In today's society, more and more people regard feelings as a game. Many people have not been in love, but there is never a lack of the opposite sex around them, because they will never establish a relationship with each other, but again and again let others pay for themselves, and then get what they want, such behavior has been very common in this society.
There are many people who call this kind of man or woman a scumbag or a scumbag, so in this emotionally flooded society, what will you do when you meet such a person? Most people will say that if I let me know, then I will definitely spit on the other person's behavior and then separate from the other person.
However, more and more people, they seem to be blinded by feelings, unable to see the true face of others, people around them feel that the person he likes is very bad, but they themselves do not realize, but they fall into it again and again, until finally, they are hurt, they will realize that the person who was full of joy was deceiving himself.
Today it is Xu Ya who shares the story.
It takes you to contact you
Xu Ya is a good-looking girl, around her, there is no shortage of the opposite sex, so he thinks that he can completely unsure relationships with others, and then get some things he wants. But as time went on, there were fewer and fewer people around him, and Xu Ya decided that she must find someone who had been with her all the time.
Until a later opportunity, a boy showed his mind to Xu Ya, and told him that he liked the other party for many years, Xu Ya heard that it was such a feeling, is this not the person he has been looking for? So Xu Ya listened to the confession of the other party and herself, but she did not have the intention of establishing a relationship with the other party.
Xu Ya said: "I think the two of us just met, you confessed to me, I should not rush to establish a relationship with you, if so, then in your eyes, I am too unbearable, in fact, we can examine each other, examine each other." "If the boy needs to be excited in a day, don't say that the other party has a relationship with his own shortcomings, as long as two people can become friends."
After that, as long as Xu Ya encountered a problem, he would contact the boy for the first time, and the boy also felt that this was a kind of need to hear that the other party had a problem, and he immediately ran over, and there was no time to think. Slowly this has formed a habit, as long as Xu Ya has a problem, the boy will run over, no matter who the reason is, the boy will protect Xu Ya without hesitation.
What's more, once Xu Ya saw a particularly good bag, she called the boy directly: "I look at a bag, especially good, but I don't have money to buy, can you see if you can give me a turnaround first?" The boy said, "You look at what you and I are polite, I didn't tell you earlier, as long as you have anything you need help, you can call me, this way, you send me the bag directly, I will buy it for you, like you for so long, just when I send you a gift!" ”
Xu Ya was very excited when she heard the boy's words, she never thought that the other party would be like this. Slowly, a pattern formed between them, as long as it was something that needed to be seen correctly, the boy would buy it for her.
There are many spare tires around, and I don't want to admit it
After a long time, the boy also felt that he had paid too much for this relationship, whether it was in action or money, the boy said to Xu Ya: "Before you told me that between the two of us, you need to examine it well, you see that both of us have been in contact for such a long time, as long as you need it, I will give it to you, so in your eyes, is the two of us suitable?" ”
Xu Yayi immediately said: "For me, you are just friends, you see there are so many opposite sexes around me, they are actually like this to me, but I have not established a relationship with them, because I think it is enough for us to be good friends, if you have to make each other clear, then I can only tell you that I dare not try this relationship." ”
As soon as the boy got angry when he heard the other person's words, he left. I thought that the other party would come back, but I didn't expect Xu Ya to contact him at all. Later, he went to find Xu Ya and found that there were other boys around Xu Ya, and he asked, "Didn't you tell me that you were going to investigate and examine me?" Some time ago I was angry because of what you said to me, why don't you contact me? And why are there so many other people of the opposite sex around you? Is it for you? Are they also important people? ”
Xu Ya said: "You think too much about this person, last time I also told you, the two of us are just friends, you have to make it clear, for me, they are originally friends, we always go out to play, there is no problem in talking between the two sides, the two of us are not sure of the relationship, you manage too much." "The boy didn't speak anymore, it was true.
Say you have a boyfriend
In the end, the boy went to work on his own business and never looked for Xu Ya again.
On this day, Xu Ya called the boy and said, "Do you have time to come out and enlighten me?" Some time ago I had a boyfriend, and I was dumped, and he said it was my problem, and I really don't know what the problem is. The boy said, "Okay, then you send me the address, and I'll go to you now." ”
When the boy arrived, he looked at Xu Ya drinking there alone, and he immediately stopped and said, "I don't understand, for a boy, are you worth it?" You said that for you, I confessed to you, you think I am not a person, I have been dragging me, and now you have broken up with someone else, you call me again, in your eyes, what am I? ”
Xu Ya said, "I'm already like this, can't you help but blame me?" The boy said, "Okay, then I won't talk about you, but I have a problem, you call me again and again, what is the relationship between the two of us, I also told you, my mind, or the two of us are together, you are always dragging like this is not right." ”
Xu Ya looked at the boy and said, "I really don't think the two of us are suitable, I have a boyfriend." Listening to Xu Ya's words, the boy left without saying a word, she went directly to her friend to drink, and the friend said to him: "From school to now, you have always liked this girl, we can't bear to tell you, at the beginning when you liked him, I think this girl is OK, worthy of being liked, but after a long time, we found this girl, she is a scumbag." The boy said, "If you don't like her, don't talk about her." ”
The friend said: "First of all, the two of you did not have a definite relationship, but the girl called you and waved away, do you think this is good?" Second, for him, you are a cash machine, when the two of you first met, he would come to you with anything he valued, and your own monthly living expenses were not enough, do you think his behavior is good? Third, he has a lot of boys around him, that is, her spare tire, and he never establishes a relationship with others, isn't this hurting you? Fourth, as soon as you confess to her, she will reject you, and you say that he is not hanging on to you? In the end, every time there is a problem, he will go to you, and you are the spare tire in his eyes. Such girls are all too common in this society, and this is the scumbag. The boy was stunned by the words of his friend, he was like this in recent years, he did not expect that the other party was such a girl, the boy decided to cut off contact with Xu Ya, and sure enough, after the other party called again, Xu Ya did not answer.
Around our lives, there are many such people, most people feel that they must have their own unspeakable secrets, otherwise they would not do this, in fact, such people do not have any unspeakable secrets, they just will not face the feelings correctly, in their world, feelings are games.
In fact, it is difficult for everyone to pay their own sincerity, because everyone is afraid of really paying, and later meet bad people, waste it, but when you determine the relationship, you need to pay the sincerity, so once again I hope that many people don't always feel that the sincerity of others is not the same thing, as long as it is wasted, there is nothing, in fact, everyone, can really pay the feelings, very little, if others are willing to pay you sincerely, then you must cherish it.
Of course, the plot of the story also hopes that many boys will pay more attention, if you meet such a woman, you must avoid it in time, don't fall into it and can't extricate yourself, then no one can save you.
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