Good start~
Have you all had a good year?
Leaving your hometown, not yet married and childbearing, seeing that Ben San or you have already been in your thirties, have you become a "family contrarian son" and "negative teaching material" in the eyes of the seven aunts and eight aunts.
There is no serious job outside, do not find a partner when you are old, or only talk about love and do not get married, do not set a good example for the younger generations in the family, and then do not give birth to it late... I believe that many people can hear these words during the New Year.
Just because they failed to meet the strict social standards in some aspects, they were endlessly nagged, leftover women, scumbags, sloppy women, career women... All were given the name of the evil woman.
Instead of asking the heavens wordlessly, it is better to cheer up and say that the new year is new, the new year, why not be an evil girl?
The plight of women has never changed before Eve to #me too#.
——Fran Lebowitz
1
"No man or woman"
"How come you don't have any femininity at all, like a man."
"Shouldn't girls be Sven, quiet?"
"Sitting without sitting, hunched over, where a bit of a girl look."
"How can a girl's family be so wild?"
A spicy comment
The matter of masculinity is still left to us Chinese good sons and daughters
2
"Dirty Girl"
"Why don't you learn what it looks like to wear high heels and skirts and dirty sneakers every day?"
"Why don't you even wear makeup when you go to work?" There is no minimum respect for work. ”
"If you wear it like this, it will make me feel ashamed to go out with you."
"It's too sloppy to stay at home, and you don't wash your head or face, so it's no wonder you can't find someone."
oversize = sloppy
Red Lip Eyeliner = Intense Makeup
Unisex style = nunnery
Dressing, in the eyes of the world, seems to be only a way out of "good marriage style"
(Did not say that good marriage is not good)
3
"Career Girl"
"I don't know what I'm mixing every day, and I haven't earned a few money, you're just stumbling through the years!"
"It's just tossing and turning!"
"You don't mix well in the big city, according to me, you should come back and honestly take the civil service examination, you see how stable your cousin is, which is like you..."
"It's good to be a teacher or a civil servant, and you don't have to worry about finding someone."
The most filial daughter in the eyes of her parents,
It was always the university that chose the teacher training/accounting major,
After graduation, stay in the local area to enter a public school/bank,
There is a stable income, do not worry about finding a partner of the "daughter of the old Li family next door".
4
"Strong Woman"
"Girls can't be too strong, strong women are lonely in the end, what does it mean?"
"Woman, it's better to do well than to marry well."
"Outside the male lead, inside the female lead."
"If there is a woman like you who does not care about the family, do you know what a good wife and mother are?"
Unmarried and infertile, Fang Ling will continue forever.
No birth, no nourishment, Xianshou Qichang.
5
"Lazy Girl"
"You're not virtuous and diligent, how do you find a partner?"
"So lazy, in the future, some times will be rejected by the in-laws."
"Girls must have a job in their eyes, otherwise when they go out, people will say that they have not been taught well at home."
Are only girls with hands and feet?
Why can't a man have a life in his eyes?
How can a man reach out and open his mouth?
6
"Scumbag"
"Having had so many boyfriends, she is definitely not a good girl."
"If you have been in love, you are second-hand."
"Bus."
"At first glance, it is a product that will actively seduce men."
It's not that people don't like breasts and vaginas,
I just don't like that these two organs are still connected to the body,
This body also speaks
7
"Leftover Girl"
"If you don't get married, you'll be laughed at, and you and your dad can't even look up at your relatives."
"In a few years, when you reach the age of thirty, see who wants you!"
"What a woman is so hard to do, just find a good husband."
"Whatever you study, you have to marry in the end."
"A woman's life is incomplete without marriage."
It is true that a woman has not dumped a hundred men in her life/
Didn't earn a million/didn't live for yourself
All of them are incomplete!!!
8
"Filial Piety"
"When are you going to have children?" Now that your dad and I are still young, we can help carry it for a few years. ”
"If you don't have children again, you will pass the optimal age for childbearing."
"Don't tell me what's upswing, what woman doesn't have children?"
"A woman who has not had a child is incomplete."
There are three filial pieties, and no queen is greater.
With one child, the plan is to have a second child,
After all, one is too lonely, and two can still have a companion.
Well, having one child is a birth, and raising two is also raising ah.
Writing here, I can't help but think of the "Wang BingBing Collapse Incident" at the beginning of the year.
From the "first wife of the nation" voted by the tiger straight man to the "32-year-old divorced second-hand goods", the distance between the two is only Wang Bingbing's exposure to the history of hanging science and divorce.
What is infuriating and ridiculous is that in these years, even the "collapsed house" has sexism:
Male love bean collapse house - suspected of pornography gambling and drugs, taking the most popular "pure prison route";
Female love bean collapse house - failed to pass the fourth level exam once, lived with her boyfriend at the age of 19, divorced.
When faced with more discipline in society, I hope that everyone can have the courage to break the rules, there are too many layers of shackles on women, get rid of those "should" and "should not", accept the real self, do not have to pretend to be the expectations of others, and do not have to feel sorry for what they deserve.
You know, in this era, even the end of the princess's life has changed, no longer just the pale and powerless sentence "Live happily with the prince from now on", but even if you are sneered by the world to find a high-quality pony, you have to fight hard and fight for what you really want.
Finally, I would like to send you a passage from Yataro Matsuura:
I swear that no matter what I can do, what I can't do, what I lack, what I have, I must not hate myself, I must cherish myself, and I will continue to love myself until I die.
Have fun for the rest of your life
- End -
Written by: namiko
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