In 2016.
Netflix's talk show ushered in a special comedian.
Her name is Huang Ali.
At that time, she was 7 months pregnant.
As soon as she took office, she tore up Facebook's chief operating officer, Shirley Sandberg's Declaration of Independence.
Shirley wrote a book called "One Step Forward."
It's mentioned over and over again —
Women should not hide behind men, but should be brave enough to move towards independence.
The book went viral.
It is regarded as a must-read for "women in the new era".
But Huang Ali was very dismissive.
For women, she believes, feminism is a vicious curse, a terrible disaster.
Because, her life goals are:
Marry a man of gold.
Be a housewife.
Lie straight and flat until you die.
In 2022.
Huang Ali stood on the same stage.
As soon as she took the stage, she frantically complained about the idea of hating marriage.
She likens marriage to a prison.
He said he was trapped and didn't know how to unwind.
And the person she was most jealous of also changed from a housewife to a single woman.
An hour-long talk show.
She asked herself repeatedly, "Why did I do this?" ”
Change takes time.
Huang Ali spent 8 years, 2920 days and nights.
She went from being a lonely and nameless comedian to an international laugher who swept the world.
The only thing that hasn't changed is her pillow man.
April 13.
She suddenly announced, "I'm divorced!" ”
This is the divorce scene that I have ever seen, the most consistent direction of public opinion -
standing up the whole.
Cheer loudly.
Thumbs up.
Everyone said, "Huang Ali finally gave up the useless man!" ”
2010 was a watershed year in Huang Ali's life.
She had not found anyone before.
Struggling on the poverty line.
Because she loved stand-up comedy, she gave up her college major and mixed in a small theater.
Comedy industry, talented.
Mediocre appearance.
No background.
She was destined to be reduced to a background board, and it was 5 years at a time.
Time destroys everything.
It includes human will, faith, and three views.
Gradually, Huang Ali's dream changed from a comedian to a housewife.
She just wanted to get out of poverty.
I don't want to hold on alone anymore.
As she puts it, "I don't want to treat cough water like a dessert anymore." ”
Perhaps, it was Heaven who sensed her piety.
One night in 2010.
With nothing to do, she attends a party with friends.
A glance at a man—
Looks like Wu Yanzu.
Well-off family.
Graduated from Harvard Business School.
Call, Justin Hakuta.
On top of that, this man is single.
At that time, Huang Ali secretly swore an oath: "I must chase this man." ”
Everything went smoothly.
Huang Ali got Justin's contact information.
During the ambiguity, she resembles an agent, perfectly disguised as the type That Justin likes.
She calculated precisely the progress of each step of the two.
When to hold hands.
embrace.
kiss.
Even, engaging in intimate acts.
No surprises.
Justin was completely conquered.
During the love affair, Huang Ali was always in a state of combat.
She gets up on time every day, cooks lunch for Justin, takes care of the housework, and serves Justin like a top maid.
The aim is to create a sense of dependence on Justin.
Never leave her.
In her 4th year, her action entered the most critical step -
That is, marriage urging.
The beginning is a side knock.
Later, I hooked up with the people around me.
In the end, she transformed into Xiang Lin's sister-in-law, urging in Justin's ear day and night.
Amazingly, she really succeeded.
Justin got down on one knee.
Open the sacred gift box, which contains the diamond ring she has longed for.
She was moved to tears.
Say "I do" that has been prepared.
But at the doorstep, the situation has changed.
Justin's parents were estranged, believing that the daughter-in-law had come for money.
They forced Huang Ali to sign a prenuptial agreement.
The agreement states that -
When the marriage continues, the marital property remains in the name of the individual.
In the event of a future divorce, the other party's property shall not be divided.
Huang Ali had no choice.
She could only sign the agreement.
Then, he dragged Justin to the wedding dress shop and bought the wedding dress that he had already fancied.
The wedding was very simple.
But Huang Ali was satisfied.
After years of enduring, she finally achieved her goal.
Have their own home.
Whenever she talks about this paragraph, she always shows a victorious smile.
She thought she had won.
It's all in her hands.
But after only a year, the situation has reversed.
An amazing truth that will give her a stick head drink.
