Children don't want to go to kindergarten? These 7 things, parents must not do

Sending children to kindergartens after every holiday, there will often be a scene of crying scenes of "tearing hearts and lungs" and "parting from life and death"... Many children have adapted to kindergarten life, but after an exciting winter vacation, they may have a strange feeling of kindergarten, so they cry and shout: "I don't want to go to kindergarten!" "Basically, after each holiday, it takes at least 1-3 weeks for the kids to get back to kindergarten life.

So, how can we simply and effectively help children re-adapt to school life? In order not to strengthen the child's rejection of the kindergarten and not to bring negative effects to the child, parents must not do these 7 things.

01

Don't make bad nutrition before school starts

Common conditions

In a few days, I will start school to go to the kindergarten to eat, the kindergarten meal is not good at home, take advantage of the holiday to make up for the nutrition, fish, shrimp, meat and eggs every day, want to eat what you want.

Adverse effects

Irregular diet, it is easy to form children who can not eat after returning to kindergarten, and overeating is also prone to illness, so as to affect normal development.

Tips

Eat regularly, drink more water, eat less greasy foods, eat more vegetables, help improve immunity, do not eat too many snacks.

02

Don't take irregular breaks

Throughout the holidays, the child wants to sleep until what time to sleep until what time, and the nap simply does not sleep.

After the holiday breaks the normal routine, the child returns to the kindergarten, needs to be readjusted, it is easy to feel uncomfortable, and the irregular schedule will also affect the child's normal growth and development.

Before the start of school, refer to the schedule of the kindergarten, go to bed early, get up early, take a nap on time, do not show your child too many TV programs before going to bed, and provide new toys.

03

Don't trick your child into kindergarten

When the child cries, he casually promises to buy a new toy for the kindergarten, or coaxes the child to go to the playground to play, and the result is to send the child to the kindergarten.

Although deceiving children will work for a while, children will feel very uneasy after discovering that they have been deceived, gradually lose their sense of security, and the prestige of parents in their children's hearts will be greatly reduced.

In the parent-child relationship, trust and security are very important, parents should not irresponsibly give promises to their children, and once the promise is given, they must be fulfilled.

04

Do not let the child's clothes reach out and eat to open their mouths

During the holidays, parents and the elderly take good care of their children, dressing, feeding, and going to the toilet every day to help.

After the child returns to kindergarten, he cannot live independently for a while and a half, and seeing that other children can complete it independently will produce inferiority complex.

At home, try to let children wear clothes, eat, urinate and defecate independently, and parents can patiently guide them on the side, cultivate children's independent habits, and want to be the same at home and in the garden.

05

Parents themselves should not be too anxious

There is always a fear that children will continue to "suffer" when they return to kindergarten, and parents themselves have become sensitive and anxious.

The parent's mood will infect the child, aggravate the child's resistance, and make the child more afraid to return to the kindergarten.

Parents' every move the child looks at in the eyes, talks about the kindergarten in a happy tone, and the child will also feel that the kindergarten is a fun place. At the same time, parents themselves should also trust and support the work of kindergarten teachers.

06

Don't scare or threaten crying children

In order to make children obedient, parents sometimes scare their children, "Don't cry!" Cry again teachers and children don't like you anymore! "If you don't obey any more, your mother won't want you!" Wait a minute.

Children's comprehension ability is limited, intimidation and threats will cause children to worry about being abandoned, so as to form psychological trauma and affect the normal development of children's psychology.

Usually instilling more information about the sunshine and positive energy of the kindergarten to the child, which helps the child to look forward to the kindergarten life more. For example, tell your child that "the kindergarten children miss you and are waiting to play with you!" ”

07

Don't compromise because you're upset with your child

The child did not want to go to kindergarten, crying and making a lot of noise, and the parents listened to it very painfully, so they helped find an excuse to postpone the kindergarten.

Once the child feels that "as long as you cry, you can not go to kindergarten", it will become more and more intense.

In addition to elements such as illness or holidays, we must insist on sending our children to kindergarten, and we cannot fish for three days and dry nets for two days.

In order to allow children to re-integrate into kindergarten life more quickly, the above 7 things that will aggravate the child's rejection of kindergarten must not be done by parents. In addition, parents can also talk more with their children about the happy life of kindergarten, arouse children's yearning for kindergarten, and also let children be psychologically prepared to return to kindergarten, which can very effectively help children alleviate "separation anxiety" after the start of school, so that children can enjoy kindergarten life more.

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