The old man and the old lady chatted that the world had changed, and those hard-working men could not meet any good women, but those lazy, unreliable men, and women who followed with a dead heart.
Such things do exist, but definitely not most of them, and we cannot look at everything in this world in terms of survivor theory.
It is said that marrying chickens with chickens, marrying dogs with dogs, many people misunderstand this sentence, the original meaning is to let women identify with their husbands after marriage, and work hard with their husbands to live a good life.
Instead of being unwilling, I always feel that if I don't marry him, will I have a better life? If you are really unwilling, then don't choose marriage as soon as possible.
Of course, I have worked hard to live my life, and I have tried to manage my life well, but the other party does not cooperate, so I can also choose to leave, rather than being in place.
Recently, there was a heart-wrenching incident, a netizen in Huai'an, Jiangsu Province, broke the news that his sister was beaten into the hospital by her husband in the early morning of April.
At that time, the situation was really urgent, his sister had a heart stopped beating, and under the continuous rescue of medical staff, it was gradually restored after 20 minutes.
I thought that my sister walked around in the hands of the god of death, and there will be consequences after my sister's death this time, but the reality is not what you think, and it will always give a result that people have some unexpected.
My sister stayed in the hospital for 5 days in the ICU, and on the 5th day after being beaten into the hospital by her husband, her sister still passed away and left this beautiful world.
What makes people more heart-wrenching is that there are two daughters in the sister's family, how should these two daughters live in the future, and how they will face the death of their father and mother when they grow up.
According to this netizen, the sister and her husband have been married for 9 years, and it is reasonable to say that the husband and wife of 9 years should have a relatively good relationship, but in fact, it is diametrically opposite.
The sister is actually still a very optimistic, hard-working person, before his death to run a clothing store, and the brother-in-law married for 9 years without any serious work, it can be said that his sister is supporting the family, bearing the burden of a man.
With more and more netizens commenting, many netizens are also very angry about this, and have accused this man of being too embarrassed and has no ability to beat his wife.
Some netizens also said that they are also suffering from domestic violence, but because of their children and various reasons, they cannot make up their minds to divorce.
Every time I was abused by my husband, that moment was really like ashes, I didn't understand how long such a life would continue, and I didn't understand whether I would one day follow the old path of this woman.
Look at the comments of netizens in the comment area, in fact, there are many people who have been abused by domestic violence, there are men and women.
Although domestic violence can choose to call the police, but there are several people will do so, too many people choose to compromise, choose to forgive each other's mistakes, just for the harmony of the family.
But domestic violence is like betrayal, there will be a second time with the first time, if you easily forgive the other party, you are giving the other party the motivation to commit violence again.
Domestic violence must not easily forgive each other, when being abused, do not blindly only know how to be beaten, but also learn to try to resist, after all, rabbits can bite people in a hurry.
Many times it is not how powerful the person in Gabu is, but the other person is too weak to learn to arm himself and make his kindness sharp.
In addition to the person who has been abused by the family, do not easily forgive the perpetrator, after being abused by the family, you should actively go to the police, seek the intervention of the community or the police, and carry out family mediation and supervision.
Although many people are persuaded and dissuaded in their hearts, sometimes this is not a good thing.
For example, if a person is abused by the family, people around her advise her to take into account the overall situation, do not easily mention divorce, and do not go to the police, which is actually a kind of aid and abetting abuse.
People around them should also actively help people who have been subjected to domestic violence, rather than morally kidnapping a victim, who seems to be doing good in fact, but is actually doing evil, but many people do not know it.
Whether it is a man or a woman, before marriage, you must spend more time to understand each other's character and character, love is not only wind and snow, love is the investigation of the marriage object.
Spend more thought before marriage, spend less time after marriage, money, appearance, family lineage, etc., this is not very important, these are always foreign objects, a reliable person is the guarantee of happiness.
It is normal for husband and wife to have contradictions, communication is the right way to resolve conflicts, fists are never the way to solve problems, it may seem to have a miraculous effect, but it buries greater hidden dangers.
Violence can never bring people to their knees, and only spiritual reconciliation can make each other truly identify.