Xiaoxue and her boyfriend of three years have just broken up, maybe this kind of thing is normal in others, but she has paid a heavy price.
Originally planned to love 4th anniversary to get a license, but because of a small matter quarreled, but caused irreparable facts, the two people want to break up, the most critical is that the boyfriend forced Xiaoxue to go to the hospital to beat up the child, it has been 4 months, Xiaoxue begged her boyfriend not to break up, but in exchange for just a sentence there is no way to turn back. People who understand understand it, small things must be just the fuse, the truth of the fact is that the other party's parents do not like Xiaoxue, the conditions are general, the appearance is average, and the personality is introverted. I feel that I am not worthy of my baby son, it just so happens that this child is also a mother treasure boy, and together they will eventually end up like this.
Finally, when Xiaoxue chatted, she kept repeating: A cat and a dog have feelings together ~ Not to mention that I am a person, how can I be so desperate, I hate him! How can it be so ruthless, desperate, so cruel!
Frozen three feet is not a cold day, although Xiaoxue did not say the story behind this little thing, but I think she knows very well in her heart, across the two of them is the rift brought by the two families, and even seems to have her inner inferiority, general conditions, general appearance, introverted personality, how about this, you have to firmly believe that in front of the people who love you, these are not problems, talk about love and sex before marriage is shameful, talk about family affection and life after marriage. The little thing of life will consume a lot of unbreakable love.
There is no indestructible love in this world! Although the diamond is eternal, but the most popular thing about selling diamond rings is that you buy one every year ~ Why do you say that you are in love for three years and have marriage and children? This phenomenon will certainly not occur in the passion period when in love, after the passion period (about 3 years or so) there will be tiredness, because of the insertion of various external factors, feelings become not pure, after the passion rises in the mind, the selfless lust in love becomes the inferior root of the private self, when the freshness slowly fades, the turn to the quarrel, restraint after a while calm can be, can not restrain the anger rise to become the end of divorce, both sides of the vicious language, do not say become strangers, or even become enemies, Forcing the other person to beat up the child, is this something that a sane adult can do?
After a while, you will find that in fact, both sexes have to go through this process, and after understanding the mysteries in it, they can see it openly, and if they can regress, they will regress, and they cannot regress and find new joy. But be careful to protect yourself, life is alive, it is worth you to find someone you really like. After identifying him, the emotional stage should exercise tolerance, the marriage stage should exercise plain patience, why the fate of the parents of the early generations of concubines has also come over a lifetime, is not tolerance and patience to live this life, in the human world, it is not easy to live a good life, meet the right he please cherish it!
Hey, in fact, I don't want to give you all kinds of advice, because it is useless to say more, only comfort, psychological counseling is also like this, the probability will help you get your "ideas", let yourself be liberated, rather than giving you specific advice, accept divorce, and find another one, which is not a qualified psychological counselor to put forward words.
What a complex animal man is ~ like freshness, excitement, sleepiness for sex, and different from animals there are feelings, affection, and dependence. This has long been a rich life, you are you, the road to choose and try to be regret-free, is it too difficult? As long as you still have feelings, you will experience more tests, love will be lost at any time, and family affection is not reliable at some times, is it very miserable? This is what you need to bear