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What kind of boy has never been in love at first glance

Hello Erebati, your morning brother, suddenly appeared ~

Many of our little brothers, obviously have not talked about love of the mother's fetus solo, obviously in their hearts eager to find a girlfriend, but can not stand the expectation while instigating ah.

I always feel that girls will mind that they have no love experience, or they do not understand romance, feel that they can't find a partner, and feel that they can't stand the embarrassment of rejection.

Then he disguised himself as a love saint and put on a look that saw through the red dust, as if he didn't care, you didn't care at all, you didn't care about you, that is, you didn't dare!

You don't really think you look particularly dashing, do you? No way?

This morning brother came to tell you, how girls see that you have not been in love, all to see if you are ah, don't think you pretend to be very similar, I tell you that it is far behind.

#1 Proactively keep your distance and make little contact

Some little brothers and buddies can do anything when they are together, and they can go to the house to reveal the tiles, but once they sit with the girls, the little blush, hands and feet do not know where to put them.

In this heart, I want to see people, but I don't dare to turn my head, I want to talk, I can't open my mouth. You don't really think that girls can't feel your embarrassment, do you?

For example, the other day I went out with a few friends to have a party, and there was really a boy who was single. There are also a few single little sisters in the same group, so we will work together to create some opportunities.

I asked the boy to hand a bottle of water to a girl to talk about, and he poured it down, squeezed the bottle mouth and hid from the plague, put the water on the table in front of the girl, and then sat back in an instant.

I was so afraid that the girl would touch his hand, which would embarrass the little sister of the family, and now that I think about it, I am angry.

Look at a few little brothers in the barrage who have done this kind of stupid thing, you really are not so rigid, you say that you hand over a bottle of water and people will not say that you stink hooligans, what are you hiding?

People who have really talked about love are not so cautious, and you almost wrote "I haven't been in love" on your head. Still want to create a sense of indisputable peace? You're just thinking about farts!

#2 Self suppresses the urge to fall in love

Some boys will often suppress their love thoughts, and when they see a good girl, the first reaction is always: they should be able to be a good friend.

It's as if there is a missing string of love in this brain, and to think about it is not to think about falling in love.

Some brothers are more interesting, even if he thinks that other girls are really good, he is a little moved, he will use reason to step on this sign of love.

What is the brain circuit: she is so good, or forget it, I have no experience at all, I certainly can't catch up.

Who told you you couldn't catch up? And, you have to rely on chasing?

That's the problem, and we all think about giving up before we even start. You give up more times, and over time you will feel that people can't look up to you, every day to give yourself spiritual hypnosis, what do you say you want?

Like a person is really unavoidable, do not beat to death with a stick to feel that you can't catch up, have some confidence in yourself, first take the initiative to communicate and understand.

After you take a step forward, you will find that in fact, it is not as difficult to fall in love as you think.

In addition, girls are more or less reserved, so you don't want girls to give up with a little cold water.

Didn't Brother Chen say before, a lot of the girls' words are anti-words, you have to learn a little, what you haven't seen is to make up for me.

Don't always be so rational to restrain yourself, like it, be brave to chase, maybe the girlfriend will come!

#3 Treat girls extremely peacefully, judging two people

Many of our brothers are really old double standard monsters!

For example, some boys go out with their brothers to have a meal and drink a little wine, this big voice is eager to lift the roof, yes, with teeth biting the bottle cap, blowing the bottle, abound!

However, if there is a girl at this table, it is immediately different.

The bottle has to be opened with Kaiko, right? You have to pour the wine into the glass, right? Speak softly and softly, right?

You said that if your brother saw it, he wouldn't be able to beat you up! That is really as soon as you meet a girl, you deliberately restrain yourself, forcing yourself to laugh out of eight teeth, speak softly, temper be patient, for fear of scaring people.

Of course, it is not that this is not good, if you are such a personality, it is naturally nothing, but if you do not pretend to be exposed one day, it is not an embarrassment of capitalization.

So ah brothers, girls are actually good at observation, you inadvertently scratch your head, roll your eyes, she can know that you are very nervous now.

So if your love experience is not so sufficient, then don't deliberately hide, generous can't it?

OK that the best brother Chen also wants to say again, the love of this thing itself really depends on fate, we force it not to come, but if it comes, you don't always avoid it, let's happily accept it.

Don't let nervousness and lack of confidence get in your way, and don't try to disguise anything.

It's not wrong to have never been in love, there's nothing to be shy about, everything has its first time, so be the real you, and then bravely chase it!

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