Knowing that my mother behaved like this, I didn't dare to complain about my mother-in-law anymore.
Yesterday, my sister told me something, something that almost startled me in the jaw.
The mother went to her brother's house to bring them food, and when she entered the door, she found that the couple had locked the bedroom door and were fighting, and the children were crying in the living room. The old mother told the door not to open, so she kicked hard. With the physical strength of her seventy-year-old wife, she naturally couldn't kick it. She went to the community property and asked the family to help call the police, saying that her daughter-in-law was about to beat her son to death. The police came out of the police, called to open the door, and found that it was just an ordinary family conflict, although my brother did have many traces of being scratched by my sister-in-law' neck, but it was far from the severity of my mother's statement, so they persuaded them to leave.
To say that things are over, my mother should go back to her own house to do her own business, right? But she didn't! Her son's neck was scratched like that by her daughter-in-law, and she was upset; moreover, the police car stopped downstairs with its horn, and was misunderstood by the neighbors who watched the lively scene that the son had committed something. Thinking like this, my mother then did a particularly strange thing - in the neighborhood where her son's family was located, she "explained" to the neighbors everywhere, saying that there was no other reason to recruit the police, just because his son and daughter-in-law quarreled, and they quarreled because the daughter-in-law was "a bad woman", and since the driver's license examination in the past two months, she had to fight with her son every day, and he had to buy a car that had long been discontinued for her...
After the sister learned of her mother's absurd behavior, she rushed over to try to persuade her to go home, telling her that doing so would not be of any benefit to the couple's feelings or to their neighbors. But the old mother did not listen at all, and blamed the sister: "Your brother's face and neck were scratched by that woman, and you didn't even help him!" The more he talked, the angrier he became, and he scolded his sister until she cried and left.
"That woman"! The mother actually said that the sister-in-law was "that woman"! She also said that she was "fierce and fierce, this day is just fine", you know, from their marriage to this fight 20 years ago, the mother is spoiled for her sister-in-law! It's really better than my own daughters and my sister. What work is not willing to let her do, what delicious food is left to her. Of course, in the past 20 years, the feelings of the younger brother and daughter-in-law are also good - this is the reason and premise of the mother's kindness to the younger sister-in-law, her precious son loves the person, she loves the house and The Wu desperately loves, but recently, the feelings of the brother and the sister-in-law have some problems, they fight, the mother is so partial to the son! Her kindness to her daughter-in-law for so many years is nothing more than the fact that the daughter-in-law is dead to her son, this quarrel, the daughter-in-law only scratched her son a few times, the old lady's attitude was immediately revealed, where is there any mother-in-law love!
Once, my sister and I were even secretly jealous, because my mother was too spoiled for my sister-in-law, but now her attitude even we can't look at it. I even thought that with my mother's mirror in the mirror, I was really ashamed to complain that my mother-in-law was not good enough for me! At least, when I argued with my husband, she didn't pull off the side of the fight, didn't say too much ugly words to my face...
I have been reluctant to talk about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for a long time, and this time, I am not used to seeing my mother's unfairness to my brother-in-law... Cough, come to think of it, where there are so many mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law filial piety under the heavens, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is no blood connection, in the end there are so many layers...
