The family of three eats imperial food, and the son is 180 tall but was beaten to death by his parents, what is the purpose?

Emer once said:

Home is the kingdom of the father, the world of the mother, the paradise of the child.

In a harmonious family, the relationship between family members must be harmonious, and excellent parents must be the ferrymen in the child's life.

Today's story comes from a family of civil servants:

The father is the leader of the organ, the mother is the policeman, the son is the traffic police, the family relationship is very good, but what people did not expect is that the son died tragically at the hands of his parents.

01 House of Civil Servants

The owner of this family was named Zhang Xiaoyu, the director of the Lincang Radio Station in Yunnan, a cadre at the department level, who enjoyed the treatment at the department level, and was the only leader in the Lincang broadcasting system at that time who enjoyed this treatment.

Mother Wen Xiuping, a registered police officer at the police station.

They have a son named Zhang Li, 25 years old, after graduating from college, Zhang Li inherited his mother's profession and worked in the traffic police detachment in Lincang City.

Speaking of Zhang Xiaoyu, people who know him well will praise him, because he is humble, does not have any official shelf, and has a particularly good relationship with friends.

And Wen Xiuping, people are particularly easy-going, in the eyes of others, they will think that she is a good wife and a good mother.

Her son Zhang Li's college was in Kunming, and for four years, her mother accompanied her son and took care of her children's lives.

Zhang Li is also more grateful, after graduating from college in 2006, he successfully passed the civil service examination and finally became a traffic policeman with the first good result in the interview.

The family of three is a member of the state, and its harmonious family relationship has long become a good story among the neighbors.

02 Harmonious family relations

After Zhang Li became a traffic policeman, he quickly found a girlfriend.

The girlfriend is a teacher, the person is beautiful, the heart and eyes are good, Zhang Li's parents are also more satisfied with her, and are ready to marry Zhang Li Zhang Luo in the next year.

People with such an identity as the old Zhang family are few in Lincang, and the family conditions are needless to say, and the house where they live alone is more than 190 square meters.

Zhang Li's girlfriend is called Pan Xiao, who he met when he went down to the grassroots level to exercise, and the two people have been in contact for more than 2 years, step by step towards the palace of marriage.

Pan Xiao said that Zhang Li's relationship with her parents is very good, the relationship is so harmonious that people are envious, and Pan Xiao sometimes suspects that Zhang Li has such a good relationship with her parents, which will not affect her and Zhang Li's feelings in the future.

The next door neighbor of the Zhang family also said that Zhang Li was a particularly polite child, and when he met him, he would often call an aunt so, which felt particularly kind.

Even the teachers of Zhang Li Middle School said that this child has many interests and hobbies, is smart, has very good grades, is polite, and treats people sincerely.

03 Parents' arrangement

As the only son in the family, Zhang Li was heavily valued by his parents, and he was used to growing up from childhood to adulthood, and when he went to college in Kunming, his mother retired early for him and went to Kunming to take care of her son.

In the eyes of others, such people are harmonious, and the relationship is enviable.

But who would have thought that in such a harmonious family, his son Zhang Li died tragically at the hands of his parents.

That day, Zhang Xiaoyu and Wen Xiuping now bought a bottle of gas canisters at a gas store, and they wanted to create the illusion that their son had been leaked by the gas.

In the evening, Zhang Li went home, entered the room and began to talk to his girlfriend, after the call, Zhang Li did not fall asleep immediately, he lay on the bed, heard the movement outside the house, guessed that it may be his parents were releasing gas, so he called the police.

Unexpectedly, this police call was heard by the parents of Zhang Xiaoyu and his wife, and they decided to change their strategy, and they did not stop shirtless, broke into the room, and killed Zhang Li with a mess.

Poor 180cm tall guy, just died on the spot!

Soon, the police arrived at the scene and took them under control.

However, what the police did not expect was that the performance of Zhang Xiaoyu and his wife was confusing.

Under the questioning of the police, Zhang Xiaoyu quickly admitted the fact that he killed Zhang Li, but he talked and laughed and did not seem to have any remorse.

Wen Xiuping in the other room, in addition to crying loudly, did not shed a single tear.

04 Real reasons

However, why did Zhang Xiaoyu and his wife want to put their son to death?

According to Zhang Xiaoyu's account, zhang Li was found to be mentally ill when he was still in high school.

Zhang Xiaoyu and Wen Xiuping are both local people with heads and faces and status, and their sons have mental illness, which makes them feel very faceless, and they have gone to many hospitals to cure their sons, but the results are minimal.

Over time, the couple lost patience, and after a period of internal suffering, decided to kill their son, but at the critical time, they could not do it.

However, Zhang Li's illness did not improve, but had a tendency to worsen.

And what people can't understand is that Zhang Li has been a traffic policeman for more than two years, and the teachers, friends, and colleagues around him think that Zhang Li is very good, not like he is sick.

This answer was answered by the doctor who had treated Zhang Li when the police returned to Zhang Li's uncle and treated Zhang Li.

It turned out that Zhang Li was very good in junior high school, his grades had always been the first in the grade, and he once accidentally took the third grade, and as a result, he was told by the teacher, and after returning home, he was also criticized by his parents who wanted to be strong.

That is, the criticism of teachers and parents made Zhang Li very aggrieved in his heart, and he was deeply trapped in it and could not extricate himself.

Some people will say that if you don't do well in the exam once, you will take the exam better next time, won't you?

But things are not as simple as they seem.

Zhang Xiaoyu is a person who is very strict with himself, it can be said that he has reached the point of perversion, and he uses this set of himself on the education of his children.

Perhaps in this high-pressure environment, Zhang Li suffered from intermittent schizophrenia.

Although physical therapy can control Zhang Li's condition, and in the company of her mother Wen Xiuping, Zhang Li's life is stable, not only entering the university but also becoming a civil servant, even so, Zhang Xiaoyu is worried about things.

During his tenure as a traffic policeman, the leaders of the traffic police team found Zhang Xiaoyu and said that Zhang Li did not behave like a normal person.

It is okay not to commit an illness, this crime, Zhang Li will become another person, smash when he sees things, and his temper will become extremely grumpy.

Perhaps out of concern about their son's illness, in order not to let the people around them know that their son is sick, and in order to save their face, Zhang Xiaoyu and his wife decided to take a desperate risk and carefully planned this plan to hurt their son, but in the end, they also put themselves on a desperate situation.

Write at the end

Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Xiaoyu were eventually sentenced and duly punished.

But as a parent of a child, the mood is indeed very heavy.

Family education is an art, we should pay attention to the way and method of children's education, to encourage children more, do not criticize or accuse children at will, even if he does wrong, he should also forgive the child, try to think of a way with the child.

If you put too much psychological pressure on the child, let the child breathe in learning and life, and form a dead knot in the heart, eventually, a heart disease will be formed, and the victim will not only be the child but also yourself.

No one is perfect, and so are children. To learn to tolerate the child more, maybe he did not do a good job, but how can people not make mistakes, as long as they summarize in time, next time do a good job, maybe the situation will be completely different.

Just like Zhang Li last year, if Zhang Xiaoyu can care more about him, not give Zhang Li too much pressure, pay more attention to the child's mental health, and enlighten the child in time, maybe such a tragedy will not happen.

Life, everyone only once, what to do, how to do, we all have to weigh and weigh, and do and cherish.