Yi Shu said: Women are independent, do not have to please men, do not rely on love to live, is the most arbitrary posture of life.
Feng Xiaoqin finally became independent this time.
It wasn't too late.
Delivery
In the TV series "Heart Residence", Feng Xiaoqin (played by Haiqing) is a very multi-faceted character.
As a daughter, sister, daughter-in-law and mother, she is absolutely competent. In order to let her sister, who graduated from high school, gain a foothold in Shanghai, she let her sister live with her in-laws. Being a sister, to be able to do this, really has nothing to say.
As a daughter, she was filial. Her biggest dream is to have her own house in Shanghai and pick up her parents to come to the big city to enjoy happiness.
As a mother, she has a strict love for the little tiger, tutoring, picking up and dropping off every day, and sending her children to various tutoring classes.
As a daughter-in-law, she has great respect for her father-in-law and grandmother, cooking for them every day, repairing her father-in-law's eyes, and taking the medicine that grandma should take every day.
Why doesn't Feng Xiaoqin go out to work and make money? Gu Lei did not agree at first, hoping that she would take care of the children and the two elderly people at home. Just imagine, the people of the Gu family are also very shrewd, and the abacus is very loud.
Suppose Feng Xiaoqin goes out to work, a woman without education earns up to five or six thousand, and it may take seven or eight thousand to hire a nanny, and the nanny can't fix her glasses on call.
Everyone has a different role in society. As a sister-in-law and wife, she is a little controversial.
As a sister-in-law, she took the initiative to let her husband Gu Lei borrow money from her eldest sister-in-law Gu Qingyu (played by nursery rhymes) to buy a house, which is indeed a little unbounded.
As a wife, she is actually a good wife. She can send her own roses to her birthday husband for the first time in the morning.
She will squeeze toothpaste for her husband, and these details are enough to see her love for her husband. There must be love and resentment, and she hopes that her husband will take the CPA certificate and make her husband breathless.
Gu Lei, under her persecution and various coincidences, died unexpectedly.
After Gu Lei left, only Feng Xiaoqin was the only one who really faced this mess, and all of them started a new life.
A middle-aged woman loses her husband, and she has to take on the task of supporting her family. She was reluctant to accept financial support from her father-in-law and sister-in-law.
She chose to be on her own.
Delivering takeaways became the only job that this middle-aged woman with no diploma in Shanghai could choose from.
The difficulty of a middle-aged woman
A single mother, in addition to making money from delivering takeaways, also comes home to buy vegetables, cook, and pick up and drop off children. The difficulty of middle-aged women has been best reflected in Feng Xiaoqin's body.
After the widow, a woman has to earn money to support the family and also to run the housework. Except for bedtime, the rest of the time is busy.
The father-in-law would rather work on the business committee than pick up and drop off his grandson. After returning home, the father-in-law did not cook, but waited for Feng Xiaoqin to cook for them.
The most important thing is that the eldest sister-in-law accidentally saw Feng Xiaoqin and Boss Shi together, and she mistakenly thought that her sister-in-law was going to start the second spring. Gu Qingyu told his father and grandmother the truth.
In exchange for Grandma's sarcasm and sarcasm of Feng Xiaoqin's cold words. Gu Qingyu said that he didn't care about Feng Xiaoqin's affairs, in fact, he was playing with right and wrong.
Such a mother-in-law is enough to make people chill.
Think about the 8 years that Feng Xiaoqin married Gu Lei, even a bag was reluctant to buy for her son, and the money earned by her husband was subsidized to her son's education, and she did not even have a high-grade dress on her, let alone cosmetics.
Feng Xiaoqin is basically a woman who is thrifty.
It is such a woman, although she got married to a Shanghai hukou, she is not such a contemptuous woman as the eldest sister-in-law said.
It is precisely because of her insecurity that Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house of her own. Just like this time, Gu Lei died suddenly, if it were not for the small tiger, Feng Xiaoqin would most likely be swept out of the door.
As a sister-in-law, she should not have borrowed money from her sister-in-law without measure, but in the end, Gu Qingyu did not lend her money. In fact, Gu Qingyu did not have the qualifications to look down on her at all.
Without Feng Xiaoqin's intimate care over the years, Gu Qingyu would definitely have to spend time and energy taking care of his father and grandmother.
Squatting down to eat a box lunch is too real
Feng Xiaoqin, played by Haiqing, bravely walked out of the family. Delivering food is an undignified job in the eyes of the locals, but she works very hard.
At this moment, she understood that only relying on herself was the king.
On the first day of delivery, she kept running, and because the business was not familiar with the late arrival, and finally was deducted 50 yuan of money.
For the first lunch of delivery, she ate it squatting on the ground on the side of the road. She devoured a box lunch, and the scene was real and bitter.
Here I want to mention that Haiqing's acting skills are really impressive. Except for the crying scene part, nursery rhymes are described in minutes. In the details of eating the box lunch, it can be seen that she is really eating in a big mouth.
Haiqing did not fake food in front of the camera like other young female artists. Stuffing your mouth with rice and shredded potatoes is absolutely real.
A middle-aged woman, with messy hair squatting on the ground and devouring a box lunch, with a mouthful of water, this is the true portrayal of the life of the people at the bottom.
I saw a hint of stubbornness in Feng Xiaoqin's body.
The most tearful thing is that Feng Xiaoqin, played by Haiqing, was accidentally knocked to the ground in the process of delivering takeaways. Several minutes passed, and no one came to help her.
When she got home, she didn't say she was in a car accident on her way to work. Gu Lei's grandmother came up with a scolding, saying that she only cared about running outside all day, not picking up children and not cooking.
Such an accusation is acceptable to Feng Xiaoqin. The last thing she could accept was being misunderstood by her in-laws.
Feng Xiaoqin turned on the faucet in the kitchen and cried, that scene made people break their defenses.
A middle-aged single-parent woman is a superwoman. Not only to work to make money, the housework is still the same, but also to pick up and drop off the children, to enroll the children in the tutoring class, but also to be coldly watched by the in-laws.
What did this in-law family leave for Feng Xiaoqin? Living in a house without a title deed, you can always worry about being kicked out. If there is regret medicine, Feng Xiaoqin should most likely not force her husband Gu Lei to take the accounting certificate.
As long as she lived a safe and stable life, after a hundred years of her father-in-law and grandmother, this house belonged to Gu Lei.
Unfortunately, there are not so many ifs in life.
From Feng Xiaoqin's standpoint, she did not do anything wrong. People themselves have to constantly strive to be self-motivated, but she uses the wrong direction and people.
In life, the path you choose, you have to walk on your knees.
Feng Xiaoqin finally returned to the way of life that her class should have, so that continuous advancement is the right way.
As Yi Shu said: When you are young, you always have to prove this proof that, left proof and right proof, and the eternal conclusion is that people are wrong and right. People are self-motivated, that's because they climb like a dog, people are slightly happy, that is corruption and depravity, and finally they are complacent.