At that time,
When your future is uncertain,
Entering marriage.
now
When you realize your own wealth freedom,
Singles returned.
Huang Ari is truly a magical person
When she was a wife,
No matter how to "wash your hands and make soup",
Didn't really become a love brain,
The effort that the heart will give to itself is clearly defined as a financial investment
Simply put,
The biggest difference from the usual domesticated wives is that—
Her attachment is only on the surface,
But the spirit is still awake.
It doesn't really dwarf yourself and "take the husband as the sky".
I just think that if you want to live a life of lying flat and retiring, it is not necessary to pretend to be stupid and weak.
And when she found that being a housewife was different from what she had imagined
It's hard to find a husband like that
Soon after that, I began to adjust the direction of my life.
(Who would have thought that a prenuptial agreement required by a man...
Not only did it make her,
In the end, it was her wealth that was protected.)
And then when she was a mom,
No matter how much you love your children,
Nor did he accept being wrapped up in the "motherhood",
If you can not eat bitterness, you must not eat it.
Compared with
It is completely different from Zhong Jiaxin's choice of living in modern society but taking risks to experience the original production operation at home.
Huang Ali rejects unnecessary sacrifice.
No matter how much it is emphasized that motherhood is a vocation,
Nor can we always be above personal life and career.
why?
Asking is the deep understanding after watching "The God of Sushi".
In this documentary, only the man and his two sons who have inherited the mantle appear throughout the whole process...
There is not a single shot of the wife.
The reality is so,
But where there is a little ambition,
Who can still make stay-at-home moms a lifelong pursuit?
Whether it is to live as desired, or to realize the value of life, Huang Ali's experience and insight can be summarized into a clear and clear sentence -
If you want to be yourself, you have to strengthen yourself.
And when her career took off,
(Not only is the talk show popular, but also successfully tested the waters of the film and television industry, step by step to unlock the new identities of actors, producers, screenwriters)
When women are still asked how to balance family and work,
She was already thinking about the next level
Since successful men can have room for trial and error,
Since some men who are inferior to their wives can also have a certain amount of room for trial and error,
(Yang Yi, you acted in those dramas in vain)
Feel comfortable at home and lazy,
Then she,
In the past few years, she has let the child's father live her ideal life,
Can't you think about it?
Can't you ask for more?
It doesn't matter about "Dong Shi Gong Gong",
It doesn't matter "scumbag",
It doesn't matter if you're a "bad mom"...
(Here's the mockery.)
Double standards in society when judging "good dad" and "good mom"!
As a matter of fact
Her "bad mom" contributes and accompanies her children far more than 95% of the "good dad")
Like her,
Women appropriately let go of some baggage,
Can live better