Why do girls like gentle boys?

Hello everyone, your morning brother, suddenly appeared ~

Many of our little brothers have to say that they really racked their brains and wanted to get closer to the girls' mate selection standards, but this standard is really different, varied, so that our brother is inside and out of the wrong.

But since it is different, let's change the method, the mate selection criteria it also has a common ah?

This morning brother will give you a chat, girls generally like the gentle boy, what is it? Come, before you start, you know ha!

#1 The first condition for gentleness is meticulousness!

Brother Chen knows that many of our brothers have not talked much about girlfriends, and there are only one or two, and this practical combat experience is really poor.

Let me tell you, in fact, the reason why we girls like gentle boys is mostly because of the following equation!

Gentle = meticulous = intimate = good feeling!

Before a girl develops a crush on a boy, two hundred percent is warmed up by the boy. A brother asked how to warm ah, this is not simple?

For example, if you bring a small leather band with you, you can hand her a hair tie when you eat!

For example, when you go out, you bring a bottle of water or a drink that she likes, in case people are thirsty on the way, right?

For example, you usually pay more attention to people's tastes, do not eat a taboo, don't eat with that, she is not here to see you eat broadcast.

For another example, in case it rains when you go out, you put this umbrella on the side of the girl and lean on the other person's side, ah, this method is so much, you also go to your heart! Look how much I've for you guys one by one.

At that time, there must be a little brother who asked, so if I do this, does it mean that I am gentle?

It can't be said so absolutely. This meticulous and intimate ah, you have to accumulate more, slowly let these behaviors internalize into consciousness, and then extend from consciousness to behavior in the future, this is a positive cycle of the Eight Classics!

What you think is what you do, and what you do can affect what you think in your head, and over time, don't you become a gentle gentleman?

#2 Gentleness can ward off negative emotions

Speaking of this ability to resist negative emotions, what we need to understand is what is gentleness and what is weakness! Do many brothers think that these two are the same thing? If you're confused, you're dead wrong! Isn't that far worse?

In fact, girls like gentleness, not that she wants you to be a soft bone, not hard at all, soft and noodle-like every day, bullied outside to know to go home and hold your girlfriend and cry, or "nest horizontal", if you are really like that, she looks at you and thinks you are upset.

A truly gentle boy is often not a person who is particularly strong in life, but calm and unfazed!

Sometimes that work thing can make you scratch your ears and scratch your cheeks and jump straight to your feet, but in people's eyes: it's okay, don't worry.

He seems to have the ability to soothe your emotions instantly, to smooth out your exploded thorns in an instant. Usually such a person has a special positive energy, even if something happens to him, he can laugh at himself. For example:

F: How was today's game?

M: Harm, almost won.

F: Ah, that's a pity, you've worked so hard for so long.

M: What's that, there are more unsatisfactory things, it's a big deal to fight again next year, or a good man!

F: Mm-hmm, then come on!!

See? Therefore, many of our little brothers really need to cultivate more. You talk about your little temper, ah, this work life meets a little unhappy and angry, and I want to copy a chair to him at every turn!

Can you think twice? Can you leave yourself a few seconds to think before you lose your temper? Impulse is the devil, mature and gentle men know self-control, what about you? Hold me for 10 seconds, think about it carefully, and then decide whether to get angry or not?

#3 Gentleness makes girls feel more secure!

In fact, girls like gentle boys, most of them because gentleness will make her feel more secure, usually no matter how strong and strong girls, when in love, they hope that they can be a bird to rely on people.

Even if a person has a car and a house, the material conditions are good, or the person is very honest, but it is not a sense of security.

Many of our little brothers often wonder, when girls ask you something, you will be very strange, when did I say this? How could she remember so clearly? Isn't it? Some of them deducted me.

That's it, girls' emotions are already more delicate and sensitive, then of course she hopes that you can remember what she says.

For example, if you pass by a store and she says she wants to try it out, you write it down and take her to eat one day!

For example, if she tells you that she planted a certain brand of lipstick, you can also write it down and buy it for her as a small surprise!

In fact, the sense of security is built up bit by bit, most boys disappoint girls often because the girls say that he can't remember at all, if you can do the small hobbies and small details of the girls you like, then you have been better than 80% of boys!

Then in the end, Brother Chen also wanted to say, if you want to completely become a gentle person within a day, then you still don't have this dream, wash and sleep!

In fact, many people become gentle, they have experienced a lot of things, and then from the inside out to produce a strong and soft force, and often we girls will be touched by this power when we are in love. So, try to be a gentle gentleman.