According to data from the most recent census, the mainland's male population is nearly 35 million higher than that of females. This is a very exaggerated data, which means that there may be more than 30 million men who will be single in the future, and this can only be satisfied if the remaining population is a one-to-one ratio, in fact, the specific value will be higher than this, although it is very cruel, but this is very realistic.
▲Bride price
In the past two years, the number of people who have married in the grade every year is less than 10 million, and this data has been declining, indicating that the number of single people on the mainland is very large. So what exactly is causing it?
Requests from both sides
Generally speaking, if you get married, you must have to have both parties satisfied with each other's conditions, and then discuss the content needed for marriage, such as the dowry of the negotiation, but in fact, the current trend is that men will face a big hurdle when they get married is the bride price, many women's families are lions in this aspect of the bride price, and their own dowry is relatively small, and this is only the first threshold, the future banquet, red packet, venue, slowly draw the road to spend money to start, And some couples are also very particular about this point, to do it to the best, can not lose face.
The above is part of the requirement for many people in the city to get married, and in the countryside, it may be more difficult. If it is not out of the village in the countryside to produce and sell, in the countryside such a patriarchal era, women are very few, so the objects that can be sought are relatively few, many people also choose to go to the city to work and then reduce their choices, many rural men are more difficult to find their marriage object.
▲Dowry
It is difficult to marry a wife in the countryside
Now the network is more developed, many rural areas are also connected to the Internet, the people inside are also people who have received higher education, and their thinking is as independent as the current urban women, so the requirements are naturally the same. But marriage is after all one of the major events in life, even if you find a marriage object, many people's marriage process is to join the parents, for example, how much dowry money is decided by the woman's parents, even if the woman does not want many people can not refuse.
And in the countryside there is a more difficult requirement than the bride price, just like the city, many women get married like doing business, hoping that the man has a car, a house and a deposit. This is only the most basic need, and there is a deeper level of demand in the countryside is "2 flinging 3 sides and 4 rounds".
▲ Rural wives
"2 fling 3 sides 4 rounds" is what it is
Many people do not know what this word means, and explain it one by one. 2 dumping refers to the abandonment of the man's parents, many people in the countryside are still very backward in their thinking, feel that the daughter who marries out is like spilling water, and is easily bullied by the man and his parents outside. The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has also appeared in various eras, and many women's parents have made requests to avoid this problem. The 3rd side mainly refers to the house to be bought on the side of the road, the parents should be healthy, and the man is an only child, which also reduces the money that women need to spend in marriage. As for the 4 wheels, it goes without saying, that is the car, which is also a basic requirement for marriage now, which may not be too excessive in the city, but for the countryside, in fact, the car is not so important, but without the car, others have no way to recognize you.
summary
Marriage does require capital, when you can't afford to raise two people, staying single is the right choice, but you can't make the cost of marriage higher because of this reason, the current population is unbalanced, and then it is difficult to get married, step by step, it will lead to a lower fertility rate, and the population will decrease. Although the will of man is important and worthy of respect, marriage is nothing more than living alone, and cannot be used as a means of making money.