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Saw a piece of news: a young man in Nanjing and his other half met and fell in love through blind dates, but finally broke up because of personality incompatibility.
Unexpectedly, after the two broke up, the man's mother openly posted videos and messages slandering the girls on the Internet, and even disclosed each other's personal information.
Because of this matter, it has a great impact on the parties. She can only defend her legitimate rights and interests through legal channels.
I remembered the comment of a netizen: 'Fortunately, you are separated because of personality incompatibility, otherwise, marrying such a person is really unfortunate.' “
1. Those who can only escape, do not
In fact, just through such a thing, it is enough to reflect the character problem of the family. It has little to do with the relationship itself.
The man's mother felt that the daughter-in-law was very much in line with her wishes, so she volunteered to give gifts and red envelopes to express her love.
There is no problem with this in itself, but the matter of falling in love is itself a certain risk. Not all people who are together can end up going.
Since the other party has returned all the gifts and red envelopes received when they left, it means that the two have no relationship.
At such times, they also publicly insult others on the Internet, and even publish information that is not authorized by others. This is already the wrong choice.
When his mother did these things, the man, instead of stopping them, let his mother do them.
Perhaps, he did not know. However, there are no impermeable walls in this world, and if you really want to know, there is always a way to understand all this.
This kind of inaction is a kind of wanton harm to others. What girl would dare to marry such a person?
2. That's our home
Many times, the married life of two people is not harmonious. In addition to economic materiality and character, others also have a certain influence.
Why are some families obviously not rich, but their families are harmonious? It's because they know how to get along.
In ordinary life, the husband will act as a conciliator between the mother and the wife, rather than turning a deaf ear to everything.
When they encounter a problem, the first thing they think of is the division of labor, rather than rushing to shirk responsibility.
Marriage is the result of the joint efforts of both husband and wife. A good family environment is also an important reference factor.
I once heard a married friend say that the reason they are doing well is because, behind her, there is always her husband standing.
And the reason why the husband will always protect himself is because his mother taught her children a long time ago:
"In my family, with your father living with me, he will find a way to protect me." And your task is to protect your wife like your father. “
3. Love does not necessarily have results
For the matter of love, breaking up is a very normal thing, whether it is in the face of betrayal, estrangement, or just a simple emotional discord.
When anyone is in love, the first thing to correct is that this payment and gain must be willing to pay, not to pay for the sake of paying.
The person who loves you will not blindly let you just try to give, but in the same way, he will also find a way to do something for you.
When two people are together, the most important thing is to work together. If one day, because of some force majeure, we have to separate.
Well, bless you at least a little better than you would have had with me. Even if we didn't meet in vain.
For adults, loving and hating is a kind of encounter. Don't end up being unfinished.
A peaceful breakup is also a good result, at least we once made each other's lives brilliant.
4. Don't let yourself be bent on perfection
For people who will only be good to you verbally, for people who are always committed to tomorrow, they are not worthy of your efforts.
And for those who are hypocritical, even behind your back, and inexplicably hurt you, we must stay away from them.
Love is down-to-earth, it is mutual respect, it is not a conspiracy, and that kind of love is too tired.
Married life is not as smooth as we think, but at the very least, don't always wrong yourself and fulfill others.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.