Many girls will choose to be housewives at home after marriage, most of the reasons are because the children need to be taken care of at home, and because it takes too much time to give birth, and then return to work, may not be able to adapt to the rhythm of work.
Recently, there is a million Internet celebrities named Yang Damei, sharing their experience as a housewife, advising female friends not to use children and housework as an excuse to mess up when being a housewife, and to live a life at a glance, but to give yourself more opportunities and development, in order to gain the respect of the family.
Yang Damei said that from his own shooting to making this video, just in January and ten days, a month rose by 1.23 million fans, basically every day will rise 100,000 fans, but shooting videos also has a two-year basis, this number is her trumpet.
Yang Damei said that she has been married for 8 years and 6 years, and she is a full-time housewife, but she does not like to live a life of upliftment, so she wants to earn everything she likes on her own.
In Yang Da's beautiful video, she once asked her family for a bracelet to ask for a new mobile phone, and this is also the first big thing she wanted to get in the eight years of marriage, she said that her confidence comes from even if her family does not buy it for her, she herself is fully capable of buying it for herself, otherwise she does not have a face mask to ask for a gold bracelet, and it is impossible to get it.
For a full six years, in fact, if you work by yourself, the big gold bracelet can be bought by your own efforts alone, and the new mobile phone is enough to buy many pieces. But sometimes girls will instinctively make a lot of sacrifices for the family, and many women will complain at home because they can't get the life they want, and at the same time, some people don't know how to understand their wives, and they always feel that their wives spend more money.
Yang Damei did not receive gifts from her husband at the beginning, but after she was on fire, she had her own economic foundation and wanted gifts. This also allows us to see that if a girl wants to gain status in the family, she must first work hard to make money and create benefits for the family.
Feelings need to be paid on both sides, the family also needs two people to support together, Yang Damei is at home with children, sometimes for the children to learn, live broadcasting does not have time, even if two hours can not squeeze out, for these two hours of live broadcast, Yang Damei also grievances to send a separate video to shed tears.
Therefore, there are also many women who go back to work just after the confinement, and the children are taken care of by the elderly or nannies at home, not to disconnect themselves from society, so that their existence is valuable, rather than just for the sake of children, losing status and dignity in the family.
Yang Damei is at least an Internet celebrity, and there are thousands of mothers, no job, can only be a housewife, although there are many grievances, but see the healthy growth of children do not feel hard, everyone has their own choices, but if you want financial freedom, you still need to make money Do not take children and housework as an excuse. What do you think about that?