Foreword: Family contradictions and marital contradictions have always been problems faced by contemporary people. Life is already very stressful, and going home to fight with the people closest to you is a problem that everyone does not want to face, but they have to face.
The TV series "Dear Child" has recently been popular on the Internet, and the marriage of xiao lu and Fang Yinuo, the young couple, let the audience feel suffocated after watching it. Trivial conflicts in the family, as well as quarrels between husband and wife after marriage, make many young people afraid.
For the drama "Dear Child", the 2 major official media gave evaluations, but the main point of view is polarized, which has aroused heated discussion among netizens. People's Daily commented that "Dear Child" is selling anxiety, amplifying the unpleasantness in life, and triggering fear of marriage and childbearing.
The changes after the woman's pregnancy not only made Fang Yinuo collapse, but also made the women in front of the screen think deeply: What does marriage bring to women? The mother-in-law took her placenta and made it into chaos for the little uncle to eat, and the husband not only did not object, but left his daughter-in-law and personally sent it to his mother.
After the birth of the child, the husband only cares about the child, and Fang Yinuo's postpartum depression follows, and is completely crushed by the nanny's bowl of water. After the husband's cheating, the audience is more afraid of marriage, some netizens said that this is the reason why they do not get married.
The Guangming Network has the complete opposite view of "Dear Child", believing that marriage should have broken the filter and confronted the conflicts in life. Family conflicts are inevitable, and only by recognizing these problems will we pay attention to marriage.
There are many girls in life who marry their favorite people despite their parents' objections, and later find out that the other party is a scumbag. Although love is precious, but the heart of defense is indispensable, if you are unguarded for the other half, I am afraid that you will end up with a tragic end.
Everyone must be very curious, why the 2 major official media have such a disparity in evaluation of "Dear Child", who is right? In fact, a closer look shows that although there is a difference in the views of the two, it is actually analyzing the problem from two angles.
As an official media, the People's Network needs to control the quality of film and television dramas and the three views transmitted by the works. There are indeed many unpleasant things in life, and the things that people in the play experience are not absent in reality. But we can't amplify the contradictions and ignore those happy marriages.
The Guangming Network starts from a realistic point of view, so that everyone can face up to the marriage relationship, and only by understanding it in advance can it be avoided in the future. It seems that an opposition and a support are actually telling everyone that marriage is not as simple as everyone thinks, nor is it as outrageous as you think.
In terms of family ethics dramas, there are actually many excellent works, such as the drama "Little Joy", which has both the misfortune of Qiao Yingzi and the happiness of Ji Yangyang. Only when there is contrast will there be learning, so that everyone can know what is right!
Fang Yinuo's marriage is indeed sad, Xiao Lu and his mother, people are eager to slash a thousand knives, but there is no need for everyone to fear marriage. As long as you keep a clear head at all times and don't let love trample on your bottom line again and again, marriage is not terrible at all.
Conclusion: It is said that listening to people to persuade you to eat enough, when you are confused and collapsed, it is better to listen to the views of the people around you. What is wrong with the object that your parents oppose, with a rational mind to see, maybe you can avoid a failed marriage, what do you think?
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