Until years later, she couldn't help but exclaim, "It was he (Justin) who designed me." ”
How can a housewife tie her husband's heart?
The answer is, use children.
Huang Ali certainly knew.
So she began to make people without stopping.
At the time, she was 33 years old.
Pregnant women of advanced age.
When I did the physical examination, I also found that there were various problems with the body.
She can only work on one side.
One side heals.
While calculating the ovulation period, each sexual life is carried out.
Unexpectedly, she soon became pregnant.
At the time of the obstetric examination, it was also known that it was twins.
But the doctor's next sentence was a declaration: "The children have no heartbeat." ”
The little two did not have time to grieve.
Because they have to catch the last train of the baby, they can only continue to create people.
A month later, Huang Ali became pregnant again.
Carefully through the dangerous period, finally stabilized the child.
She thought to herself, "I'm pregnant, so I can always rest, right?" ”
But the reality is harsh.
During her pregnancy, Justin still had the courage to ask her to take care of her.
Because she doesn't have to work.
She could only complain and wait.
But the outside world still believes that Jasyan is the representative of the new good man.
Just because he accompanied his wife to the obstetric examination.
And Huang Ali endured the suffering of pregnancy reactions.
24-hour contractions.
The torture of vaginal delivery and caesarean section was experienced together.
There is also postoperative catheterization, recovery of a torn body, and postpartum depression due to hormonal disorders.
But no one cared how she felt.
I just think that all this is taken for granted.
However, she dared to be angry and did not dare to speak.
Since she lost her job, she has become sensitive and suspicious.
Every day, I think of ways to grab Jasyan's pigtails so that she can carry out moral kidnapping.
She discovered a terrible truth —
She lost her social competitiveness.
Once abandoned by Jasyan, she will have nowhere to go.
A former harbor.
Today, it has become a lifebuoy.
And she thought she had a belonging, but in fact she still sent someone under the fence.
But fate did not stop the pace of pressure.
One day.
Huang Ali found another amazing secret -
Jasyan actually had $70,000 (about 440,000 yuan) in debt.
At the time, they had just bought a new home.
There are only two weeks left before the delivery time.
As a last resort, Huang Ali could only return to the workplace.
Back to the TV station.
Write the script and catch up with the announcement.
Stand up on your stomach and work overtime day and night.
At that time, she had already realized that The seemingly golden Jasyan was not as good as she thought.
But there was no turning back.
Because of having children.
In 2018.
Huang Ali came to Netflix's talk show again.
Same red-rimmed glasses.
The same is true at the time of labour.
yes.
She was pregnant again.
At that scene, she talked about her 2 years of housewife career.
At one time she thought that housewives were relaxed.
Every day is all about eating, drinking and having fun.
Take care of housework.
Take care of your husband.
But later, she discovered that "housewives" were also a job.
And there is no five insurances and one gold.
No co-workers to assist.
She said bluntly that the mother was a role without dignity.
Holding the child.
Casually being on the body.
breastfeeding.
It's like a barbaric sacrifice.
No matter how painful the child's bite is, he can only hold back.
Sometimes it could not be fed, and he had to go naked and be surrounded and guided by three sisters and six wives.
Once.
The child kept throwing tortillas to the ground.
Huang Ali, who was emotionally broken, grabbed the tortilla on the ground and ate it frantically into her mouth.
"Put it in your mouth and it's easier than walking to the trash can."
And what about Father Jasyan?
Every day, I use tired work as an excuse to avoid all parenting responsibilities.
After 8 months of breastfeeding, Huang Ali completely went on strike.
She was physically and mentally exhausted.
The saddest thing was that her heartbreak didn't resonate in any way.
Including Jasyan's.
On stage, she screamed madly.
She said the child had squeezed out her life.
She could no longer face herself, wretched, undignified.
After only 8 weeks as a full-time housewife, she returned to work.
The office became a place to relax.
Work gave her a breather.
She finally breathed in the fresh air of freedom again.
No cries from children.
The stink of and urine.
And, count down her gossip.
This time back, Huang Ali is no longer a nameless person.
Spicy style.
Sharp content.
People love this hot woman who tears apart the mask of marriage and family beauty.
Previously, her special session only cost $10.
