1. Looking back on the past years, the changes show the style - no regrets to welcome the 55 years of brilliant life!
Time flies, time flies, and in an instant, Zhou Huimin, who was once deeply rooted in the hearts of the people with a pure and beautiful image, is about to enter the golden autumn of fifty-five years old. At this moment, she sat in front of the floor-to-ceiling window of the study, staring out the window with her eyes, her thoughts as if she had traveled through time and space, recalling her magnificent and ups and downs of life.
The joys, sorrows, and sorrows of the past are still clearly visible today, as if they were yesterday.
Born in a poor family in Hong Kong, Chow Huimin learned to be independent and strong since she was a child. Her mother raised her with a modest salary, and because of her busy life and the fact that she was the only child in the family, she developed an independent personality.
Despite the difficulties of life, her mother never neglected her education and always gave her unwavering support and valuable life advice.
When she was seventeen years old, she had her first taste of love and fell in love with a teenager named Ah Dong. However, before this beautiful relationship could heat up, it came to an end due to the migration of Adong's family.
Bidding farewell to her first love, in order to alleviate the financial pressure on her family, she resolutely decided to devote herself to her singing career and participated in a singer rookie competition, hoping to take this opportunity to enter the entertainment industry and earn a good income.
The following year, she mustered up the courage to participate in the competition again, and this time she finally came to the fore, won good results, became a host, and officially entered the bright road of acting. At this critical moment, she met the second important person in her life - Chen Dezhang.
Chen Dezhang was full of enthusiasm for this talented and good-looking newcomer, but Zhou Huimin at that time devoted himself to his career and did not notice his deep affection. It wasn't until the company arranged for them to co-star in a musical that Zhou Huimin really appreciated Chen Dezhang's talent and unique charm, and thus developed a deep affection for him.
After a period of getting along, Chen Dezhang finally expressed his love to her and made a vow to protect her forever, and the two were immersed in the sweetness of love.
2. The intersection of fate, the entanglement of emotions - unveiling the mystery of the dusty past
Just as her career was booming, an accidental event in 1989 completely changed the trajectory of Zhou Huimin's life. That year, while she was hosting the well-known variety show "Modern Times", she met a guest Ni Zhen.
Ni Zhen is not only talented, but also from a wealthy family, and is a well-known "merry talent" in the entertainment industry.
At first, Zhou Huimin kept her distance from such a person with a chaotic private life and refused without hesitation. However, to her surprise, Ni Zhen's refusal to her did not flinch, but sparked greater interest.
In the next two years, Ni Zhen launched a "stalking" pursuit of Zhou Huimin with fervent fire and tenacity, and he used fiery love poems and sweet words to deliver a passionate declaration of love to her.
Even though his heart was full of rational resistance, however, surrounded by Ni Zhen's all-round enthusiasm, Zhou Huimin was difficult to resist after all. She was deeply moved by his firmness and persistence, and gradually changed from initial disgust to wholehearted obsession.
After learning about the relationship between the lovers, Ni Zhen's family deeply liked the future daughter-in-law and expressed a warm welcome and affection for her.
However, Ni Zhen, who is free-spirited by nature and loves romance, is destined to be unable to be bound by any woman. Even if Zhou Huimin is so flawless, it still can't meet all his needs.
During the sweet period of love, Ni Zhen often imposed too many restrictions on Zhou Huimin, prohibiting her from interacting with other men, showing a strong desire for possession everywhere. However, under his strict control, he himself was looking for pleasure everywhere, and soon found a new girlfriend, Chen Farong, who was also sweet and sweet to her.
As a result, their relationship fell into a whirlpool of emotional entanglements. How will Zhou Huimin make a choice? Where will fate lead her?
3. Struggling to forgive The emotional road is bumpy and difficult
The scandal between Ni Zhen and Chen Farong spread quickly within the Hong Kong entertainment industry, penetrating Zhou Huimin's ears like a virus. In the face of her husband's cheating and betrayal, she could no longer turn a blind eye, so she could only endure the pain in her heart, find Chen Farong in person, and tell her frankly about the relationship between the two, and the atmosphere became extremely embarrassing and embarrassing.
Chen Farong naturally felt extremely aggrieved, she was originally a victim who was kept in the dark, but she didn't expect to be mistaken for a third party. When she tried to ask Ni Zhen for the truth, the news that "Ni Zhen and Zhou Huimin rebuilt the old friendship" had spread in Hong Kong, and Chen Farong undoubtedly became a "little three" in the eyes of everyone and was personally attacked by many people.
In this battle for love, although it seems that Zhou Huimin won in the end, in fact, both sides have become losers, and neither side can be called a real winner. Perhaps out of a deep possessive desire for Ni Zhen, Zhou Huimin, who was at the peak of her career in 1997, made a jaw-dropping decision - the family moved to the beautiful scenery of Canada, trying to get rid of the temptation of the bustling city of Hong Kong, which made Ni Zhen difficult to control, and at the same time kept herself away from the distractions of the entertainment industry.
