Modern society is becoming more and more demanding in terms of marriage. This has been followed by a gradual increase in demands. Many women's parents will feel that the bride price represents the sincerity of the man, so they value the man's bride price more and more, and they want more and more.
With the increase of women's requirements, men's requirements are not set in stone. They will demand that the woman's appearance, family conditions, and work situation match her own home. That is what was called "door to door" in ancient times. And if the other party's conditions are not as good as their own home, they can't help but have a sense of contempt.
And the most emblematic of this kind of thing in modern society is the marriage between citizens and peasants.
In the eyes of the citizens, they are always superior to the peasants, so they always have a natural contempt for the peasants. Especially for the older generation, this distinction between peasants and citizens is carved into the bones, so when their sons want to go to a farmer, they will spare no effort to oppose.
Recently, Wang Wentao's marriage was opposed by his mother.
Son of a civil servant
Wang Wentao's mother is satisfied with her son's career. After graduating from university, Wang Wentao took the civil service examination at the request of the family, and officially had an "iron rice bowl", and the family felt that there was no other profession that could be compared with civil servants, and they could earn a good salary without the wind and the sun, so Wang Wentao's mother showed off every time, and her son had a job.
His mother's praise sometimes made Wang Wentao feel even a little unable to lift his head. Because her mother is always used to publicizing her own affairs and exaggerating the facts, this also makes Wang Wentao feel very distressed. But Wang Wentao couldn't help it, he didn't know how to stop his mother from touting him outside.
Wang Wentao's home used to be in a lane alley, and they haven't been back since they moved away. Until he was admitted to the civil service, his mother took him back to the narrow alley, knocked on the door door to door, and took the prepared gifts to tell everyone that he had been admitted to the civil service.
Watching his mother flaunt herself in front of her, Wang Wentao was eager to quickly find a seam to drill into.
Rural girlfriend
After Working for two years, Wang Wentao's colleagues introduced him to a girlfriend, although the girl came from the countryside, but she was very good, with her own efforts to enter the public security system.
When Wang Wentao's colleagues talked to him about Xiao Mianmian, that is, the girl, their eyes were full of appreciation. She and Wang Wentao said that although Xiao Mianmian's family conditions were not very good, her academic performance was very good, and she did not feel inferior because of her family conditions, and she had been working hard.
This year, he also passed the municipal public security bureau with his own efforts. After Wang Wentao listened, he also admired Xiao Mianmian's experience, so under the arrangement of his colleagues, the two people met.
After the two people met, Wang Wentao was attracted by Xiao Mianmian's confident eyes, and the confidence she exuded made Wang Wentao unable to look away at all, and Xiao Mianmian's appearance belonged to that kind of gentle and lovely type, which also made Wang Wentao like it. Therefore, Wang Wentao launched a pursuit of Xiao Mianmian.
After Xiao Mianmian learned about Wang Wentao, she also felt that Wang Wentao was very much in line with her own criteria for choosing a mate, so the two of them were together.
After Wang Wentao and Xiao Mianmian were together for a year, Wang Wentao and Xiao Mianmian proposed. Xiao Mianmian also agreed to Wang Wentao's marriage proposal. Wang Wentao couldn't wait to bring Xiao Mianmian back to his home, wanting to share his joy with his parents.
But unexpectedly, Wang Wentao's mother was quite critical of Xiao Mianmian's origin.
meet
When they first met, Wang Wentao's mother was not very friendly to Xiao Mianmian, but Xiao Mianmian did not pay attention to it, she felt that it might be due to the fact that the two people saw each other less and were not used to it.
But later, after the two families began to discuss the marriage, Xiao Mianmian found that her mother-in-law simply did not like herself.
Xiao Mianmian's parents were very happy when they heard the news that their daughter was going to get married, so they rushed from the countryside and prepared to discuss the wedding date and bride price with Wang Wentao's parents. On the day of the meeting, they went to the hotel early to wait for Wang Wentao's parents to come over, and waited until noon for Wang Wentao's mother to arrive late, and Wang Wentao's father did not arrive at the scene at all due to work.
This made Xiao Mianmian's parents very unhappy, they felt that this was disrespect for them, and now that the two people were not married, Wang Wentao's parents were doing this to them, so how should they treat their daughters when they were married?
Therefore, this meal was not pleasant, Xiao Mianmian's parents did not show great enthusiasm because of each other's slow treatment, while Wang Wentao's mother was naturally lukewarm because she did not like Xiao Mianmian at all.
So the wedding date was not finalized after the meal was eaten.
humiliate
There was no way, Wang Wentao and Xiao Mianmian decided to visit their parents again.
First of all, the two people first came to Xiao Mianmian's house to meet Xiao Mianmian's parents. Xiao Mianmian's parents are honest people, they will not say anything about the scene, but Xiao Mianmian's father can't help but bring two points of anger when talking about the scene when the two families last met.
However, Wang Wentao's parents were not so easy to deal with. When they came to Wang Wentao's house, Xiao Mianmian did not wait for any good looks. Wang Wentao's mother was still disdainful
So this also made Wang Wentao's mother even more scornful of Xiao Mianmian, and she laughed at Xiao Mianmian without scruples, which made Xiao Mianmian feel very embarrassed at once, so she got up and resigned after eating.
The marriage failed
After the meeting was not happy and dispersed, Wang Wentao decided to take the bride price directly to the door to propose to Xiao Mianmian's parents in order to save the relationship between the two families.
So he took his bank card to Xiao Mianmian's house, hoping to marry Xiao Mianmian. But Xiao Mianmian's parents rejected him. They said their daughter was not worthy of Wang Wentao. This surprised Wang Wentao.
He didn't believe that Xiao Mianmian thought the same thing, so he cried out to see Xiao Mianmian, even if they were separated, Xiao Mianmian said to himself.
Wang Wentao waited at the door of Xiao Mianmian's house for an afternoon before Xiao Mianmian came out to see him. Xiao Mianmian told him that although she loved him very much, she did not have the courage to get along with her mother-in-law who looked down on him like that, so the two of them should be separated.
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Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
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