Some people say that children are the glue of marriage, which can make couples who are not very concentric in the first place become concentric; of course, some people say that children are the fuse of marriage, and it only takes a fire to blow it up.
Recently in the pursuit of the "Dear Child" drama, the first scene is the heroine Fang Yinuo, because of the pregnancy of the child, the face has spots, and there are stretch marks on the stomach, through the mirror to show the sadness.
I have to say that women are really great and pay too much for their children. But even so, there are still people who are willing to endure the long spots on the face and the loss of body shape for the men they love. If there is no love as a support, the average person really can't do it.
Fang Yinuo undoubtedly loves Xiao Lu, but as an outsider, in addition to appearance, the couple can't see it right. The wife is going to give birth, as the husband Ofugh, Xiao Lu, but at home drinking beer, watching TV and falling asleep.
What is even more infuriating is that the wife has finished giving birth, but the man who is a family member is gone, leaving Fang Yinuo alone, facing the pointing of the medical staff, at that moment, her heart must have collapsed, lamenting how she was so blind and looking for such a man.
Of course, it is not right to say that Fang Yinuo is completely correct. She has her own pain and bitterness, but it is inevitable that her life will bump and bump, and if she really wants to worry, she will not be able to live.
As a teacher, Fang Yinuo naturally knows how to look at the current predicament. She knows that her husband has a problem, but she is still willing to have children for him, which is the greatness of love.
In fact, she also anticipated the unpleasantness after marriage, what she did not expect was that it hurt to have a child, and after giving birth, raising a child would actually collapse like this.
Although before this, she had done her homework and carefully selected the sister-in-law, but under her keenness, she found that there was a problem with the sister-in-law, and after a few days of care, the newborn child had jaundice and was admitted to the hospital.
Even so anxious, she had no intention of driving away or dismissing her sister-in-law, but the other party sneaked away and took her family's books when she left.
After some twists and turns, Xiao Lu took the initiative to find his mother Gao Caiping, and under the persuasion of bitter words, he finally agreed to take care of his daughter-in-law and granddaughter. If things had gone so well, it wouldn't have caused so much unpleasantness.
Although Gao Caiping has no culture, her heart for her granddaughter is still very good. Not to mention that in order to take care of her daughter-in-law, even her beloved mahjong has been abandoned.
But in Fang Yinuo's eyes, she didn't see her mother-in-law's efforts, only staring at what was not done well. As an outsider, Gao Caiping's mother-in-law is not perfect, but she is also generally passable, much better than many mothers-in-law.
At least, Gao Caiping is willing to obey Fang Yinuo. This is very rare, to know that in reality, many mothers-in-law like to put up a shelf in front of their daughter-in-law, let alone listen to their daughter-in-law' words.
In this regard, the high color screen is indeed commendable. Although she has a mahjong addiction and a smoking addiction, she is making trade-offs for her daughter-in-law and granddaughter, but after all, she is not a saint, but an old lady in the countryside, and naturally there are times that are difficult to control.
The turning point of the matter was that when Gao Caiping took care of her granddaughter Hehe, she accidentally dropped her. The cause was that she, a moment of mahjong addiction, did not look at the small cart containing her granddaughter, let it slide down the slope, the car stuck in the groove, and the baby inside fell to the ground.
Coincidentally, Fang Yinuo went downstairs to check because he did not trust his mother-in-law, and encountered such a heart-wrenching scene. Fortunately, after some examination, the child was not in serious trouble, but was a little frightened.
When such a thing happened, Gao Caiping also blamed herself, although she apologized, but the gap between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was generated. Although Fang Yinuo said that he forgave his mother-in-law and promised her mother-in-law to stay and continue to take care of her confinement, he let her mother also participate.
Mother-in-law and mother have come to serve the confinement, it is really not what ordinary people dare to think, you must know that a mountain does not tolerate two tigers. The reason why Fang Yinuo dared to make such a calculation was that he wanted his mother-in-law to retreat from the difficulty.
