Nowadays, there are not a few leftover men and women in the older age, and the reason is that there is no longer pure love between men and women now. Most people have passed the best time to fall in love, and it is difficult to meet the right person again. More and more men and women are known through blind dates, but the success rate is not high. Nowadays, if the two want to get married and start a family, they have to consider many factors.
External conditions have become the primary point of investigation in blind dates, and each other first introduces their external situations and arranges to meet when they feel suitable. The problem of work has become the most important one for parents, and being able to have a stable and high-income job in today's society will make themselves a lot of points in the blind date.
The career list of "best boyfriends" was released, and the top of the list was recognized
The phenomenon of blind dates has become more frequent, and some people have made blind dates a strategy after experiencing many blind dates. In this strategy, the most popular boyfriend profession is reflected, and the boyfriend of this profession will generally make the success rate of blind dates higher. In the stable work that the public considers, the civil servant is certainly the most recognized by the public, but this job is not recognized by the girl.
Girls believe that boys who are doctors are the ideal candidates. Doctor work has become the top of the "best boyfriend" profession, which many people have not expected, but if you think about it, you will feel that there is a certain reason for doctors to become the top of the list. First of all, the doctor's work is very stable, as long as he does not have accidents, he will not lose his job without causing major mistakes. Boys who study medicine are more careful, they are warm men in people's mouths, and living with such people will feel very at ease.
In second place are teachers and pilots. In fact, these two jobs are not much different from the doctor position, both are stable jobs and high-income people. But doctors belong to the status of academic hegemony, and girls all hope that their boyfriends can make themselves feel admired, so teachers and pilots are in second place.
In third place are programmers and lawyers, both of whom earn high salaries, with monthly salaries of tens of thousands of yuan. But the programmer boyfriend, a relatively straight man, in this interesting era, straight men are somewhat confused, it is difficult to win the girl's favor. Boyfriends who are lawyers are usually more rational and good at talking, which makes girls have no advantage in quarrels and is very frustrated.
Civil servants have been kicked out of the "top three", and modern girls are more practical in finding a husband
We do not see the shadow of civil servants in the rankings we introduced above, but in people's minds, civil servants should be the most popular occupation. In terms of work alone, both men and women struggle to become civil servants. However, in terms of finding a partner, the advantages of civil servants are obviously not as good as the top three occupations.
Civil servants are all grass-roots positions at the beginning, and although they have good treatment, there is little room for salary increase. The work of civil servants is boring, and the daily pressure is relatively large. Many people have difficulty in getting excited to go outdoors or participate in socializing when they are resting from work. Over time, girls will inevitably find boys bored. Therefore, under the condition that there are other options, civil servants are not considered.
Today's boys are not good at finding girlfriends, they all say that girls' ideas are weird, and they don't have the heart to figure out their strange thoughts. Over time, more and more older young people are reluctant to find a girlfriend, and they are even more reluctant to take on the responsibility of supporting the family after marriage. For girls, finding a husband in today's society is more practical.
The so-called reality is not to be overly critical of the boys' external conditions, but to consider whether the two can live a long time after marriage. Now that the divorce rate is high, girls are generally reluctant to end the marriage easily, so they will think carefully before marriage, and once they find it inappropriate, they will break up immediately and do not delay each other's time.
College campus love is very beautiful, why break up after graduation?
We often see a phenomenon in today's society. Within two or three years of graduating from college, most of the young men and women who can get married have come from the college campus to fall in love. If the love that you talked about during college can last until after graduation, most of them will achieve positive results and get married and have children early.
On the campus of the university, there will be many couples. The love in this period does not have the youth of high school, nor the complexity of entering society, it is completely based on its own heart as the will, and the object of finding is also the beloved. It can be said that such love is the envy of people, but why do such beautiful feelings break up after graduation?
Couples who break up after college all have one common reason: they don't work in a city. College graduation is like a fork in the road between the world, going in different directions, southeast, northwest, and east. People on college campuses come from all over the world, and some students return to their hometowns to work after graduation, when the other half have other choices, they can only choose to separate.
It is a pity that college couples break up, and many people find a partner after graduation breakup. People who are suitable for marriage are not necessarily the ones who are extremely unwilling to love in their hearts. Employment is a very real problem, but it is not necessarily insurmountable. People like to use such realistic questions to make excuses for what they really want. Isn't it more important to find someone who is sincerely with you for the rest of your life than work?
Finally, the conditions for people to choose a mate are getting higher and higher, and those who really meet the requirements are rare. You may wish to let go of your attachment to external conditions, to contact a person well, and to treat each other with sincerity in order to find a suitable partner.
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