So, she carefully planned an unprecedented farewell concert, officially bidding farewell to the glory of the past, and everyone was full of emotion for her decision, lamenting that she could not escape the whirlpool of love after all.
As expected, Ni Zhen, who left the entertainment industry, did not restrain his romantic nature as Zhou Huimin expected, and he still lived a playboy-like life.
In 2001, a provocative love letter made his love affair with Yao Lebi public, ruthlessly shattering Zhou Huimin's painstaking dream.
Deeply hurt, she resolutely proposed to break up, and this time Ni Zhen finally realized the seriousness of the situation and hurriedly invited her father to mediate. Under tremendous pressure, Zhou Huimin once again chose to compromise and forgive.
However, forgiveness does not solve the problem, but makes Ni Zhen more indulgent. On December 6, 2007, on an ordinary night, Ni Zhen was once again captured by the paparazzi in a photo of intimate interaction with other women in a nightclub.
What's worse is that someone sent these ironclad evidence of derailment directly to Ni Zhen himself, which undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Zhou Huimin.
What is surprising is that after a long wait, Zhou Huimin finally issued a statement on social media, but the content of this statement was not the long-awaited breakup declaration, but she chose to forgive Ni Zhen again, which made everyone confused.
The spearhead of public opinion has pointed at Zhou Huimin, who is widely believed to be in order to realize her dream of marrying into a wealthy family, turning a blind eye to her husband's repeated betrayals, and is a poor woman who lacks autonomy and dignity in love.
However, this is not the case, and being brave and strong is the true portrayal of Zhou Huimin.
In this incident, the reason why Zhou Huimin chose to forgive may not even be able to explain herself. Maybe it was with the passage of time that this deep tolerance was accumulated, or it was life that taught her how to adapt, or her deep love for Ni Zhen that made her involuntarily choose to forgive.
Whatever the reason, this decision has undoubtedly attracted huge controversy and condemnation for Zhou Huimin. Some accused her of choosing compromise for the sake of money and status, some ridiculed her for deserving of endless bullying, and others took pity on her for making such an unwise decision.
However, in the face of the pressure of public opinion, Zhou Huimin has always remained silent and silently endured all the cynicism.
Fifth, work together to tide over difficulties and love for a long time
In fact, in the days after marriage, Ni Zhen's behavior did take a positive turn. As if to make up for the absurd behavior of his youth, Ni Zhen began to care for his wife Zhou Huimin in a nuanced way.
In addition to his busy workday, he would rush to her favorite café to buy her favorite coffee rolls and deliver them to her busy studio. When Zhou Huimin's beloved pet cat passed away, Ni Zhen did not dislike the trouble, but solemnly collected the cat's ashes; Even once, Zhou Huimin was in a low mood, and Ni Zhen disregarded his identity, wearing a costume similar to a cat on the stage, and prostrate on the ground to make a courtship posture, which caused the audience to laugh continuously and successfully dispelled the haze in his wife's heart.
These bits and pieces all show Ni Zhen's endless love and deep attachment to his wife. Seeing these changes in her husband, Zhou Huimin was full of relief and thought that her original choice was extremely correct.
She has a deeper understanding that the key to whether a marriage can last lies in the expectations and needs of both parties for love. She longs to have a husband who can always be caring and considerate; And Ni Zhen also needs a wife who can accept his own shortcomings and the past.
Although time is unforgiving, it can also give us tolerance. Now, Zhou Huimin has entered the year of knowing the destiny of heaven and has been married for 13 years, but she still maintains the fresh and refined appearance of the year, and she is still beautiful, and the years have not taken away her beauty.
It's just that a few traces of time have been added to his forehead, and there is a faint melancholy beauty between his eyebrows. Looking back on the past, she didn't have too much resentment, but only faintly sighed that the god of fate is indeed the most magical existence in the world! .
Time flies, like a white horse passing through a gap, but the magic of love can transcend the constraints of time and space, and become more mellow after the vicissitudes of life. Today, Zhou Huimin is enjoying the lifestyle she loves.
In her spare time, she will learn billiards skills with Ni Zhen, or play the piano hidden deep in her heart at home; At work, she is fully committed and professional; Despite the hectic pace of life, happiness is overflowing, accompanied by lovers, and the years are quiet.
Sometimes, Zhou Huimin is also full of emotion, if she had not firmly forgiven Ni Zhen at the beginning, maybe her life would have gone on a completely different path. However, looking back on that experience now, she has no regrets about her choice.
Because it was that decision that allowed her to go through those difficult moments with her loved ones, and finally find her own happiness and peace.