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In life, we will meet many people, and we will also have a heartbeat in a certain moment.
When love comes, you and I will start this relationship with a longing heart, especially for girls, who can meet someone they really like at the right time, and will definitely pay all their energy.
However, there is no reason for feelings, and your perseverance may not be able to achieve your wishes.
Some people think: men who are willing to spend money for you must love you very much.
This sentence is not objective, judging whether a man loves you or not is not just a matter of seeing whether he is willing to spend money for you. Some girls during the relationship, the boyfriend has been very generous to them, willing to give any gifts, but the other party does not want to give any commitment, sooner or later will leave you.
And some girls, overwhelmed by love, have lost their minds, even if the people around them are not optimistic, but they are still immersed in it. In order to prove that he is worth it, he constantly makes excuses for the other party, but in the end, the person who is hurt is still yourself.
The key to seeing a man is not to spend his money, but these four words: literacy, scale.
One: literacy
The line in The Great Gatsby: "Whenever you want to criticize anyone, remember that not everyone in this world has the advantages you have." ”
People grow up in different environments, the happiness and sadness they feel are also different, and men with high emotional intelligence will not judge anyone casually.
If you meet a man with poor cultivation during the relationship, then no matter how much you pay in this relationship, it is difficult for the other party to recognize everything you do, and even despise you.
Even if he is willing to spend money for you, but the other party can not give spiritual respect and care, such a man is not worth your pouring.
Lin Qingkun in the hit drama "Perfect Partner" has a very strong ability to work and can give his wife and children the best life. He and his wife Wu Min have been in love for many years, and when they were first together, Lin Qingkun gave her many beautiful promises.
Wu Min was already immersed in sweet love at that time, no matter how much his parents objected, they still insisted on marrying him.
After getting married, Wu Min willingly became a housewife, without her own time and work, and surrounded her husband and children all day. She is convinced that her husband will fulfill his original promise and will not disappoint her.
However, when Lin Qingkun's career got better and better, his mind was no longer in the family.
Everything in the family has to be handled by Wu Min alone, the child is sick, and every time he calls her husband, the other party is either in a meeting or cannot be contacted.
Although Lin Qingkun gave her a worry-free life, but did not give Wu Min the emotions she wanted, and later she accidentally miscarried, the whole person almost collapsed, and Lin Qingkun not only did not have a word of comfort, but also blamed her for being irresponsible, even she could not touch the cold water did not know.
A truly literate man will not speak harshly, nor will he be so selfish, even if he is rich, he does not know how to give his wife the emotions he wants, in such a marriage without temperature, all women feel is indifference.
Two: scale
The opposite sex can be friends, but the premise is that they both know how to keep a safe distance.
However, some men are ambiguous with the opposite sex in the name of "friendship". When the other half speaks up about their problems, the other party will find various reasons to excuse themselves, and even blame the partner for being too selfish.
A boyfriend wang ya had interacted with before, and the scale of getting along with the opposite sex had no sense of boundaries.
He has a well-connected colleague who has been working together for eight hours a day, but he often eats alone and watches movies after work.
As long as the colleague sends a circle of friends, Wang Ya's boyfriend will comment or like it for the first time.
In addition, Wang Ya also found that her boyfriend would rather not go home to spend Valentine's Day with her, but also accompany female colleagues to go shopping. They always chatted together until late into the night, sharing their thoughts.
In the boyfriend's view, the other party is the woman who really understands him, but when Wang Ya angrily questioned the boyfriend, he said lightly:
"We're just good friends, can't I talk to the opposite sex when I'm with you?"
If the boyfriend's behavior was not so excessive, Wang Ya would not care too much, but many of their behaviors would have exceeded normal friendships.
To manage a relationship, some principles must be adhered to, and it cannot be ambiguous with the opposite sex, which is one of them.
Although Wang Ya's boyfriend is not stingy with her, every time he goes home with her for dinner, he will also buy a lot of gifts for her parents. However, in the treatment of feelings, the boyfriend can not grasp the sense of proportion, which has touched Wang Ya's bottom line, and she finally chose to end this love.
Literate men can love you in the way you want, will worry about your feelings everywhere, will have good character and responsibility, and men with scales will have principles and bottom lines for doing things, be loyal to feelings, and be dedicated to you.
Only by doing these two things can you really be trusted and trusted, otherwise even if you are rich and handsome, you may not be able to give you the love you want.
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