Moreover, it cannot be sold.
You need to hang up to the Internet to sell, in order to barely return the cost.
Nowadays, her ticket is hard to find.
The fare was fried to $1,000 by scalpers.
On Halloween, more than 300 people imitated her.
When she first went to Netflix, she wore a striped vest skirt and even became a new fashion favorite.
And her dorkin husband, Jasyan, turned into her assistant.
At her promotional meetings, she was sold around her.
He even had a bunch of female fans.
Some crazy female fans will also hook up with him in person and want to date him.
Huge popularity, bringing a lot of income.
Huang Ali had already turned over.
Become the main source of income for the family.
Not only did she pay off all the family's debts, but she could also afford to raise her husband, children, and even both parents.
But Huang Ali was still terrified.
On the one hand, the huge wealth and power made her fearful.
Her parents worried that she was too strong.
Friends advised her to stop at the right time.
And under the influence of everyone, she even began to be cautious, afraid that she would climb too high and make her husband's heart unbalanced.
On the other hand, a strong woman is not what she wants.
She wanted to lie flat.
But he was on the fast track and could no longer get off.
Fame is like an inflatable pump.
With each higher level, the pressure balloon becomes larger.
Huang Ali gradually became overwhelmed.
For a while, she was addicted to role-playing.
She wanted to be a farm girl.
Illiterate.
Don't ask the world.
But Jasyan couldn't understand Huang Ali.
Whenever Huang Ali asked him to call her "silly girl", he just cooperated mechanically.
He thought it was easy for Huang Ali to get money.
As long as you go on stage and scold, you can make money.
He was complacent.
And use Huang Ali's hard-earned money to live a luxurious life.
At that time, there were already many people who were indignant for Huang Ali.
There was even a cry for her to divorce.
She didn't say yes.
Holding his stomach up, he said, "I still hope that we can be together forever." ”
But four years later, she changed her decision.
Stride up the road to divorce.
Netflix's talk show for 2022.
Huang Ali's theme is——
derailment.
The first thing I said was, "I want to sleep with someone else right now." ”
Back in 2018.
She once revealed that after giving birth to her second child, she and her husband had no sex.
Time has changed everything.
Because he was too comfortable, The once handsome Jasyan became a greasy and sloppy middle-aged uncle.
Coupled with the chickens and dogs of life, the passion has long ceased to exist.
past.
Huang Ali may accept.
Self-consolation, everyone is like this.
But now, she is full of wings and worthy of the life she wants.
In 2019.
She wrote and directed a film called "Two Big Guesses."
In the play, she is dazzling.
Interact closely with the male gods.
She had thought she had withered.
Later, I found out that it was an indissoluble rift in my marriage.
Now that I think about it, the 2022 special session is like a preview.
Huang Ali cut in with derailment.
She said that there is gender discrimination in society against the phenomenon of infidelity.
Male infidelity is considered normal.
And women?
Infidelity is an unforgivable taboo.
But Huang Ali admitted that even so, family, career, small milk dog, she still wants.
Huang Ali naturally did not cheat.
But 2 months later, she announced her divorce in a high-profile manner.
Remember at the beginning of the article, she asked herself a question: "Why did I do this (get married)?" ”
Now, she's got the answer —
It was fear that drove her.
She was approaching the age of 30.
No money.
No face.
No career.
She was like a drowning person.
Jasyan, on the other hand, is a driftwood that appears randomly.
The opportunity to get married was that she was uneasy: "I don't know if I can live alone." ”
In order to answer this doubt, Huang Ali spent 8 years.
She used to dream of being a housewife.
Take the husband and godson as the lifelong goal.
To defend her family, she works day and night.
Even busy, because there is no time to go to the toilet, suffering from acute colitis, almost life-threatening.
Fortunately, she still woke up -
Lie flat in life, do not rely on marrying into the rich.
It's in your own hands.
She was finally determined to leave.
Cut off the man who was dragging his legs.
Ironically, the prenuptial agreement that was wary of her now preserves her property.
She was able to retire and finally became the single nobleman she had been jealous of.
As she puts it: "I now know that I can live on my own, so I want to live alone." ”
The door to the future has been opened.
On the other side of the door is freedom, dreams and passion.