Several divorce and marriage cases that have recently caused global hot searches are very interesting, and in comparison, they are even more interesting.
First of all, a divorce case that made many people clap their hands and send congratulations: the protagonist is Huang Ali, the queen of talk shows.
For those who are familiar with Huang Ali, the various "laughter points", "explosive points" and "thunder points" buried in this 8-year marriage have actually been heard in her unreserved and uninhibited passages.
In 2016, huang Ali turned from an obscure comedian and became popular overnight in the Netflix talk show debut "Little Cobra", one of the most colorful strokes was that Ali, who was 7 months pregnant, revealed to the audience how she used "heart tricks" to trap her elite husband who graduated from Harvard Business School.
(The debut talk show scored a high score of 8.8 on Douban, and it also established the Asian woman's position in the talk show world.) ）
In Huang Ali's paragraph, Kashiwada, a Japanese Filipino mixed-race boy who graduated from Harvard Business School, "rich second generation", and successfully started a business, is the "dream man" he finally met "after dating a bunch of scumbags", and the personalities and interests of the two are very similar, "with a sharp heart".
In order to "trap" this quality man, she did not kiss Kashiwada until the 5th date, and insisted on preparing lunch for her boyfriend every day, without interruption for five years.
After 4 years of dating, she began to release various signals to force marriage, "implanted the concept of marriage proposal into men's brains", and finally the dream came true.
And her ultimate dream is not a "step forward" at all, but "lying flat". This sentence has also become one of the most widely circulated passages in "Little Cobra".
(Inserting a photo of the two getting married here, Kashiwata did have a bit of a face-to-face collision with Wu Yanzu.) ）
After entering this marriage, Huang Ali and Bai Tian had 2 children and bought a house. But she seems to be deeply beginning to regret that she has walked into the "siege".
In 2018's "Iron Lady", Huang Ali, who is pregnant with a second child, fiercely complained about the encounter of the role of "mother" in real life. "I love my child, but I just want to throw her in the trash." In addition, breastfeeding and how women balance their careers and families have become the material for her paragraphs.
In 2022, Huang Ali released her latest Netflix talk show "Merry Woman", and even more deeply complained about the marriage that did not let herself lie flat, and issued a deafening question: "Why did you want to get married in the first place?!" ”
"Now I'm here to make money, and my husband is counting the time in the house I bought, counting the time with the Rolex watch I bought for him on Father's Day. He's living the life he wants, he's lying flat, and I'm fighting. ”
She said she was facing a daunting midlife crisis: "God knows, now every 5 minutes, I have an urge to cheat. "At the same time, as a married person with a baby, I don't know how much I envy those single people." Now I really only want to live by myself! ”
Unexpectedly, not long after the end of this festival, Huang Ali and her husband officially announced the news of divorce. The media revealed that Huang Ali chose to peacefully end her marriage life of nearly 8 years with her husband, and the two children will be raised by them.
Since then, Huang Ali has deleted all the photos of her ex-husband on social media, but her ex-husband's Ins still retains many memories of Calling for Ali and the two of them.
Another thing worth mentioning is that in the 2019 memoir "Dear Girl", Huang Ali revealed that she signed a prenuptial agreement before their wedding. Because of the decision, she said she became "more motivated to earn my own money because I signed a document specifically outlining the extent to which I can't rely on my husband." ”
But what didn't happen was, "Being forced to sign that prenuptial agreement was one of the greatest things that happened to me and my career." "This prenuptial agreement protects her and the wealth she has created.
Finally divorced from a marriage that he did not want to live on, but also because of a forced to sign a prenuptial agreement to get motivated and protected, this looks like an independent woman's cool article, no wonder everyone has cheered for the return to single Ari!
In contrast, the response to the "marriage declaration" issued by the other two stars during the same period was that the fans hugged their thighs with tears and said, "Don't fall in love with your brain"...
One is Britney, who has just been freed. On April 8, she posted a photo of her fiancé, Sam Asghari, who had been dating for six years, and called him HUSBAND (husband) in capital letters. A few days later, she dropped another bombshell: she was pregnant again!
In addition to regular blessings, the mood of Chinese and foreign netizens seems to be very complicated. "I still can't believe him... But as long as you can be fine...", "I hope you signed a prenuptial agreement." "Protect yourself."
Bubu's vision of choosing a husband has indeed been criticized. In 2004, she and Fa Xiao flashed marriage in Las Vegas, and the marriage was cancelled just 55 hours later. Within a few months, she married her dancer Kevin, and the two had two children, a marriage that lasted only two years before it came to an end.
The man took custody of both children and has been fighting with Britney for higher maintenance. In the more than ten years of Britney's "imprisonment", the predecessor has been very ruthless.
No wonder fans see sam, the newlywed husband, who is 13 years younger than Bubu, and they have to be extra vigilant. Foreign netizens are bitterly advising her to sign a prenuptial agreement.
The same sentiment came after Avril Lavigne, another teenage diva, announced her engagement to her boyfriend Mod Sun. Although the two parties seem to be very happy, the fans are a hundred and a thousand who do not understand.
(Under Lavigne's engagement announcement on Sina Weibo, fans are almost all "tearful blessings.") ）
In addition to the same suspicion of "eating soft rice" and various rubbing girlfriend traffic, the fiancé seems to have a lot of "black history", such as a threesome open relationship that makes most people accept impotence, and then openly tears up after the end.
While applauding Huang Ali's "strong" divorce, while lamenting the marriage of Bubu, Lavigne and even the previous big S flash marriage, hating not being able to completely shake their "love brain", this may be a common state of many netizens.
But it really doesn't have to. Divorce or marriage are choices made by the parties themselves. Whether it is to win or lose, whether it is cold or warm, we bystanders who eat melons can never know more than the parties, of course, there is no qualification to say "shake awake". Further, feeling that the "love brain" is not advisable is actually a hidden concept in itself: there can only be one correct way to live in the world (that is, I think the right way to live). But in the end, always willing to immerse yourself in love, even "moths to the fire", why not a kind of happiness?
Huang Ali's divorce is the choice she wants, applause! Bubu and Lavigne get married, which is the choice they want, and they also applaud! In fact, no matter how marriage is treated, she is an independent woman who can take responsibility for her own decisions.
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