Boys who have been single for a long time will definitely encounter this problem!

Hello everyone, I am a strict and gentle, dedicated to the truth of the morning brother.

Dear little brothers, for falling in love, do you think it is okay to be a woman, or would you rather be absent than indiscriminate? Come to Ma Slip, is a woman on the line deduction 1, Ning Que does not indiscriminately deduct 2.

So let's think about it, what you think of Ning Que is not excessive, is it your persistence or the excuse you make for yourself?

Some little brothers really didn't figure out the concept, what to say, oh then I'd rather lack than abuse, you said I don't know how to pick and choose, do I meet a scumbag I still have to insist?

You're about to stop adding drama to yourself, the scumbag is more picky than you, are you three or four? No, no...

If you meet a scumbag, then of course you have to hurry up and withdraw there is nothing to discuss, what we want to talk about today is to say that Ning Que does not indiscriminately give himself cowardice, hesitation, and inferiority as a shield.

To put it bluntly, your Ning Que is not indiscriminate, it is just an excuse you are looking for, which is completely different.

Back to the main topic, if you belong to this kind, then don't be afraid that what I say is not good, wake up quickly, you not only can't meet, it will only get worse and worse, don't believe us to go down.

1# You will fall in love with someone you imagine

Whether it is a single mother or a fetus, or a long time without falling in love, in short, the little brother in front of the screen, if I ask you, what is your ideal type?

Come on, think about it for two seconds, fast hands, buckled on the public screen.

So good, after thinking about it, think about a question, such a person, are there many?

Some little brothers said, of course, more, my ideal type is everywhere, white skin, beautiful and long legs, please speed up the two words of superficiality on the public screen to give to yourself.

Some people said, I don't know, I met to know, I slowly looked for it, the result?

Looking for three years and five years, either you meet a girl who is very good in personality but looks really bad, or she looks really beautiful and opens her mouth and is a village aunt, there is always a point that you can't stand.

Your family's dogs have been littered several times, but you still haven't found them, and you start to wonder to yourself: Am I asking too much? Or am I not worthy? I'll leave it alone if I want a bike.

Someone said, no, no, no, I'm not, I have the standard.

Let's take the simplest one, if you say, gentle, so good, gentle girls are indeed quite a lot, but oh but how long can it be gentle?

When you've been with her for a long time and she's revealed her true side, what do you do? Accept reality or say goodbye? Do you wonder to yourself, is society changing or am I asking too much?

In short, whether you have a goal or not, look around and wait, and you have indeed loved such a person.

What is this man's name? Called non-existent.

#2 You will lose the ability to love

Without objectively evaluating Ha, my own little clumsy opinion, Brother Chen, I think that the essence of Ning Que is selfish.

Because in essence, your original intention is to want the world to develop according to your imagination, and the people you like must thrive according to your imagination.

Maybe you have friction with the ambiguous object and encounter a little difficulty, and you will immediately think in your mind: I would rather be lacking than indiscriminate, I will not interact with her, and the next one is more obedient.

Well, it seems to be very efficient, but in fact, your process is just, encounter, give up, encounter, give up, have you found, this is a dead cycle.

Shouldn't the normal process be encounter, run-in, run-in success, together or encounter, run-in, run-in, run-in, give up?

Others in this stage of running-in, there is an extra bright road to get rid of the single, you, find yourself a dead end, in the inside to turn back to run.

Some people have said, I am protecting myself, don't you always say that people should love themselves first?

You don't have such a cunning ah, which door of yours loves yourself, you are purely accustomed to yourself.

After a long time, even if one day you really meet the perfect person who can't do it, do you know how to get along? Do you know how to manage feelings? Do you know how to comfort people?

At most, you will say: Hello, you are the one you are looking for, let's be together. Then in exchange for a sentence from someone: Are you sick?

That's the end of your story. And, it's not a story, it's the truth.

#3 Don't be afraid to make mistakes and lose

Then I will be a little more serious, Ning Que can be said to be an escape psychology, lazy to socialize, I can say that I would rather lack than abuse, too lazy to deal with interpersonal relationships.

I am also Ning Que rather than indiscriminate, too lazy to take responsibility, I am also Ning Que and not indiscriminate, afraid of being injured, afraid of falling out of the pit, I can also say that I am Ning Que and not indiscriminate.

But we have grown up walking from elementary school while falling, why do we grow up, but our courage is getting smaller and smaller?

As the old saying goes, eat a long and wise, you don't suffer losses and don't try and make mistakes, just from our own considerations, how can you know what you really want?

How could you know how naïve your imagination was at the beginning?

I don't know how many people come over in front of the screen, you can share your own experience, is it that all your exs or including your current ones are actually completely different from the people you imagined at the beginning?

Dear little brothers, it is not terrible to suffer losses in love, what do you say to lose? Ah you said it yourself.

Well, today I will talk so much, it is good to try more, not to mention that many of our little brothers, a lot of girls around us, while wanting to fall in love, shouting the slogan of Ning Que.

You look at our other little brothers, ah all day there are so many iron brothers around, he doesn't even have your conditions. As for you, don't be in the midst of the blessings and not be blessed.