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It is easy to love each other, it is easier for two people to choose to come together, as long as they are determined by each other's intentions, they can successfully hold hands.
From love to marriage, although you need to cross the obstacles of your parents, if you are firm enough with each other, and your parents are not too messy, two people can naturally form a marriage.
The moment we choose to enter marriage, we are all ready to go hand in hand with each other for the rest of our lives, but sometimes we often underestimate the risk of marriage, misrepresent it too simple, but also we overestimate the weight of love, always feel that as long as two people enter the marriage and form a family, it is equivalent to insuring the relationship and will not be easily broken.
But love is something that will not be lost if it is not well managed, don't think of it too firmly.
No matter how much confidence you had in the beginning, as long as you were a little careless, as long as you were not so careful with each other, love would easily go downhill.
Every paragraph. The fragmented marriage was also once full of love at first, but later the two people were together for a long time, they became more and more unscrupulous to vent their temper, more and more disregard for the operation of the marriage, just by their own nature to consume arbitrarily, and finally went to a strange road.
Marriage is closely related to both people, and as long as either party frequently does something that consumes feelings, it is difficult to go on.
If the wife does these three things frequently, the marriage is difficult to last, don't do it inappropriately.
Can't talk well, likes the cold war and cold violence, and pushes the other side away
Speaking well is the most critical element in maintaining a marriage, but unfortunately many people tend to ignore it.
Not being able to speak is a common disease of many people, and when facing outsiders, they can always show their most gentle and sensible side, but once they face the other half, face the people closest to them, they will burst out the bad temper side.
Two people running a marriage are bound to encounter all kinds of troubles. It's normal to have constant arguments over trivial things.
Even in a happy marriage, there will be contradictions and frictions, which will definitely exist, but the difference is that we deal with friction differently.
Those happy marriages, they are not without contradictions, the two people are extremely compatible, but. Because they can all communicate calmly and without pushing each other away in a confrontational way.
Most women are more willful and will do something by their own nature, but if you want to go on with each other for a long time and want to take good care of this marriage, you must remember to properly suppress your temper and learn to face the difficulties in marriage with a rational side.
If you always lose your temper at every turn, always expose your worst side to men, do not actively communicate when you encounter problems, but engage in cold war and cold violence, and shield each other from your own world, then the relationship is also in jeopardy.
Women frequently use cold violence to treat the other half, and men will definitely be annoyed when they come and go, and in the process, you will push men away from you again and again.
Disgusted men for making less money, like to chatter and beat men
Marriage is different from love, love is about the wind and snow, marriage is chai rice oil and salt.
It is not easy to enter a marriage, because money is needed everywhere in the marriage, the so-called poor couple Pepsi lament, when two people enter the marriage, it will be easy to quarrel because of some trivial matters.
When you have not entered the marriage, it is always easy to imagine marriage, and you will not take money too seriously, and you always feel that people who value money too much are too tacky, but when you really enter the marriage, you will become calculated, which is a change that we will all have.
In the past, every time I saw my parents worrying about a few cents of vegetable money and small stall vendors, I would feel too worldly, and when I entered the marriage, I would slowly become like that.
Becoming tacky is the only way we can get into marriage, but as long as two people are together and working together towards a better life, it is not difficult.
What I am afraid of is that some women only know how to pin their lives on men, and they will push all their poverty and embarrassment to men, dislike men for making less money, dislike that he is not motivated, and dislike that he cannot give him a good life.
Always chattering and complaining, throwing all his dissatisfaction with life to men. Blindly hitting and complaining, turning yourself into a complaining woman, making the atmosphere between each other become more and more cold, when there are only complaints and blows left in the marriage, it often does not last long.
Always compare men with other people, do not know how to know enough
A lot of unhappiness in life is self-inflicted, you always live in the contrast system with others, always like to peek into other people's lives, the self is based on the contrast with others, so how can you live happily?
When you keep your eyes on the lives of others, you will ignore the beauty of your own marriage, because when we go to spy on other people's lives, we will stare at the good side of others, compare our own shortcomings with others, and from the beginning it is unbalanced.
There are some women who always like to compare their own men with others, and are always able to see the good side of others without seeing the strengths of men.
You see other men earning millions a year, they hate their men for making less money, you see other men doing housework, you hate men who don't know how to help you. You always hit men with the merits of others, but you never know contentment and don't see the good side of the other half.
I'm sure there's no sparkle in your significant other, or you wouldn't have married him. The place you liked was still there, but you ignored it.
Everyone cannot be perfect, accept his good side, forget his shortcomings, and only then can he live happily and happily.
The most rare thing for people is contentment, and only those who are content will always be happy. If you always compare yourself to others and hit men, then your marriage will be difficult to last.
Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.
It is a great fate for two people to come together, so don't easily push each other away because of your temper.
Marriage requires two people to manage each other, only the two sides work hard to go to a place and work hard together for a good future, then the days will not be too bad.
Conversely, if one party is always willfully consumed, then even the best feelings will be broken.
Wives often do the above three things, marriage is difficult to be happy, if you want to go on for a long time, you must try to avoid.