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For women, whether to spend time with their children at home or go out to work after having children has always been a tangled question.
For those women with academic qualifications, ability, and stable incomes, as long as they do not want to give up their jobs for the time being, even if no one at home can help with their babies, they will continue their work by asking for a nanny, etc., and will not be willing to be a housewife at home.
For women who don't have academic qualifications and don't have a stable job before marriage. After marriage, they are more likely to embark on the traditional path, the family model within the male and female protagonists, the man goes out to earn money, the woman is a housewife at home, taking care of the children and serving the parents of both sides to take care of the housework, which seems to play its greatest value, and it is also the most cost-effective model for the family.
But I would like to say that the more uneducated the mother, the less she should be a housewife at home. Otherwise it is a tragedy for the child and for himself.
Mothers who do not have any academic qualifications themselves may have limited economic conditions and have more limited education for their children, and being a housewife is not much good for her children and herself
Although it is not possible to talk about heroes in terms of academic qualifications, it is most likely that academic qualifications are directly proportional to income, and those women with high academic qualifications have a wider range of job choices and increase their incomes. The partner chosen is generally not too bad. Even if such a woman chooses to be a housewife at home for the sake of her children's education and growth after marriage, at least there is no financial worry.
But those mothers who have no academic qualifications themselves, the partners they choose are probably at the same level as themselves. Their choice to be housewives after marriage is the greatest waste of resources.
Their own abilities and knowledge are limited, even if they are housewives at home for their children, all they can do is simply accompany and receive, and they do not know how to educate their children. Attentive mothers may carefully prepare their children's three meals a day, manage the children's daily life, food, shelter and transportation, handle family affairs properly, and let the children have a stable rear.
But many mothers without academic qualifications say that they are at home with their children. In fact, it is just some qualityless, meaningless companionship. She can't help her with her children's homework, and she doesn't have the financial conditions to send her children to cram school, and she doesn't know how to communicate with her children. If you don't have anything to do at home, you can spend time by gossiping with people and playing cards and hemp in the future.
And because of the limited economic conditions, every day to worry about chai rice oil and salt, and even some trivial things, emotions are mostly negative and negative, it is easy to transfer these emotions to children, there is no benefit to children's growth and education. It also delays in making money and improving the quality of life of families. Two people always make more money together than one person. As a result, children do not get good companionship and spiritual encouragement, but also do not enjoy a good material life, and when they grow up and need money, their parents do not have any help, and life is always more difficult than others.
Therefore, I think that those mothers who are at the bottom of society and have no academic qualifications themselves should not guard their children all day, but should first go out of the house and find a job to earn money. First improve the material living standards of the family, there are economic conditions, the child's education can be handed over to professional people to manage. At the same time, working to earn money also enriches their own value, and their own pattern is high, and the impact on children will be better.
【Topic Discussion: Do you think that a mother without academic qualifications is a resource utilization or a waste at home? 】
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