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Whether a person is blessed or not, the key is not what he has when he is young, but what he holds in his hand when he reaches middle age. Only in middle age, the confidence, bottom card, ability and sense of security you have are real and can support you for the rest of your life.
But many young people adhere to hedonism, do not think about what will happen in the future, they do not think about saving money, they do not plan for the future, so that in middle age, they suddenly find that they seem to have nothing.
The female writer Yi Shu revealed such a phenomenon in her work "Flowing Golden Years".
When she was young, she was extremely dashing, wanted everything, and was extremely greedy, and after forty years of age, she was like a royal aristocrat in the family lineage, and her life was extremely lonely. But he is still arrogant, unable to grasp what he wants, unable to live the life he wants, only endless regrets.
And those women who are more blessed by crossing the line generally have the following things, which are the key to determining whether a person is blessed or not.
One: the savings to support their own strength
There is a woman named Zhu Suosuo in "Flowing Golden Years", when she was young, she just wanted to enjoy everything in the moment, she didn't want to pay, she relied on men to get a material life, and she also thought that the girls who worked hard to earn money around her were very stupid and looked down on people's lives.
But the things that fate has given in advance are secretly marked with a price tag.
Zhu Suosuo chose this kind of life of relying on men when she was young, she did not have half the ability to survive, and when her young red was used, those men were no longer willing to continue to provide her with a superior material life.
Zhu Suosuo saw waves of young and beautiful girls emerge around her, and she had a sense of crisis, which made her realize that she could not be young and beautiful forever, but there was never a shortage of young and beautiful girls in society.
Red face is the easiest thing to pass, only their own earning power, is really to give themselves a sense of security, if a woman is young if she does not leave some savings for herself, after the youth fades, she will find that she has already lost the initiative of life, and her fate cannot be in her own hands, which is a very terrible thing.
The savings in a woman's hands are the basis for supporting the life she chooses to live, and the more savings she has, the greater the degree of freedom of choice, so that she can be infinitely close to her ideal life, rather than being at the mercy of others.
Two: a healthy body is the premise of having everything
Many things in the world are only known to be precious when they are lost, but it is too late to cherish them, and health is one of them.
I remember that there was such a film review in "The Kite Chaser": "I kept crying, crying that the new shoes my mother bought me were not good, until I saw people without legs." ”
Everyone has a lot of things in their lives that they want and can't get, and most people can only see what they want, but ignore what they already have.
Especially non-renewable things like health, ordinary people are accustomed to the eyes can see, ears can hear, mouths can speak, limbs can be coordinated, these are just like air for everyone, used to take it for granted.
However, you forget that the number of disabled people on the mainland is as high as hundreds of thousands, and what ordinary people are accustomed to is out of reach for them.
Health, is the greatest wealth, is the premise of you have everything, do not care about one or the other, when young excessive consumption of their own body, and so on after forty years old, many diseases began to come to the door, then regret is too late.
Three: A harmonious family is a blessing in life
When you are young, everyone is alone, and one person can eat enough for the whole family and not be hungry, and he can maintain the first thirty years.
Even in today's society of late marriage and late childbearing, women basically have their own small families after the age of forty, at this time, it is absolutely a great blessing to have a considerate husband and a well-behaved and sensible child.
The further the marriage goes, the more the affection after the precipitation, the two people together is to live a down-to-earth life, there is not so much romance and surprises, coupled with the chicken flying dog jump after having children, if you can have a considerate partner, you get rid of the terrible widowhood parenting family.
In a relationship between the sexes, the happiness of a family depends first on the relationship between the husband and wife, and then on the parent-child relationship. Finding a good partner is the cornerstone of a happy life, and if the child can still understand things, it is bound to save a lot of heart for women.
Perhaps, only when a person reaches the second half of his life can he truly appreciate the meaning of the phrase "home and everything".
Forty years old is a watershed in life, good or bad, whether you are really blessed, the key lies in how many hole cards you hold in your hand, and how much confidence you have.
If you still can't think clearly, you can take a look at Yi Shu's "Flowing Golden Years", in which each character is full of stories, and reading their lives is like reading their own lives.
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