Yesterday afternoon when I came home, I just walked into the corridor and found the husband and wife on the third floor standing there arguing.
Your mother has been living in our house, but she gave the demolition house to your brother, which is too bullying.
I am waiting for you to be young, and I have to provide for your family, and I am still unreasonable.
Give your child a parent-teacher conference, and you won't go, it's too selfish.
The hostess was indignant and hoarsely counted down.
Can you stop the point, it's been half a lifetime, what's the matter?
My mom likes to stay at our house, and I can't go out, right?
Parents will be important or make money is important, no money you drink the northwest wind?
Men also fought back without giving in.
I smiled awkwardly and tried to persuade a few words.
The man nodded his head in greeting, then rushed upstairs in a huff.
The woman wiped her tears and said helplessly, this day is really boring, how bad it is.
I comforted her as I pulled her upstairs.
The next day I met a woman again.
She pulled me and said happily, Sister, tell you a good news, my son has won the first place in the annual group this time.
I was busy congratulating her.
Her face smiled like a flower, nagging about how good her son was.
After praising her son, a cloud of sadness rose on her face. Looking at her mixed feelings of joy and sorrow, suffering from loss and loss,
I knew she was thinking about bad things again.
Sure enough, she sighed and said: When people reach middle age, there are old and young, and every day is a mess, if there is no happiness, the days really can't be lived.
Middle age seems to be a watershed in life, the first half of life is longing, and the second half of life is confused. Everything was just right for the first half of my life,
Love is sweet, marriage is happy, children and hope come together, and careers are booming. However, in middle age, marriage is tired, children and the elderly need to worry, careers enter bottlenecks, and trivial matters make people sleepy.
Middle age is like an eventful autumn.
Read Yi Shu's novel "The First Half of My Life".
Luo Zijun is beautiful and has a very good job. But after marriage, she quit her job, married and taught her children at home, and lived a housewife life very leisurely.
It can be said that the first half of her life was very comfortable, although there are old and young, but there are nannies to help back, there are drivers in and out, and the daily routine is to go shopping, buy and buy, and by the way, friends drink coffee and play mahjong. Husbands can earn money and have a relaxed life. So, she didn't realize that life would be risky.
As a result, the husband cheated on him, and all happiness came to an abrupt end.
In the face of her husband's divorce, Luo Zijun angrily accused: "You are really a vicious person, you don't want me, you don't let the children see me, you want me to disappear completely in the historian, so that you can start a new life, you have no conscience---- you."
Luo Zijun eventually divorced.
From a pampered wife to a part-time worker who needs to work to maintain her life, for Luo Zijun, the change in life can only be described as earth-shaking.
After experiencing various difficulties, Luo Zijun finally adjusted his mentality and reintegrated into society.
She and her friend Lao Zhang partnered to make ceramics, life is on the right track, and her career is also improving.
For his past life, Luo Zijun had a conversation with his friend Lao Zhang.
I said indignantly, "The first half of my life was spent getting married and having children, being abandoned by my husband, and then struggling to make a living."
"Angry middle-aged man". Lao Zhang said.
"Mourning middle age". I say.
We laughed.
Luo Zijun in the novel, after experiencing all kinds of hardships, finally ushered in a better life, so she should laugh.
The famous female writer Yi Shu can be described as a sharp point, giving middle age a good label, mourning middle age. Yes, whose middle-aged man is not mournful?
It's just mourning or happy, always have to go over. Whether it is to move forward easily, or to grit your teeth and insist, or even to taste the joys and sorrows, you need everyone to be patient to go, as long as you are born as a person, no one can escape the robbery of middle age.
But it is precisely because of the many disasters that we can better understand life and perceive life.
Middle age is a small summary of life, whether it is satisfactory or not, after the baptism of years, there is a new understanding of life, the good will continue to be good, the bad will continue to work hard, as long as you do not give up, life will always show a smile.
One of my girlfriends grew up poor, and even the cost of studying was done on student loans.
After graduation, she did not ask her parents for a penny, starting with a restaurant waiter, then a mall salesman, a store manager, and so on.
Later, she slowly accumulated funds and contacts and opened a accessories store of her own. During this time, they got married and had children, and did not let their parents worry. Nowadays, the business is very prosperous, the husband is intimate, the daughter is well-behaved, and it can be said that she is a winner in life.
Who knows, just when she thought that people could breathe a sigh of relief in middle age, her father was found to have stomach cancer, and her mother accidentally broke her waist while caring for a patient, and she has been lying on the bed.
All the calm of life was shattered in an instant.
She gave up her business to take care of her parents and contributed money, while her brother refused to pay or contribute.
She was so upset with her parents that she had to take money out of the store for medical treatment.
As a result, because of poor capital turnover, the order could not be paid in time, the manufacturer canceled the cooperation, and the store was in trouble.
The husband quarreled with her angrily, and the daughter also declined in learning because of neglect of management.
Life is like magic, the first second is still flowers and wine, the next second is the chicken flying dog jumping.
I cried bitterly in the hospital corridor where there was no one around, wiped my tears after crying, and smiled to comfort my father. The WeChat sent by the girlfriend is full of deep helplessness.
The robbery of middle-aged people is enough to destroy a person's perseverance, but it can also make you more mature.
When people reach middle age, men and women are trying to support them. All the glamorousness is only the surface, and all kinds of grievances under the pressure of life can only grit their teeth and carry themselves.
Who knows if they don't feel empathy.
However, after experiencing the baptism of cruelty, they are more able to breed a strong love for life, and they are more patient in meeting the more cruel challenges of life.
Who does not desire people to reach middle age, husbands and wives follow, career success. Children are excellent, parents are healthy, and life is stable. However, such a comfortable life is not something that everyone can have.
Wang Guozhen wrote an essay "Hastily Reached Middle Age", which vividly describes the state of people who rush into middle age: like a boat washed by the river, you rush to middle age, and your posture, face, eyes, and state of mind are all stamped with middle age. Looking back, the black flying cicadas were gagged, red and green and thin, and the youth had slipped away; looking forward, the crane was hairing chicken skin, and the withering and waddling were approaching.
Everyone is from youth, carrying dreams all the way to work hard, the result is inadvertently, ignoring the time and ruthlessness, hastily entering middle age.
Failed to take good care of the body, failed to handle family relations well, failed to run the business well, failed to clarify the direction of development well, but middle age came unexpectedly.
Don't be too harsh on middle-aged people, no matter how unbearable, they are still struggling to support and strive to live a wonderful self.
Recently, the Internet has been discussing the topic of fat middle-aged men and women, to some middle-aged men and women with such labels, always let people have some affection, no matter how poor or rich, who does not want a peaceful and happy life, refreshing for people?
Many people's middle-aged life is mixed with sorrow, but it is also the mixed mourning that can taste a different life.