Shakespeare said, "Ugly sea monsters are not as terrible as ungrateful children." ”
Ungrateful children are an indescribable grief for their parents. Obviously, the child was raised by himself, and he worked hard for the child, but in the end, in his old age, there was no one to raise.
In many families, parents often have such a deep-rooted idea, that is, the son can pass on the generations, the family property can only be left to the son, and the married daughter is not eligible to come back to compete.
But the vast majority of parents, but did not expect that when they were strong and strong, the money was given to their sons, but once they were weak and sick in their old age, at that time, who should you rely on to serve the sick and pension?
01, the parents are eccentric, giving 3 houses and 1 million to their sons
Little Joe is a gentle and kind girl, although from childhood to adulthood, her parents have been eccentric and son-preference, but she has never complained about her parents. On the contrary, every time her parents asked for something, Little Joe responded to every request, even if he was blamed by his in-laws and husband.
When Xiao Qiao got married, the 100,000 dowry given by the in-laws was intercepted by his parents, saying that he wanted to leave it for his brother to get married. Xiao Qiao was powerless to resist, but the in-laws thought that Xiao Qiao's parents sold their daughters for glory, and did not have a good look at Xiao Qiao.
Little Joe did everything in his power to please his in-laws, which slowly made his in-laws change their attitudes. But the younger brother bought a car, but once again let Xiao Qiao fall into the cold eyes of his mother-in-law.
The younger brother is about to get married, and the woman asks for a house and a car, a dowry of 100,000 yuan, and nothing less. The parents did their best to barely get the down payment of the house and the 100,000 bride price, but the down payment for the car did not land.
The parents begged Little Joe to help, and said that if Little Joe didn't help, her future sister-in-law would beat up the child in her belly. Little Joe couldn't bear it, and finally secretly gave his parents 5 yuan. That is, this 50,000 yuan, Xiao Qiao was almost divorced by her husband and got out of the house.
The demolition of the mother's family after that also brought greater embarrassment to Little Joe. The mother's family demolition was divided into 3 houses and 1 million demolition funds, the parents did not discuss with her, directly gave 3 houses and 1 million to the younger brother, the name is beautiful, after they only rely on their sons for the elderly, the daughter can not count on.
02, the mother suffered from cancer, the younger brother 3 suites only paid 5,000 yuan for rent
Xiao Qiao was unwilling, but he was powerless to persuade his parents, and in the end, he could only scold and grin in the in-laws' family, and slowly faded into contact with his mother's family. Although the husband complained, he did not say much.
I thought that my brother had 3 houses and 1 million, and his parents would have a good old age. But not long after the brother got married, the sister-in-law rented out all 3 houses, collected the rent every month to offset the mortgage of the marriage house, the car also had, the life was not dashing, there was no pressure.
However, it is bitter parents, in order to be able to stay in their son's home for the elderly, parents endured a lot of complaints and pickiness from their sisters-in-law. In order to make the sister-in-law satisfied, the parents even whispered and were cautious at home, for fear of annoying the sister-in-law and being driven out of the house.
Whenever he saw his parents' promise-only appearance, Little Joe couldn't help but be sad, but he couldn't do anything about it. The parents' demolition money and house were all given to the son, and it was natural that the son would retire, rather than her daughter taking the initiative to take responsibility.
Until the mother went to the physical examination because of physical discomfort, but was found to have cancer. Although it is early, the doctor is not optimistic, but also asked the family to prepare 100,000 yuan as soon as possible, saying that the money spent on cancer treatment and rehabilitation is not in the minority, so that the family can be psychologically prepared.
Knowing that his mother had cancer, Little Joe was in a hurry and went to the hospital with 30,000 yuan. As a result, the younger brother and the younger daughter-in-law also came at this time, and the younger brother and wife who clearly collected rent for the 3 houses only paid a total of 5,000 yuan, and they also complained tearfully, saying that it was too expensive to raise children.
03, his sister's move made him willing to spit out 50,000
Seeing the look of his brother and daughter-in-law, Xiao Qiao was a little angry. But before she could speak, her mother said to her brother very thoughtfully, there are old and young people in you, and the economic pressure is also large, and it is also considered filial piety to be able to take 5,000. Your sister's better conditions can make your sister more money.
Little Joe instantly pushed open the door of the ward, and when he saw Little Joe appear, there was a moment of embarrassment in the ward, and his mother was also a little embarrassed. Little Joe did not pay attention to his mother, but just told his brother that it was no problem for me to take more money, and you first spit out 3 houses and 1 million demolition funds. As long as you are willing to spit it out, I have no problem with all the medical expenses.
Xiao Qiao's arrogance and anger made his brother and daughter-in-law stunned at once. Perhaps they did not expect that little Joe, who has always been filial, would refuse to take money to treat his parents.
Parents also want to ease the atmosphere, but Xiao Qiao said one or two, the younger brother does not take money, she does not take money, anyway, the parents have spoken early, and the pension will return to the son later.
3 houses collect rent of almost seven or eight thousand per month, plus 1 million demolition funds, with this money, the brother and the couple do what is so easy and stress-free. Naturally, they could not swallow it and spit it out willingly.
I saw that my sister-in-law still wanted to prevent my brother from taking money, but my brother still took out the card and took the initiative to deposit 50,000 yuan in my mother's medical card. Seeing that his brother was willing to spit out 50,000, Xiao Qiao opened his mouth again: Parents are everyone's, half of the money is one person, then the care of parents is the same. You don't have time to take care of it, just hire a nurse, anyway, I won't be in the hospital 24 hours a day, I still have to work to earn money to pay off the mortgage.
Little Joe's words made his parents' faces turn red and white. They also know that they are ashamed of their daughters, but their guilt is only temporary, and the thought that their sons can pass on the generations, but the parents are righteous and strong. Daughters who marry out, spill water, they just do the decisions that most parents will make.
Little Qiao ignored the attitude of his brother and daughter-in-law, put down the money and left directly. The mother was hospitalized for 2 weeks, and the two sisters and brothers stayed in bed for 1 week, starting with the younger brother. Seeing that Xiao Qiao was finally no longer foolish, her husband did not stop Xiao Qiao from taking out 50,000 deposits this time, even if it was their down payment on the purchase of a car.
Today's Topic:
Do you think Little Joe's approach is commendable?