A few days ago, SHE member Ella (Chen Jiahua) posted several warm photos with her son on social networking sites, celebrating Mother's Day in advance, and followed by a short topic of #Happy Tenth Anniversary#. It turns out that Ella has been married for 10 years!
During the SHE period, Ella has always been a tomboy, with cool short haircuts, often ridiculed by the host as a "transgender person" on the show, and has no idol baggage.
Unexpectedly, after marriage, she grew long hair and took the route of intellectual elegance. And these 3 occupy our entire youth, or only she is the mother. It seems that the transformation of marriage to people is really not small?
After marriage, she spent less time with Hebe and Selina, and more often stayed at home, spending time with her children and husband. Speaking of Ella's home, it is also full of human fireworks, and you can see that you have time to take the baby.
The duplex house of more than 300 square meters was "tossed" by her very grounded, chaotic and orderly, quite a breath of life. In order to bring the baby and provide enough space for the baby to move, there is no large coffee table in the middle of the living room of the Ella family, but a small tent next to the TV cabinet. A large soft floor mat is laid in the middle of the living room, which is convenient for Andwa to come to a "Great White Shark vs Tyrannosaurus Rex" at any time. In fact, take a closer look at this cushion, maybe you have the same model at home.
Because the large area of the living room is blank, the space has become multi-functional, and moving a small square table has become a temporary writing desk. Take the baby to write a spring league together, do not ask how well you write, how correct the pen holding posture is, but the feeling of the whole family participating together is really great.
The entrance to the entrance, which separates the living room and the dining room, is also a temporary barbering place for my brother. It turns out that after the female star became a mother, she was no different from ordinary mothers, and she would also cut a "dog nibble bangs" for the baby at home.
As for the small animals that children like, although the home is not large, it is necessary to conjure up space. The fish tank does not have to be luxurious, the water weeds do not have to be much, and the fish do not have to be expensive, but the baby can really feed the bait for water observation and participate in the process of raising small animals.
Observe the small fish and shrimp before going out every day and after going home, huh? The little shrimp in the house is pregnant!
The dining table is not an expensive Italian century-old marble material, and an ordinary log table can also be transformed into an entertainment table for dolls. Make a sushi together, wrap a spring cake, and eat all the food you make, so you can't waste it.
Home should have a warm look, Ella's home has it. Friends will bring their children to dinner at home.
When you eat a delicious dessert, you will go home and reproduce it yourself.
The tradition of erecting eggs during the Dragon Boat Festival, you should also try it on your own balcony.
After becoming a mother, the little knowledge of parenting is not less learned. Even the use of reward stickers is a common trick in the mother group, and it is no different from the mothers in the community who walk with their babies and exchange parenting experience.
The way to exchange reward stickers is also very close to life, nothing more than being able to eat within an hour and being able to poop on the toilet. Every mother's family has such a procrastinating little naughty bar.
The home can not be very large, but every part of the home has been stamped with the imprint of the family's life together little by little, and the orderly chaos is the warmth of the home. Every year, the birthday of the baby, the anniversary of the two of them, and the family of three cutting a small cake at home are all small rituals in life.
Speaking of ritual, it is a poke in the heart again. While we are surprised that Ella and her husband have been working together for 10 years, we can't help but ask: How does marriage survive?
Our backstage often receives such a message, and finally believes after marriage, there is indeed a pure friendship between men and women.
Look at Ella again, really good at giving her husband "positive feedback". It is normal for the female star to receive flowers, but she will still say it out loud, "Always use this trick of flowers, and I really eat this trick, the anniversary dinner is a must, the old husband and wife are still going to have to go through." ”
Female celebrities have to work and have a full schedule with their babies, but when necessary, they must be "forgetful couples" and leave their children behind.
Because in the relationship between husband and wife, the other party is more important than the child, but they are more important than each other. Without children, we both have to live well. With this mindset, try to appreciate each other again, accept each other, respect each other, and look up to each other. They are no longer parents and husband and wife, but still a man and woman who love each other. This may be something we can look for again in marriage.