The adult world: all things are suffering, only self-sufficiency.
Adult relationships: begin with the heart straight, ruined by the mouth fast.
Adult wishes: a good night's sleep and good health.
The one-size-fits-all solution for adults: If it doesn't work, forget it.
Adult mantra: I'm too hard.
Adults' Daily Routine: Hold On.
In the adult world, there is never the word "easy", everyone's life is intertwined with sweat and tears, there is no job that is not hard, there is no job that is not wronged.
Today's recommended book "The Adult World Is Not Easy", the author uses witty humor and sharp words to understand your current emotions, help you solve your confusion, and bring a touch of coolness to your future life.
The author added 10 full-color healing illustrations by the popular illustrators of the Little Red Book in front of the main text, and the whole book shows the adult world through 25 true stories, which is powerful, tacky, greasy, cruel, troublesome, but in the end you will still fall in love with it.
In a way, this book can be classified as "chicken soup reading". But when you read it carefully, you will find that many of the truths told in this book are not actually chicken soup, but on the contrary, they are particularly real, useful, and inspiring.
Think of a saying - there is nothing new under the sun, although everyone experiences different things, but after careful consideration, you will find that the underlying logic of many people and things is inseparable from those few inherent rules and regulations. Therefore, in other people's stories, we can also find our own answers.
As in the following story, I seem to be able to see my figure from it.
The protagonist of the story is called Qinzi, and suddenly one day the author is drummed up to complain.
Things are roughly like this, Qinzi's best girlfriend said to come to see her after the Spring Festival, and as a result, she dragged on until the Mid-Autumn Festival and did not leave. Qinzi urged every three to five minutes, and finally, the girlfriend replied that she would go to see you tomorrow.
Qinzi was so happy that she didn't sleep all night, and made a complete play plan all night, including every detail of eating, drinking, and living. She imagined herself and her girlfriend talking all night.
But the next day came a call from a girlfriend. It means that the girlfriend comes by car, accompanied by the girlfriend's boyfriend and the girlfriend's two colleagues, as well as two dogs. They were eating and going to K songs again, so the girlfriend pushed the meeting with The Piano to the next night.
Qinzi thought that her girlfriend had come to see her, but she did not expect to be ranked behind so many people.
The next day, there were only a few simple greetings, and then the girlfriend and the group left in a lively way, because they had to go to the next place.
Qinzi looked forward to meeting for more than half a year, and as a result, the two of them chatted for less than twenty sentences, and she couldn't understand, aren't they best friends, how could they become like this?
Life is like traveling by car, some people get on the bus and someone gets off, we and someone can only walk for a short time, when we get to the station, we are reluctant to get off the bus, or change to another car.
Adult friendships are much more fragile than imagined, but they will disappear on their own without contact, but it is "the last message I sent you, you didn't reply for a long time, then I tacitly never sent it again." ”
So if you don't want to be disappointed, never overestimate your position in the minds of others.
To borrow a passage from the book, "Don't dwell on it, don't think about it, don't have to try to keep it, and don't have to study right and wrong." The bad news is that no one will be with you forever; but the good news is that there will always be someone to accompany you. ”
The text of this book is sharp, witty and humorous, wake up for half an hour every day to refresh and wake up, the adult world is not easy, easy to live, life is not easy.
May we find our own satisfactory heart in the life of chicken and dog, and may our gradually better life be worthy of the upheaval of this road. Since it is destined not to be smooth life, then I wish us to ride the wind and waves and move forward bravely.