When people describe a happy family, they often use words such as "people are prosperous" and "many children and many blessings", which shows that under the traditional influence of focusing on family culture, many people think that it is very important to have an heir who can pass on the generations.
In the past, in some remote villages, if a family did not have a son who could stand up to the door, it would be looked down upon by the neighbors, and some families that had several daughters, in order to be able to give birth to a son as desired, would often give their daughters names such as "Zhao Di" and "Mengdi", which was actually a kind of ignorant and backward practice.
With the continuous development of the times, people's ideas and concepts are also changing, many couples want a daughter, compared with naughty boys, girls are more well-behaved and sensible, daughters are known as "parents' intimate little cotton jacket", even if there is a family with a son, in order to be able to have both children, put together a "good" word, they will also want to have another daughter.
An interesting thing happened in Zhanjiang, Guangdong Province, a 91-year-old bao mother who gave birth to 5 sons and then became pregnant with her sixth child, she said bluntly: I want a daughter.
When the mother was doing the prenatal examination, she said to the camera: My first child is a son, the first child is a son, the third child is a son, the fourth child is a son, the fifth child is also a son, as long as I dare to give birth to an old 6, who dares to say that I do not have a daughter.
Judging from the smile on the mother's face and the tone of her voice, she was in a good mood and was very confident that she could give birth to a daughter.
It is worth noting that although the 91-year-old mother has given birth to 5 sons, her figure is still very good, which shows that her married life must be very happy.
In some families where the feelings of husband and wife are general, the wife is likely to resist having another child after giving birth to a child, they are worried about the parenting problems of the child, the second is worried that the husband and wife have a bad relationship, which will cause an unfavorable growth environment for the child, and the third is that after the child is born, it will increase their economic pressure.
The reason why this mother in Zhanjiang, Guangdong Province, can have the confidence to give birth to the 6th child, in addition to the fact that she really wants a daughter, what is more important is that she has a happy family, husband and wife love, good economic conditions, and perhaps the elderly in the family are willing to help themselves with children.
Perhaps this is also one of the reasons why people use "many children and many blessings" to describe a blessed family, admittedly, for a family, to conceive a child is to give birth to a hope, to conceive many children, is to give birth to a lot of hope, as long as the husband and wife are harmonious, can give the child a good growth environment, more children, it is also good.
Bao Mom is a very hard thing to take care of her children at home, and I once heard a Bao Mom say something like this: There will be a rest day when going out to work, but it takes 24 hours for Bao Mom to take the child.
Bao Mom's hard work, without personally experiencing the men with children at home, is difficult to understand, as a husband, should pay more attention to Bao Ma, so that they can feel happy in married life.
This 91-year-old mother in Zhanjiang, Guangdong, wants to be very happy in her married life, which is why she is willing to have another daughter after giving birth to 5 sons in succession, believing that her dream of having a daughter will soon be realized.
The writer Lao She once said such a sentence: Marriage is beneficial, having children is also fun, even if the pleasure is not worth the suffering, but life is at least not significantly empty.
Marriage can make a person's outlook on life mature, and becoming a parent can make a person's life journey complete, and the transformation of identity will make a person enter a new stage in life.
In the video released by the Zhanjiang mother, there is a touching picture, that is, when the family goes out to eat, the husband and wife and 5 sons can sit at a large table, which is enviable.
In a marital relationship, the wife can willingly have children, which is the embodiment of her marital happiness, and the child is not only the liaison between the husband and wife' feelings, but also one of the important prerequisites for the happiness and stability of married life.
I wish this mother in Zhanjiang, Guangdong Province, that she can give birth to a daughter as she wishes.
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