Met a very good girl and are not sure if you like her?

Hello everybody, your morning brother suddenly appeared ~

Let's talk about the matter of love, it itself is really complicated enough, the authorities are confused, how many little brothers even know if they are rare people?

But it doesn't matter, today we don't study the careful thinking of girls today, if you want to fall in love, you must at least understand yourself first. Come and come and take out the notebook. The old rules ah, cough ~ ~

#1 Most of your mood changes are related to her

This is easy to understand, right? She's happy, you're happy because she's happy, and if she's uncomfortable, you're going to have some emotional changes associated with her because of her. For example:

M: How did you do this plan?

F: I won the prize in the competition, the first place, and the prize money!

M: Really, really, great! I said long ago that you must be fine.

F: Let's go out to dinner together in the evening to celebrate, I please.

M: OK!

See, don't you? Maybe you were quite upset, but she told you a happy thing, you can immediately feel a lot better, this is the fox tail you like!

For example, if she tells you that her feet are particularly uncomfortable and painful, then are you eager to rush to find her immediately? You're in a hurry, you're in pain, aren't they all because of her?

This is also a signal. The brother of the peep screen is thinking carefully, are you like this!

Let's put it another way, if you yourself have something happy or sad, who is the first person in your little head melon to emerge? If it's her, then, you don't understand this yet.

The mutual infection between emotions is a signal that likes to send you. If you have a person of the opposite sex around you who can pull your emotions, then use me to say ah?!

#2 will want to go further with her

We can talk about this problem from two aspects. The first aspect, we have to talk about hormones. This thing is easy to get on the head, and the result of the head is to like it.

Now, come and think about it with Brother Chen, when you are with her, especially when the two of you are alone, when you look at her, is there an impulse that has been forcibly suppressed?

If you only want to hook up with her to drink beer and k-song racing, then I guess you really don't have any ideas, that is, a good brother.

But if you think that your eyes always want to glance at people, your little hand, always want to touch people, or even do something more intimate, do you think this can still be a friend?

The second point is unconscious imitation. When you like someone in your heart, you will unconsciously become more and more like him. Of course, this is not only the boy, the girl is the same, you will behave more or less like him.

For example, she may like to eat spicy, you will also habitually start to eat some spicy ah;

For example, she usually likes to wear punk-style clothes, so you will also try that style of clothes.

For example, if she likes to watch thriller movies, then even if you are timid, will you have the urge to challenge it?

Some even scratch their heads and walk in a similar posture, and they all think back to see if you have been hit?

Of course, many of your brothers may not have found this out of their own, but if you find that you are becoming more and more similar to her, and many of your original habits have changed, then you may be 80% likely... You get the idea.

#3 You'll want to improve yourself more

Then there must be a brother to ask, like a person is inferiority? I don't carry this pot, I didn't say it.

The first element of liking a person should be that one or more of her shining points attract you, make you feel that she is getting better and better, and everything meets your standards and ideas.

If that's the case, then stop self-doubting! As the saying goes, the lover's eyes out of the West Shi well, you are so satisfied with people do not like that what ah!

You can pack up your mood, put on the filter of love, and get ready to fall into the deep sea of love.

But ah, but here's the point, if you really like her, then the feeling in your heart should be "she's really good" instead of "I'm really bad".

The former is brought to you by love, but the latter is not love, it is a naked comparison psychology!

She's the girl you like, not your competitor, what do you compare to her? Our brother must not confuse these two, if you are confused, you will be in trouble.

So, brothers, love itself should be a process that makes you gradually confident. Because two people feel that the other is better, I want to try to become better, so love is a beautiful and positive virtuous circle! Do you understand?

#4 Don't rush to explain that others misunderstand your relationship

For example, if you go out to play together, and a good friend misunderstands your relationship, and the following situation occurs, see what kind of reaction you have:

The first:

Friend: Eh, are you two getting better? Why don't you tell us about it?

You: (looked at the girl, the girl hesitated and did not speak, after a few seconds), don't say it, there is!

You like her!

The second type:

Male: (don't look at the girl directly) harm ~ where there is something, don't be blind.

You don't like her!

Now which kind of you belong to, you have a little number in mind, right? If you like her, then you admit it, you don't want to clarify at all, do you?

Moreover, if the girls clarify themselves, are you still a little lost in your heart?

And Ah Chen Brother knows that some of the old brothers, although they don't say it on their lips, in fact, they all hope that their friends will misunderstand and misunderstand, maybe god teammates will assist and assist it, right?

If you have the above psychology, then it is a real hammer, look at it yourself. But if you don't like her, clarification is not instinctive.

Therefore, I have points in my heart, don't be confused about what I think in my heart, and miss the sweet love!

Someone once said that when you fall in love with someone, that person is luminous, she is all perfect combinations, it is your complete mate selection standard.

She will make you more willing to work hard to improve and become a better version of yourself. Then if you have such a person around you, then don't doubt and hesitate anymore, and be assured to be bold and bold to love.