Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Primary school carefree six years, junior high school was suddenly added a heavy burden, everyone said to take a key high school, but why to take the key high school, they did not say, but I was quite contentious, admitted. After I went to high school, they told me to try to get into a good university, and this time they told me why, because a good university means a good life. I went to college hard, but this year and year after year, I came back to life, and suddenly felt that I was not reborn, and I still lived so hard and lived so "low".
First, life is always varied, each with its own way of life
Life has gone through more than twenty years, looking back on the past, it seems that I have been constantly pursuing all the way, looking at the beautiful life in the sky, close at hand, trying to tiptoe up, climbing one step after another, only to suddenly find that I thought that the life that was close at hand was just a fantasy, and I thought that climbing a higher step, what I could get was still far away. Therefore, everyone seems to have realized overnight that their efforts are meaningless, their own growth can not keep up with the changes of the times after all, and they can only stay in their own class and live a low-worthy life.
However, looking back at the past, counting our efforts, we will find that these efforts are not in vain, we have picked the lights at night, harvested better schools, met better people, and dreamed better in a more beautiful city, these are all progress, even if it is still far from the heart, but in the end we have achieved something through our own efforts.
Society is a big structure, everyone plays a role in it, everyone has their own varied life, no one is the same as who is, and it cannot be the same, maybe the life we live now is not a highly matched life, but the journey of hard work is always worth it.
Second, how to define success, and by whom's standard?
In this world, some people love money, some people love names, some people love leisurely life, everyone has their own ultimate pursuit, they all have their own definition of success, and their own definition of themselves is the standard for evaluating their own value along the way. In our eyes, the mediocre life of the wife and children may be exchanged for by others after thousands of hardships, and we pursue more money and greater power, which may not be worth mentioning to him at all.
Other people's lives can not be evaluated, only their own lives can be defined by themselves, when you feel that your life is low,you may wish to think carefully about what you want, but also think carefully about what you want and what you have to pay, and what you have to pay?
Third, the ordinary is the majority
Make a balance between giving and receiving, and the balance in your heart will naturally slowly stabilize until you have your own stable value system. Isn't that a compromise on life, you might say? But isn't life just being beaten and standing upright at the same time? There will always be things in the world that you can't do anything about, and these things are not something that you can change after years of hard work and getting into a prestigious school and having a higher education. And we can work hard to fight within the scope, do our best, to the end, to the best have a normal heart, to live their ordinary days, is the biggest unusual.
Uncle Epilogue:
Whether life is low or not depends entirely on his attitude towards life, and a sweeping monk is also a hero even if he hides his merits and fame. Their own excellence, do not need to be appreciated by others, they are the best audience.