Recently, as soon as this family drama "Dear Child" was broadcast, it became very popular.
In the process of chasing the drama, the audience also has different attitudes towards the play, some people think that this play performs the real married life, and some people think that it arouses everyone's fear of marriage.
In the play, the married life of the male and female protagonists "a place of chicken feathers" is mixed with too much sour, sweet and bitter.
Between husband and wife, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, different relationships contain potential contradictions.
Before watching this play, some people thought that married life should be beautiful, and only in the face of true love, marriage will be happy.
After watching this drama, many people also understand that the happiness in the original married life is the most rare, both parties can solve the difficulties in the family, and it is not easy to deal with various contradictions, let alone live together for so many years.
With the deepening of the plot, the superb performances of the actors in the play also made everyone understand that the real love and non-love are hidden in the various details of life.
When Fang Yinuo dragged her pregnant body and waited at home for her husband to return with food, she was still hungry and waiting.
But the husband had already eaten outside, and did not choose to bring food back to eat with his wife, but brought back his wife's share after eating it himself. When the other party asked if he had eaten, he also lied and said that he had not eaten.
If you really love each other and feel sorry for each other, how can this be?
To truly love someone, you must first consider whether the other party is full of food, clothing and warmth, rather than being as selfish as Xiao Lu.
The second detail is that when Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child, when she came to the hospital with amniotic fluid broken, she was immediately taken into the operating room for delivery.
But the husband received a work call at this time, Fang Yinuo hurt his husband, let him go back to deal with the work first, did not expect Xiao Lu to turn around and leave without the slightest hesitation.
He did not expect to work for others to do in the middle of the road, instead of rushing to the hospital at the first time to inquire about his wife's situation, he chose to go home and drink wine, sleep and go to the hospital again.
When the wife suffers the pain of childbirth, he is borrowing wine to dispel his sorrows, what feelings in the world feel empathy?
The third detail is that the moment the wife is pushed out of the operating room after giving birth, she is full of anticipation, thinking that her husband is waiting outside.
But I didn't expect that the moment I pushed the door open, it was empty, no one was waiting for her, and no one asked her if she was okay. Instead, he heard from the nurse the news that her husband was anxiously sending the placenta to her mother-in-law.
It turned out that when she worked hard to give birth to a child for the Xiao family, the Xiao family only cared about the child's placenta, because with the placenta, she could supplement the body of the Xiao family's younger son.
The fourth detail is that after the birth of the child, as a husband and as a father, Xiao Lu's various performances are not the happiness and excitement of the new father. On the contrary, I didn't want to stay in the hospital at all, I didn't even want to be close to the child, and I didn't even want to hold the child so much.
When the heroine has just given birth to a child who is weak and wants to drink water but cannot raise her arm, it is still her biological mother who serves her, accompanies her, and takes care of her, which is the real love.
Sure enough, parents will always be more reliable than anyone else.
The fifth detail, when Fang Yinuo was confined, his mother came to help, and his mother-in-law was also there, and he also brought the xiao family's younger son. In the accumulation of various contradictions, emotions finally broke out.
The mother accused the mother-in-law of not doing a good job, thinking that this should be the life of the little two, but she still had to drag the family with her mouth.
The younger son of the Xiao family was not accustomed to this scene, and his mouth was damaged by a few words, which caused the dissatisfaction of the heroine, so the placenta was punctured, and the family quarreled endlessly.
Watching everyone's various quarrels, Xiao Lu did not persuade him to fight, but instead his emotions broke out, only knowing how difficult it was to cry and complain about himself, but he did not understand how much his wife suffered.
These details that have long been hidden in life all show that Xiao Lu did not love Fang Yinuo so much, and perhaps he thought that in the marriage of adults, the first thing to take into account was himself.
It can only be said that both men and women, on the way to find a partner in the future, do not seek true love, but seek a responsibility.