Yi Shu said: It is impossible to rely on others in life and hope to be respected by others.
This sentence applies to Feng Xiaoqin in the TV series "Heart Residence". In life, Feng Xiaoqin is dependent on her in-laws, but she hopes to be respected by everyone.
She was far from knowing that respect and self-reliance were equal.
1 yuan compensation fee
Gu Lei accidentally fell down the stairs because he and his wife Feng Xiaoqin (played by HaiQing) and pushed, just hit the glass, and died in this unfortunate way.
Gu Lei's death has a lot to do with Feng Xiaoqin, but her sister Gu Qingyu (played by nursery rhymes) is also inseparable. Feng Xiaoqin's sister and father-in-law are also somewhat connected.
Suppose, Feng Xiaoqin's sister did not remind her sister. Then Feng Xiaoqin would not eavesdrop, and there would be no tragedy. If the father-in-law does not let the daughter come back to interfere in the son's affairs, it may be another situation.
If Gu Qingyu hadn't come to her mother's family to hold a small meeting with Feng Xiaoqin on her back and said that, there would have been no such accident at all.
Of course, Feng Xiaoqin is responsible for 50%. If she did not run away from home willfully, but opened the door to make her words clear, then Gu Lei would not have passed away.
Not a single snowflake was innocent at the time of the avalanche.
After Gu Lei passed away, the saddest people should be his father and Feng Xiaoqin.
Feng Xiaoqin was going to plan for herself. She wants to let the neighbors take part of the blame.
One dollar, one life. Is it worth it?
One yuan was proposed by the plaintiff, Feng Xiaoqin. Her intention is not to pay money, nor is she just to fight for a breath in front of her father-in-law and sister-in-law.
Divergence meter
Feng Xiaoqin was too calculating. A woman like her who comes out of the bottom, if she wants to gain a foothold in the big city, can't do it without a plan.
The compensation fee of 1 yuan successfully separated the father-daughter relationship between the eldest sister-in-law Gu Qingyu and the father-in-law, and of course, it also punched the in-laws in the face.
Feng Xiaoqin refused the 10,000 yuan given by the neighbor in person and accepted the other party's apology. This scene made her father-in-law look at her with astonishment.
The most important thing is that the father-daughter relationship between the eldest sister-in-law and the father-in-law has been separated. Feng Xiaoqin's brain turned too fast, and in terms of work, Gu Qingyu killed Feng Xiaoqin every minute.
But in terms of life, the strong woman Gu Qingyu is not Feng Xiaoqin's opponent at all.
A tearful accusation successfully made the father-in-law have a grudge against his daughter, and the deadline is the rest of his life.
The most crucial thing is that her accusation made Gu Qingyu also blame himself, although he did not admit it on the surface, but subconsciously Gu Qingyu also recognized Feng Xiaoqin's words, and also admitted that he indirectly harmed his brother.
This is also the reason why she was restless and restless during her work.
Feng Xiaoqin is really a master.
In fact, Gu Qingyu is indeed problematic. First of all, she was understandably reluctant to lend money to her brother's family. But, as a sister-in-law, you can't stop your father from lending money to your brother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If you are really thinking about your brother, you should respect your brother-in-law more than provoking the relationship between your brother and your sister-in-law and letting your brother and daughter-in-law go. Excessive interference in the relationship between the younger brother and the younger daughter-in-law, there is no sense of boundaries here.
Moreover, after Gu Dad's hundred years, that house should also be Gu Lei's. Even if it is not good, it is half of a child, and it is more than 1 million yuan. Even if you buy a house for Feng Xiaoqin now, it is not too much.
Gu Qingyu is still too shrewd in the end, she overestimated her rationality and ignored her feelings.
Finally, Gu Qing also asked his father to guard against Feng Xiaoqin after his brother's death. Suppose, if the father really listens to his daughter's words, he is wary of Feng Xiaoqin.
So will Feng Xiaoqin take the initiative to show kindness and get up early to make breakfast for her family?
