No matter who it is, it is impossible to stay in the face forever.
Even the most beautiful women and the most beautiful women have the day of aging, but life is not only beautiful to reflect our value, acknowledging the sense of accomplishment in our hearts.
When people reach middle age, we all find that more important things often lie in the inside, and both men and women will prefer to interact with people with inner connotations. The way we realize the value of life has changed, and middle-aged women, if they want to really live well in the rest of their lives, need to cultivate these 4 abilities.
1, have the capital to dress up their own strength, appearance is the first step to grasp the man's heart
All those women who are not happy in marriage and have a bad life have one thing in common, that is, they do not know how to dress themselves, and they do not have the strength to dress themselves.
To put it intuitively, it is the kind of woman who is not good at trimming the edge, obviously only in her 30s, but she lives herself as a 50-year-old mother, as a woman, we always have to understand that although appearance is not the key point of feelings, but the appearance of women is the first step to seize the man's heart, there is no husband under the sky who does not desire his woman to dress up beautifully, a wife who is good at dressing up outside, is a kind of respect for herself and her husband.
After all, marriage has a shelf life, the premise of a woman to make herself live well is to get the respect of others, know how to enjoy life, a woman who does not care about the image, will she still enjoy life? Regardless of the material conditions, women should know how to dress themselves, not to ask for how luxurious cosmetics, but to dress themselves, which is itself a positive and optimistic attitude towards life.
2, have the strength of personality and economic independence, do not rely on men, will be calm
Almost all married women are not happy, 90% of which are due to lack of personal and financial independence.
After marriage, she made a woman with her palms facing upwards, the economic foundation determines the status of the family, and whoever makes more money has the right to speak at home, which is the precept left by the old ancestors. Men can be attached, but remember not to rely on, make their own money to spend, will not give people a handle, only learn to be independent, women will live well, at least can be calm.
Of course, many women say that the in-laws have good conditions and do not need me to work to earn money, as long as I bring good children at home. After all, the women who marry into the rich are a minority, if you are only willing to be a housewife, then when the husband spends his days outside, he can only blame himself, because such a middle-aged woman, who gave up the opportunity that should have changed herself, you want to enjoy it, then don't use your own requirements for non-standard men, if you can't do it, then don't complain, behind how much marriage, just a form.
3, the strength to be able to build their own circle of friends, marriage is not all for women
When women reach middle age, they all focus on the family and take care of the whole family, and almost all of their time and energy is devoted to marriage.
In fact, marriage is not the whole of a woman, to establish her own friends and life circle, I think it is very necessary, emotional communication, life is bitter and mutual talk, these are inseparable from friends.
Women always feel that men's vocation is to make money to support the family, men always think that women should revolve around the family, but how many men in reality, running around the wind and rain, socializing and making money, in the end the wife is still cold, cheating in marriage? How many women are willing to be a housewife, and in the end they are only abandoned. Understand that marriage is an important part of life, but not all.
4, good at learning and progressing strength, inner cultivation is the greatest charm of women
Some middle-aged women open their mouths to speak, giving people the impression of being gentle and elegant, knowledgeable, and educated.
Surely someone scolded me, aren't such women all because they read a lot? A woman's inner cultivation and reading are not directly related to each other, good at learning, good at progress, and constantly beautifying themselves is an important way for women to improve their inner connotations.
Think you're attractive when you wear a designer brand, carry a designer bag, and go into a high-end restaurant? The charm of a woman, and the amount of money, the level of education is not much to do with it, but in the handling of interpersonal relationships, dealing with men and women emotionally able to take into account each other's feelings, so that others respect and appreciate you, this is a woman's charm in the emotion.
Isn't it necessarily possible to be happy if you have money? But in today's society, with hands and feet, is it difficult to live a healthy life?
It is not difficult that middle-aged women often pursue spiritual resonance and emotional dependence, and only when these are met, and then pursue material needs, it will appear more meaningful.
Middle age, itself, is a hurdle for us, there is an old, a small, life pressure is very large, if life is not good, where is the hope of marriage? Try to do these 4 points well and be a happy woman, okay?
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