Although Ms. Gao Caiping understood her daughter-in-law's intentions, she could not erase her face and could not explain to her good sisters when she went back, so she chose to continue to stay, even if she was wronged in her heart, she also suffered silently.
Sometimes I think it, Gao Caiping's mother-in-law is still quite pitiful. The husband left early, and he pulled the eldest two children alone, and the bitterness and bitterness in it may not be clear in three words.
Although Gao Caiping looks very grinning, heartless and lungless, she knows that home and everything is happy, even if she is wronged, she must keep the peace of her son's family.
Overall, Gao Caiping is more reasonable than Fang Yinuo's mother, at least not to find things, is to think of living under the same roof, and to live with Harmony and Beauty.
After getting along for a long time, you will find that Fang Yinuo's mother is not a fuel-saving lamp, and it is difficult to pick bones in eggs. Although in the play, only a big contradiction broke out, it was because of the arrival of xiao Xu, the little uncle.
Rather than saying that Xiao Xu was the fuse, it was better to say that everyone in the family had a fire hidden in their hearts. Gao Caiping's grievances naturally need not be said more, Fang Yinuo's mother and daughter are more than a long time backlog, and they have long wanted the small universe to explode.
Although the biggest quarrel ever broke out, he was still appeased by Xiao Lu, his "sandwich cake" is really not easy, everyone has to take care of it, but no one takes care of his emotions.
Some people say that the film and television drama amplifies the difficulty of raising children, which makes people panic about marriage. Putting aside some excessive bridges in the play, as far as confinement is concerned after marriage, it is really impossible to let the mother-in-law and mother serve.
Fang Yinuo has many problems himself, and he will not grasp the big and let go of the small. If a person is always in a state of mental tension, her emotional life is bound to have problems.
On the surface, she was cared for by her mother-in-law and mother, but in fact, the mother and daughter were united to deal with the mother-in-law and try to give the mother-in-law a look.
That's not smart. Take the mother and daughter to take Hehe down to hang out, what happened to multiple mothers-in-law, the mother and daughter just did not let it, but also showed concern, saying that it is rare to have time, to take advantage of this good rest.
This is obviously to prevent the mother-in-law from touching her granddaughter, so as to aggravate her guilt that she did not look after her granddaughter before. On the surface, he forgave and accepted his mother-in-law's apology, but in his heart he still did not pass this hurdle.
Some people say that the moon child feud can be remembered for a lifetime. To tell the truth, I don't quite understand what the person who said this really meant. Is it true that the mother-in-law under the sky is not good to see the daughter-in-law? Do you love to pick things up and don't want a harmonious family?
If a person is not a sage, how can he be blameless? If you have made a mistake, do you still not give forgiveness, and you have been holding on to it. While punishing others, you are not happy yourself, so why be so paranoid.
It is no wonder that the marriage of the last Party Yinuo ended dismal. It's not that her husband Xiao Lu is not good enough, but that they have problems with each other, and the fault is not one side. A relationship goes to dissociation, and both parties are responsible.
Fang Yinuo is too strong, and sensitive and suspicious, Xiao Lu's heart is like a mirror, and he has been carefully caring for it, but he still let the husband and wife have a gap, and since then the feelings have become more and more cold.
This should also be a wake-up call for all married people, even men and women who are about to enter marriage. Married life is not perfect, we must learn to grasp the big and let go of the small, not too real.
At the same time, husband and wife must communicate more, understand more, and family members must be less calculating and tolerant. Only in this way can the family live a beautiful and happy life.
Of course, although these principles are simple, it is a little difficult to run through from beginning to end. The road is simple, the good is like water, and we need to water the tree of marriage with our hearts.
How much you put your heart into it, how much it will naturally give you back. There are no unearned feelings in this world, and the quality of marriage is the result of your past. If you don't want to fail miserably, then spend more time on running the marriage.