Xiao Mu, played by Li Qinqin, gives people a poor first impression.
At the beginning, I was worried about my daughter-in-law's placenta. On the day her daughter-in-law gave birth, the first thing she thought about was to ask her son to take out the placenta for her. To this end, she also specially brought a thermos pot to pack, saying that this is fresh and will not be broken.
Xiao's mother took her granddaughter's placenta, went back to wrap the wontons, and gave it to her young son to eat, saying that it was a big supplement.
Even Xiao Lu, who knew about it, said that if his mother secretly cooked this for himself, he would not eat anything made by his mother for the rest of his life.
This may stem from psychological resistance and rejection, and everyone is the same.
But Xiao Mu Gao Caiping is different, she is a typical woman with some more traditional ideas, thinking that this thing is very complementary, so she will come to make it for her relatives to eat.
To say something ugly is actually feudal superstition.
She is very obvious in this regard. For example, once when her granddaughter Hehe fell ill, others wanted to find a doctor to treat the disease, and what she thought of was to burn paper outside, saying that this would drive away some strange things, and Hehe's illness would be better.
Later, after Hehe got leukemia, she looked for the placenta again, thinking that this thing was very useful, but she did not know that it was of no use to others.
Anyone who meets such a mother-in-law will have some resistance and fear in their hearts, and they don't know what she will cook for herself one day.
So at the beginning, seeing such a mother-in-law really made people a little down.
After taking care of her granddaughter, Gao Caiping once again let people witness another characteristic of her, unreliable.
How unreliable is it, the first day she went to her son's house to take care of her granddaughter, she came in a big bag. One of them took a large bag of shaw's clothes they wore when they were children, and said they would wear it for their granddaughter.
This is to say that the good point is thrifty, and the ugly point is to cut the door.
The clothes of decades ago, not to mention the fabric, have been put away for so many years, even if they are washed, there is no guarantee that there will be no reaction when worn on the baby. In order to save this money, put the granddaughter in this uncertain and dangerous situation, and replace it with what no one wants.
Not only that, but when he loves to smoke, when he takes his granddaughter out, he also secretly smokes and indulges in watching others play mahjong. Because she likes it very much, she sometimes helps others play a few games.
Once, my granddaughter's cart slid straight down the road and finally fell to the ground halfway down, knocking my granddaughter to the ground.
No matter which one is a mother, seeing this scene, it will be painful. The unreliability of the high color screen makes people dare not trust the child to her.
So later, Fang Yinuo's mother retired 2 years early and came to take care of her granddaughter together.
A mother-in-law like Gao Caiping, from the above point of view, is really not much better. But later I found out that this mother-in-law was actually not so bad.
We have seen how many pairs of daughters-in-law speak ill of each other, never had a good face of the mother-in-law, and then look at the high color screen, found that she is still very pleasing.
First of all, she loves her granddaughter and her loved ones. Whether it was her burning paper, or something else, although it was of little use, in fact, her heart was good. Her original intention is for the good of her relatives, whether it is good health or to overcome the disease, in short, her starting point is definitely not bad.
It's just that her way, few people can identify with or understand. In fact, her actions did not offend anyone other than incomprehensible.
Secondly, Gao Caiping is really good for the daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law confinement, she will stew pig's foot soup to give the daughter-in-law milk, and what turtle, although the daughter-in-law is full of disgust, but Gao Caiping does these, really for the daughter-in-law.
She herself was free at home, why should she come to serve others. But the son said a word, and she came.
Not only that, but we rarely see such a low-profile mother-in-law. After the granddaughter was thrown, the family also came to take care of the children together, as soon as she came, she assigned the task, she took care of the children, and Gao Caiping did housework.
From this moment on, Gao Caiping was actually treated as a nanny-like role, but she did not complain, mopping the floor every day, cooking, and doing a good job.
Gao Caiping looked very grinning, as if she didn't care about anything, in fact, she was very sensible. Not taking good care of her granddaughter and letting her fall, she does have an unshirkable responsibility. So the family arranged it this way, and she accepted.
From another point of view, this is the punishment she approves of herself after doing something wrong.
Finally, Gao Caiping is very fair in the face of her son and daughter-in-law.
The son cheated on her, which made the daughter-in-law sad, and she went to teach her son a lesson at the first time, and counted him down to the daughter-in-law. Later, he bought a gift and personally apologized to his son.
On this attitude of handling things, we know that Gao Caiping is actually a very good mother-in-law, and when she encounters things, she will not protect her son for no reason, she is a reasonable party to maintain.
I would like to ask, when such a thing happens, is there a mother-in-law who first finds a problem with her daughter-in-law? In fact, in life, there is. After all, the son is born to the son, and the daughter-in-law is born from someone else's family, and the nature is different.
However, the behavior of the high-color screen is impressive. After knowing that her daughter-in-law was hurt and the final outcome was doomed, she came to Fang Yinuo for the last time, did not keep it, but apologized, and brought a lot of handmade food to her daughter-in-law.
Because she knew that maybe this would be the last time she'd get along in that capacity.
There is no doubt that Gao Caiping has shortcomings, but the kind of light that blooms on her own can really cover up some shortcomings.
When watching "Dear Child", many people shared in the bullet screen, and some people said that their mother-in-law was far less good than Gao Caiping. Some people say that her mother-in-law is really good.
In fact, as a mother-in-law, the most important point is to be able to compare hearts to hearts and be kind.
And these two points, Gao Caiping has done, she has some bad habits left over from childhood, but she is warm and kind, and always thinks about her relatives. Such a person will never go bad.