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01. Preface
There is a passage in the Impermanence Sutra that describes, "Life is created by oneself, phase is born from the heart, the situation changes with the heart, and tolerance is great." ”
What kind of appearance a person has often represents what kind of life he is living and what kind of character he has.
If a person has small wrinkles between his eyebrows and the corners of his eyes, and always looks at people with soft eyes, then he mostly loves to smile, has an open mind, and is full of positive energy.
If a person always frowns and his eyes often show impatience, then he is most likely hot-tempered and has a poor psychological quality.
What kind of state of mind a person has will be reflected through the "face".
From a person's "face", we can see a person's ability. Really powerful people are often very "good-looking".
02, speak well, is an ability
Capable people, the face is always happy, will not be angry because of a small matter, or a word.
U.S. President Abraham Lincoln, in his inaugural address, was ridiculed by everyone for his father being a shoemaker.
Lincoln was not angry, and did not feel ashamed that his father was a shoemaker, and he smiled and said that he was far worse than his father's shoes as president.
And, he said, his father was meticulous about shoes and wanted to make every shoe perfect, which was the spirit he should learn.
He finished his speech with a smile and was greeted with a burst of applause. Truly capable people know how to laugh at life.
No matter what people around him have to say about him and what kind of eyes they have, he is never angry. Instead, will talk well and face life with a smile.
People who can talk well will definitely have a peaceful and smiling face.
People who are truly capable are very "good-looking" because they are willing to get along with others in a friendly way, know how to speak well, and resolve crises. Have the ability to make big things small and small things small.
03, capable people, good at listening
A person who is "good-looking" is often good at listening and knows how to be gentle with the world.
People with good faces, interacting with people, will not be in a hurry to analyze themselves, but will listen. People with good faces can always get along quietly with others.
Being good at listening is an ability.
People who are good at listening will listen to what the other person is saying, judge the situation, and can get deep into what kind of person the other person is. Moreover, it can also grasp the "point" that others want to express, empathize with them, and obtain the sincerity of others.
People who are good at listening are often also capable people.
They know what the other person wants and know how to say what to reassure the other person.
A capable person is most likely able to calm down and make people feel good. Because they can calm down and get along with others in a measured way.
Capable people, good at listening, always have a peaceful face, give others a sense of trust and steadfastness. People with good faces, in listening, resonate with others' emotions, and can quickly penetrate into the world and heart of others.
04, capable people, good temper
People with good faces don't like to lose their temper and can control their temper.
Ye Jinyan in "Flowing Golden Years" is a capable person.
When he learned that the driver pretended to be the chairman and Zhu Suosuo was in love, he was actually very angry.
However, he quickly adjusted his mood and gently explained to Zhu Suosuo the company's system and the handling of the driver, and did not lose his temper.
Zhu Suosuo asked him to compensate, and he also patiently told Zhu Suosuo that he would not give less money.
Zhu Suosuo asked, "When will it arrive?" Ye Jinyan made a gesture of taking off the plane, and also accompanied it with a sound like "whizzing", which eased the sullenness in Zhu Suosuo's heart.
It was also because of Ye Jinyan's good temper that he gave Zhu Suosuo a very good feeling, so that later they had an intersection.
The more capable people are, the more they know how to control their emotions, and the more they feel good.
The weak, controlled by emotions, often expose anger to their faces, and the corners of their mouths are downward. The facial features on the entire face are controlled by negative energy.
True strong, easy to control emotions, love to laugh, can properly handle conflict events, but also give others a sense of goodness.
A capable person always has a smile on his face, although his face has a sense of vicissitudes, but his eyes are tough and there is a calm and self-motivated strength.
05. Summary
Most of the truly capable people are "good-looking" and can face the world with a smile.
Romain Rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after knowing the truth of life. ”
Capable people know the hardships and hardships of living in this world, and they have also tasted a lot of pain. But still willing to laugh at life, to be a fearless warrior.
"Goodness" is the best compliment to a person.
People who are "good-looking" are not afraid of encountering any crisis, can laugh at life, and are willing to be patient to solve all the problems they encounter little by little.
People who are good-looking, tolerant of others, strict self-discipline, and constantly self-correction and self-growth.
On the road of life, no matter how big the storm, please learn to laugh at life, because everything will pass.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.