When "scumbags" play with men's feelings, they often use these 3 routines, and men should be vigilant

For most men, when faced with emotional problems, they are eager to have a sincere love and then embrace a happy married life, but not every man can get a good result, and some men are hurt in their feelings.

For example, some men like a woman who treats feelings insincerely in their lives, not only to make their efforts not to get a corresponding return, but even to play with their feelings in many cases, in this state, men will be afraid of love.

For this part of the men, the reason why they face this tragic end is because they are immersed in the beautiful fantasy of love, so they do not have a wary heart for women, and they are naturally vulnerable in this state.

To know that a small number of women in the face of emotional problems with the idea of playing, they often use some routines to treat the man who pursues themselves, both enjoy the man's efforts, but also do not treat the man with a sincere attitude.

Therefore, for a man, in the face of emotional problems, in addition to paying his own love, he also needs to be vigilant about some attitudes of women, so that he can avoid being hurt and get the emotional life he wants.

In fact, for most women, in the face of love marriage problems, it is necessary to be vigilant about these three routines of women, and maintaining vigilance can avoid being played with by women, and at the same time, they can get the emotional life they want.

1, women "do not agree or refuse" to suitors

In real life, there is such a phenomenon: some men have paid a lot to the women they like and have pursued them for a long time, but this part of the men have not received a positive answer from women, and it has always been a vague state.

In this state, men think that they have a certain position in the woman's heart, so they have always had the hope to continue to pursue this woman, and usually continue to pay for this woman, but in the end there is no good result.

The reason why this part of the man will usher in such an ending is because they are tricked by this woman, so it is not uncommon for them to pay not only without a good result, but also to be wasted in their youth.

There are a small number of women who use this routine to treat their suitors, they are willing to accept the suitor's pay in life, they will go out with the suitor to date, but also do not refuse the suitor's gift, but do not give the suitor a positive answer.

Many men are hurt in this routine of women, men have been carrying hope to pay, but in the end there is no good result, in this state men have no confidence in love, and even in the future prefer to be single for a lifetime.

Therefore, for a man, when facing emotional problems, it is necessary to be vigilant against this routine of women, to know how to judge women's attitude towards feelings, and then make a decision about their next pursuit, so as to avoid being hurt.

For example, men have been pursuing women for a long time, and they have also paid a lot, but every time they talk about emotional problems with women, they get a very vague answer, and their confessions have been unclear, and they need to be vigilant in this state.

In this case, men can think about whether they still want to continue to pursue, but also need to think about whether they are routine by women, so that they can avoid being hurt, but also to avoid being delayed in youth.

2, women want to indulge men

Many men have experienced a state in their relationships in which they initiate a violent pursuit after falling in love with a woman and pay a lot for this woman, and in the process, men feel that they have a good chance, but in the end there is no good result.

The reason why this part of the men will pay women for so long is because they see hope in the process of pursuit, but there is always a vague feeling, and this feeling makes men persist.

In fact, the reason why men have this vague feeling is because they are caught by this woman, so they have been unwilling to give up in the process of pursuit, and eventually this part of the man has been seriously hurt.

In real life, some women have adopted this attitude to hang their suitors, not only making the suitors disdainful of themselves, but also not giving a satisfactory answer to the pursuit, and finally rejecting the suitors.

The routine that women take is to indulge, in life will give the suitor a certain hope, usually willing to go out with the suitor, but also willing to accept the suitor's gifts, but do not clearly express this hope.

As a man, when facing emotional problems, if you lack vigilance against this routine, then it is possible to immerse yourself in this false fantasy all the time, and the final result is a tragedy, such examples are not uncommon.

Therefore, when men face emotional problems, they need to be vigilant about this attitude, and once they find themselves immersed in this false fantasy, then they need to wake up immediately and make the decision that is most beneficial to themselves.

Of course, when men judge whether women want to get away with it, they also need to have a certain degree of accuracy, and they need to judge whether women are in the process of running through various aspects of temptation, so that they can get the emotional life they want, and at the same time, they will not be hurt.

3, women pretend to be simple in front of men

For most men, when they face emotional problems, they are eager to get a sincere love, so in many cases they hope to meet a simple woman, which is a man's heartfelt desire, but also a requirement for feelings.

And a small number of women in the relationship to take advantage of this psychology of men, they often disguise themselves as a simple woman in front of men, in order to stimulate men's emotions, and then achieve their own goals, such examples are not uncommon.

Just like a small number of women when they are with suitors, they tend to pretend to be particularly simple, always saying that they have never been in love before, and at the same time do not understand some things in life, and this state makes the suitors feel particularly satisfied.

But in fact, this part of the women in the face of emotional problems is not so simple as imagined, they not only have complex emotional experiences, and even many times will accept the pursuit of many men at the same time, such a situation really exists.

Many men are immersed in this routine of women, and in the end, not only do their efforts not get corresponding returns, but even in many cases they are seriously injured, and eventually they will be injured all over the body, which is a situation that needs to be vigilant.

Therefore, for a man, when facing emotional problems, he needs to be vigilant about this aspect of the situation, and judge whether the woman he likes is really simple from all aspects, so that he can make a decision about his next love life.

For example, after a man likes a woman, if he finds that the other party is particularly simple, at this time he needs to understand the woman's past emotional experience through other channels, and also judge the woman's emotional attitude from the bits and pieces of life.

When men can have this vigilance, they can avoid being tricked by some women, and at the same time, they can get a sincere love in their daily lives, and eventually men can enter a love marriage with a good woman.

Emotional advice for The South Bridge:

Whether it is a man or a woman, when facing emotional problems, they need to find a sincere partner, so that they can avoid being hurt, and at the same time, they can also benefit the happiness of the second half of their lives, which can be said to be a prerequisite for the road to feelings.

As a man, when facing emotional problems, you can't watch the appearance of girls, and you also need to judge the emotional attitude of the other party, so that you can avoid being hurt and get real love.

Therefore, the author suggests that men need to be wary of the above three routines of girls when facing emotional problems, only in this way can they find a partner who treats feelings sincerely, and at the same time avoid being played with feelings, which is the situation that men need to understand.