Which do you think is happier in "second marriage" or "remarriage"?
Most netizens support remarriage.
The reason is that two people have children in common, at least they won't care about money, will have common goals, and can live together.
The two marriages are different, especially if they have children.
Both want to maximize the interests of their children's families.
No matter how good your feelings and interests are, if you turn around, you will turn around as well.
There are countless such examples, and you can listen to the confessions of 3 people coming.
01 Choose to marry twice, and the freshness after disappearing is still a chicken feather
Mrs. Wang divorced for various reasons and took her daughter to live alone.
Luckily, she had a formal job, the salary was not high, and the basic life of the two people was also very good.
Mrs. Wang had remarried the year before. The two met at an event and when they chatted, they felt they were meeting late.
So I didn't meet my parents or inform my friends or family.
They just had one meal when they got married, and then the two lived together in Mrs. Wang's house.
At the beginning of the marriage, the two also walked hand in hand and fell in love with the couple.
But two people with such a good relationship divorced in less than half a year because of money.
The man was also divorced and had a son who followed him, usually living with his grandparents.
Men do not spend much money when they get married, and they rarely spend money on Ms. Wang's mother and daughter after marriage.
Slowly, Mrs. Wang felt that he was too stingy.
But the men say they have old people and children, so they remove the monthly living expenses and there is very little left.
If the son later goes to college to get married, he should save his own money.
Ms. Wang was also angry, saying that the man was eating soft rice.
Once the relationship is repulsive, it becomes more noisy, cracks, and the last blow breaks away.
Examples of this are everywhere.
In real life, some middle-aged men have money but forget the commitments they have made.
They long to abandon their wives and long for a new life.
However, the heart is unstable, the feelings are not deep; the heart is too greedy, and the love is not long-lasting.
Strong feelings can become boring over time.
As the intimate periods passed, as I fell into trivial realities, I woke up to the fact that the marriage after divorce was not as good as I thought.
By then, both gentleness and patience were gone, and they began to tire of the cycle that was repeated every day.
Various property and child problems related to remarriage were also exposed and could only be repeated.
02 Choose to remarry, break the mirror but can not be reunited
Whether it is life or feelings, it is roughly the same
Wrong marriage, even if it is difficult to let go, do not look back.
After all, personality differences lead to divorce after remarriage.
The man who betrayed her marriage and divorced forgiven her lips, but she could never let go.
Broken mirrors are difficult to round again, mainly because of these two points:
First, divorce creates rifts and couples lose trust.
Whatever the cause of the divorce, when two people reach the stage of divorce, they can never recover.
Many times, one of them doesn't want a divorce and the other is determined to get a divorce, which can be a big disservice to those who don't want to.
But a man who is definitely divorced realizes he was wrong and wants to go back.
At this point, a person who does not want to divorce is acceptable, but he will no longer give the same trust.
Once someone is injured, the next time they won't give it wholeheartedly.
In marriage, trust is the first factor in the survival of two people.
If two people in life lose trust, the marriage is doomed to be unsustainable.
Second, even if you remarry, the basic contradictions will not be resolved, and you will eventually divorce because of the same problems.
Ms. Xiao divorced her husband because she was an alcoholic and gambler. Every time she was grumpy after drinking, she scolded Mrs. Shaw.
Miss Shaw couldn't stand it anymore and filed for divorce.
After the divorce, the husband and Mrs. Shaw remarried for three days, saying that they admitted their mistakes and could be rehabilitated.
Mrs. Shaw wanted to give her children a complete home, so when she remarried her heart, she remarried her husband.
In the early days of remarriage, the husband becomes calmer and stops drinking.
When Mrs. Shaw thought she could live well, her husband hadn't been here for three months, and she started hanging out with the drunks.
In the end, Ms. Xiao was physically and mentally exhausted and decided to divorce again.
Ms. Xiao said that she really regretted that she had not been hurt enough once and had to be hurt twice like a fool!
The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to move. Ms. Xiao paid a terrible price for her innocence.
Marriage requires the determination to stick to each other to the end. Once a marriage breaks down, learn to go with nature. Stop demanding to change the other person.
If you miss it, let the other party disappear from the bottom of your heart forever.
Because insisting on it will only hurt each other again.
Fate is far better than inextricable. The best ending is to bless each other.
You understand that if past relationships don't go back to the past, you have to retain your last dignity.
Don't suffer in your memories, don't linger in the past.
In the second half of your life, you can be friends and relatives, but avoid being lovers again.
Otherwise, impulsive remarriage will only repeat the same mistakes, and the pain will be difficult to escape.
03 Mutual tolerance, always the same marriage to have no regrets
Qian Zhongshu said to Yang Dai:
"I never thought about getting married before I met you. After meeting you, I never thought about anyone else. ”
The most beautiful love requires passion, intimacy and commitment.
Don't be tempted, don't lose life.
Happiness is on the branches, dressing, eating, counting money, sleeping, and showing affection on these small things every day.
The two went from mutual appreciation to mutual tolerance, to willingness to choose loyalty later.
In the future, whether it is health or disease, whether it is rich or poor, we will join hands, support each other, and move forward together.
Such a marriage can last without regrets.
Write at the end
Life goes through ups and downs. Hand in hand to see joy and sorrow. Even if the two are together, they can also harvest happiness in small things.
This love, without freshness, is enough to settle the body and mind, and there is no surprise but enough to make the years soft.
The rest of his life is not long. May everyone be able to live such a warm and stable married life.