Feng Xiaoqin took the initiative to show kindness, and her father-in-law and grandmother also accepted this love, and their lives could still go on, after all, they also had a grandson, Little Tiger.
Gu Qingyu is very rational, the analysis is not wrong, it is all things that may happen in the future, maybe it will not happen. Just like Feng Xiaoqin once said to Gu Lei, in the future, when they buy a house, they will come back to cook three meals a day for their father-in-law and grandmother, and they will not ignore them.
From another point of view, Gu Qingyu actually thought of Feng Xiaoqin too badly.
Sun Tzu's little tiger is the only bloodline of the Gu family, and if Feng Xiaoqin has no place to live, raising children will definitely be more difficult.
Moreover, it is better for the child to follow the mother, and the grandfather is not as good as the mother. Does the little tiger have no father and will lose his mother again?
These are all details that Gu Qingyu, a strong woman, has not considered thoroughly. As Gu Dad said, the family is not a company, and it is not a sentence that can say right from wrong.
Masters of tricks
In the lesson of life, Feng Xiaoqin is definitely a bully. A person with a high sense of morality who indirectly contributes to such an accident is very likely to blame himself for a lifetime, or even be depressed.
But Feng Xiaoqin did not take the usual path, she was very smart to first interpret the guilt, remorse, and self-blame, and stood alone in the car, dripping water.
Immediately after, she first stirred up the water, and then in front of her father-in-law, she complained to the eldest sister-in-law in a loud voice, and such emotions were in place. In particular, the last tear successfully dispersed the anger of the Gu family and caused infighting between the eldest sister-in-law and the father-in-law.
Finally, he also directly told the neighbors downstairs, which was reasonable and well-founded, and everyone in the neighborhood knew about it. In the end, the claim of 10,000 yuan reduced the pressure of public opinion.
You must know that in such an old house, your husband died unexpectedly, but whenever you go out, you will be looked at differently. If Feng Xiaoqin's heart is not strong enough, I am afraid it will be difficult to continue to live here.
The cold violence of the father-in-law, grandmother and sister-in-law, coupled with the public opinion of the neighborhood, these are very deadly.
Feng Xiaoqin is very clever, she used 1 yuan of compensation, successfully separated the father-daughter relationship between the eldest sister-in-law and the father-in-law, so that the Gu family thought that they were sorry that she misunderstood her, and even shifted the contradiction, shared the responsibility, and found scapegoats everywhere, so that she could feel better.
Bold and insightful, this is the best description of Feng Xiaoqin.
This round down, Gu Qingyu lost completely.
Feng Xiaoqin's calculations are far more than this, her calculations are hidden in one sentence: I just want to make the Gu family panic and make things bigger.
The reason why I don't want compensation from my neighbors is not because I have to fight for a breath in front of my family, but because I plan for my future.
Feng Xiaoqin's biggest worry is that her husband has passed away, there is no name on the real estate deed, and if she has a stalemate with her in-laws, she is sleeping on the street rhythm every minute.
If such a bone card continues, the father-in-law will have no reason to drive her out, and he will look at the problem from her standpoint, and naturally sympathize with her.
As long as she takes the initiative to show kindness first, she doesn't have to worry about being homeless.
This time, feng Xiaoqin won the sister-in-law dispute completely. From another point of view, in fact, it is still the traditional concept at work. The daughter is unreliable for outsiders, and the final pension is ultimately dependent on the son. Gu Dad has a mustard in his heart for his daughter-in-law, but she is the mother of the eldest grandson after all, and it is not good to tear her face.
If Gu Qingyu was a son, Gu's father might not let her interfere in the younger son's family affairs. Feng Xiaoqin did not dare to know that people were not willing to borrow 1 million.
In this round of the distribution, he won the eldest sister-in-law, but lost his marriage. He could have spent the rest of his life in peace and stability, after all, the father-in-law would also leave the property to his son.
Therefore, Gu Lei's death is like an accident, more like a man-made.
To end with Yi Shu's words: What's the surprise? There is nothing new under the sun, what kind of people do what kind of things.