychology, I wonder if my mother-in-law has a psychological problem?

My classmates told me that I can't rule out the possibility that your mother-in-law has psychological problems, and you ask her, is there something hidden in her heart? If so, let her tell it, and the situation may improve.

When I got home, I asked my mother-in-law, and at first my mother-in-law didn't tell me, she said she had nothing to hide from me. Later, I told my mother-in-law what my classmate said to me, and I said: You feel that your body is not normal, you are restless in bed and eating, it may be that you have a psychological problem, if you don't speak your heart, we can't help you if we want to help.

That's when my mother-in-law told me that she had hidden a secret in her heart for many years.

It turned out that it was the second year after my mother-in-law married my father-in-law, my mother-in-law gave birth to a girl, at that time, although my father-in-law's parents did not say anything, but they were not very happy, they still hoped that my mother-in-law, the first child, a boy.

Two years later, my mother-in-law gave birth to another, still a girl. My father-in-law's parents were even more gloomy-faced, and they ignored my mother-in-law's love, not only that, my father-in-law's parents did not like the new life, nor did they care about it.

At that time, due to family conditions, my father-in-law and my mother-in-law gave this little girl away with a fierce heart.

It was another two years before my mother-in-law gave birth to a boy, and that boy was my husband.

After so many years, my mother-in-law still misses the daughter who was given away by her. She also told my father-in-law about it, and now that the conditions are better, she wants to find her daughter, but it is all stopped by my father-in-law.

My father-in-law said: Where do we go to find her? When we first gave her away, we still knew which family it was, but after so many years, their family had already moved away, and there was a sea of people, where did we go to look for it? No clues.

This incident became a knot in my mother-in-law's heart. Especially in recent years, as her mother-in-law has grown older, she misses the daughter who was given away more and more. She blamed herself and regretted it.

I know my mother-in-law's heart disease, in order to make my mother-in-law feel cheerful and healthy, I asked about the situation of the family at that time, what was the owner's surname?

From my mother-in-law's mouth, I learned a rough idea, and I asked my friend and colleague, according to the Tusso wing, to help me find it.

Yesterday, a good friend of mine for many years told me the good news, and she also asked her friends and colleagues to help, and finally found out a family that was very similar to the family described by my mother-in-law.

I told my mother-in-law the good news, and I said: Tomorrow I will take you to the family's house to see, they are not too far away from us, maybe you can really see, the daughter you sent away, I also have one more relative.

When my mother-in-law heard the news, she smiled wide-eyed, and at noon, she actually ate two bowls of rice.

It seems that the reason why my mother-in-law has been in poor health and depressed in the past few years is because of her mood. I also hope that this time my mother-in-law and I will find her own daughter and have a satisfactory result.

Some old people are depressed because they have some words in their hearts that are difficult to say. For example, some elderly people are widowed and want to find another wife but are ashamed to open their mouths to their children. Over time, it will lead to changes in the body, poor mood, and not thinking about eating, which is a very obvious feature.

Children take care of their parents, is not an easy thing, pay attention to their subtle changes, and timely find specific ways to solve the problem, in order to let parents have a good mood, have a good body, enjoy the old age.

The story told to me by this netizen shows that this is exactly what it is, fortunately, she knows how to consult with others, and finally found the reason for her mother-in-law's abnormality and opened her mother-in-law's heart knot. Her mother-in-law would be happy

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