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Many men feel that after they get married, they are like a battle of trapped beasts, losing their wildness and freedom, and being bound by a woman.
But I would say that a woman likes to run her man because she loves him and cares about him and treats him like her own family.
If you think about it, what kind of people do you ignore? Strangers, of course, so why don't strangers ignore them? Of course, because strangers don't have a half-cent relationship with us, and it won't affect us.
Marriage is also like this, the union of a man and a woman, because the two of them form a family, because love comes together. Become two better people.
The reason why a woman will take care of her own man is because she feels that this man still has the meaning of management, and when she sees a man staying up late, she will remind him to hurt his body like this and let him go to bed early.
Seeing him smoke too much will remind him that smoking less is not good for his health. Seeing him drinking every day will remind him to drink less and hurt his body. Seeing that he is very tired and hard every day, I will care about him, find a way to make him happy, make him a good meal, and help him reduce stress.
Women are like this, love a person is easy to have that feeling of motherhood out, just want to be good to their men, in fact, this is not a woman's weakness, it is precisely a woman's shining point, men do not blame women for nagging, do not blame women like a mother.
If one day, your marriage reaches the point where women don't pay any attention to you, you will truly feel the cruelty of women and the indifference of women.
Therefore, the reason why a woman will manage you and ask you is because she feels that there is still love between you, and if she feels that you are finished, there is no emotion, there is no need to continue, she will not care about you, ask and discipline.
When you betray her and make her feel disheartened, if she messes with you, it proves that she has a feeling in her heart that she wants to redeem herself. If she's calm and doesn't do anything, it proves she's heartbroken.
In marriage, a woman's fiercest revenge against a man is actually three no questions.
First: Don't ask him about it
Xiaomei and Li Cheng have been married for 3 years, and recently Xiaomei always found that Li Cheng was wrong, because he always played with his mobile phone behind his back.
And in the bathroom for a long time, sometimes sneaky voice or something, Xiaomei did not think much, but she still decided to see what ghost Li Cheng was doing.
Unexpectedly, she found that her husband had betrayed herself and was having an affair with other women, and she did not cry or make trouble.
Because she knows that this is useless, you can't control a man, he will betray you whenever he wants to betray you. So she told her girlfriend about it, and she cried very sadly.
After that crying, she came home like a changed person, she didn't care about Li Cheng, when did he come back she didn't ask at all, whether it was smooth or not in his company, she didn't ask, whether he was in a good mood or not, she didn't care, she didn't matter what time he worked overtime.
In short, she only lived her own life, cleaned up the beauty of herself, she told herself that men betrayed themselves, they must raise their spirits, can not let themselves wither.
So Li Cheng found out that Xiaomei had changed, and he was even a little flustered, why did his wife ignore himself and not ask him about his situation? Did she find out about herself? Is she angry? He was guessing every day, struggling every day.
In the end, he had a showdown with Xiaomei, saying that he knew that he was wrong and would correct it in the future, saying that he was just confused for a while, did not take care of himself, and must pay good attention to himself in the future. He said that he really couldn't stand Xiaomei's lack of concern for himself, and he said that if his wife didn't care about himself, he felt that his heart was not settled.
Second: Don't ask him what he thinks about the future
Or Xiaomei and Li Cheng, Li Cheng, after confessing his things to Xiaomei, was still very guilty in his heart, and Xiaomei was very calm.
She didn't say anything, nor did she blame Li Cheng, which made Li Cheng even more panicked, he felt that if Xiaomei beat herself and scolded herself, it would be fine, but she didn't say anything.
During that time, he was worried, whether it was a divorce or a good life, Xiaomei at least said a word, right? She said softly, "That's it." ”
What does this mean? Is it to let yourself continue to be ambiguous with that woman? Or did it just break up? Why doesn't Xiaomei understand?
Li Cheng's time was very painful. The woman who was having an affair with him was still asking him what was wrong and why he ignored himself.
He actually scolded the woman, saying that she didn't want her face and let her roll. The woman knew that she was not interested, so she never contacted him again, to say that he was his own, a slap could not make a sound, why scold others like this?
What made him very panicked was Xiaomei's attitude, not at all about divorce or how, and finally he couldn't hold back, so he had to kneel down and apologize to Xiaomei, saying that he was only wrong and would not be confused in the future.
Third: Don't ask about his family
Xiaomei is actually a very filial girl, she has been very good to Li Cheng's parents after marriage, basically every day will give her mother-in-law a video to ask about the situation of the day, sometimes on weekends will go to find in-laws, take in-laws for a walk or something, the family is happy.
After this incident occurred, Xiaomei's revenge was not only not to ask About Li Cheng's situation and not to discuss future matters with him, but also not to ask him about his parents' situation.
Over there, his parents also felt very strange, and did not dare to ask their daughter-in-law what was wrong, so they asked Li Cheng: "What happened to Xiaomei recently?" Is it too stressful or are you arguing? How come it's been two months, haven't you called us a video, and haven't you come to see us? Did you do something wrong? ”
Li Cheng stabilized his parents, saying that Xiaomei had been busy with work recently, saying that the pressure was relatively high, and he wanted them not to think much, and when they came back, they would go to see them when they were idle.
This made Li Cheng's heart more panicked, he knew that his parents liked Xiaomei very much, and he couldn't do without Xiaomei, and he also knew that Xiaomei was very good to his parents.
What she was doing now had completely disrupted his life and left him wondering what to do. So he chose to take the initiative to apologize to Xiaomei and admit his mistake to his parents.
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I admire Xiaomei, it is really rare for a woman to be able to hold her breath like this.
Some people may think that women will cry when they encounter this kind of thing, but Xiaomei's indifference, her indifference and her cruelty.
Instead, she let her husband be confused, take the initiative to admit what she did, and apologize to herself.
This is a woman's fiercest revenge.
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