【When will "Nibble on the Old" take off?] I don't know when, the "nibbling old" people appeared. "Nibbling" parents, "nibbling" fathers-in-law and mothers-in-law, and "nibbling" a group of old men and women to get pensions

【When will "Nibble on the Old" take off?] I don't know when, the "nibbling old" people appeared. "Nibbling" parents, "nibbling" fathers and mothers-in-law, a group of old men and old ladies "nibbling" to get the pension pension hollowed out, many old people originally had a pension pension is not small, but can not stand the son, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law and son-in-law "nibbling", "nibbling" a group of old guys in their sixties and seventies not only put the pension money on the hook, but also have to find a job to earn their own pension. "Old age" has become a joke. Why do "nibble old" people appear?

"Nibbling on the old" is the young "nibbling" on the old, and the root cause is not in the young, but in the old. To put it bluntly, it is the result of the habitual cultivation and doting of many elderly people. From a young age, I was afraid of falling in my mouth, my son was married and should be self-reliant, but when the father was a mother, he was afraid that he would not be able to live three meals a day to cook for them, clean up the house, take care of the grandchildren to and from school, take the initiative to buy rice and noodles, buy oil, buy vegetables, pay water and electricity bills, relatives and friends Red and white things with the part, in short, the size of the life when the father and mother are all big packages, young children will not live a life, this is good, there are parents to worry about it, they are lazier and will not live a life, and over time the habit becomes natural He has only one way left - "nibble on the old man"! It's strange not to "nibble". The Chinese nation pays attention to respecting the old and loving the young, and now it is good, and the "love of the young" has become spoiled and become coddling. When a child is married, he is an adult and has to shoulder the responsibilities of the family alone. If the old man does not let go and worries about the child's life, the child will never grow up. Therefore, the root of "nibbling on the old" lies in the education of the elderly. As the saying goes: "Raising or not teaching, the father's fault", to cultivate and educate children, not only to love children to provide them with food, drink and clothing, but also to teach them the ability to survive - the purpose of education is to let the next generation master the skills of survival. We should really learn this like animals: tigers, lions, eagles, they have trained their offspring to be self-reliant, and they will never care about adult children. So, let go when it's time to let go. Loving the next generation, cultivating the next generation, educating the next generation is our responsibility, how to love, how to cultivate, how to educate to pay attention to ways and methods, if blindly "coddling", blindly wrapped up, the child will never grow up, he can only "nibble the old".